what's up guys i'm here at Gold's Gym
and i'm going to show you how to
approach at the gym which can be a
little intimidating especially if you're
not a really big you know buff guy like
I'm pretty average and at this
particular Gold's Gym in Venice Beach
there's a lot of meetings a lot of
spaces so it can be a little
intimidating even for me. But the thing
is I've been going here for about a
month and a half and I've never seen a
guy approache a girl at the gym. I think
I'm pretty sure I'm the only guy that
does it. I've done it about three or four
times now so just try it, man and I'll give
you an example in just a second. But I
recommend that you just go direct
because if you just start a conversation
and say "hey you have really nice form" or
"hey, how do you use that machine" or "hey,
let me show you how to use that machine"
or something like that she knows what
you're doing. she's not stupid. she knows
that you're trying to hit on her and
you're beating beating around the bush
so instead just cut to the chase and
redirect it shows that you have
confidence it shows that you don't need
an excuse so you don't beat around the
bush and it just cuts to the chase
quicker because women here are working
out. especially at this gym in
particular they're really serious about
their lifting and their exercise so just
cut to the chase you want the
interaction to be short so she can get
back to her exercise and so that you can
get back your exercise too because let's
face it you're here to work out so the
approach can just take a minute or two
it doesn't have to take longer than you
know one or two minutes but the key is
you have to remember to acknowledge the
reality because she is working out she
is busy so you want to say hey I know
this is kind of rude i know you're in
the middle of your exercise and i
actually have to get going but i just
had to tell you and then whatever it is
that you had to tell her whatever
compliments that you want to tell her.
excuse me, real quick... this is
totally random and I know you're in the middle of your workout
but just I saw you here and I had to at least say hi.
get going it's actually a video blog
what is this little thing is that a 360
[small talk]
Do you have IG? yeah you should follow me.
so I do like a dating coach vlog. Is it cool if I use this?
Yeah! Definitely. Savannah right? yeah yeah
I gotta get going okay so there you have
it man even though I got caught with the
camera it still worked I got our
Instagram and I got her Facebook now
sometimes guys will say you know is that
as good as a phone number I think it's
better than a phone number because she
can see pictures of your life see videos
of your life which is better than just a
phone number right those are just digits
and i hope this disproves all the haters
from the last gym approach video that we
posted that said you know just go to the
gym to work out it's not a place to hit
on girls you shouldn't be doing that it
can just take a minute or two out of
your workout so why not do it there's
plenty of women there you know why not
talk to a few here and there you know
they're not going to be mad and if they
are if they're like okay thank you but
I'm not really into this and just say
okay anyways have a great day enjoy your
workout and then just remember her name
and just say hi wave at her every time
you know you can always befriend them, too.
so try it man I know a lot of excuses
might go through your head they go
through my head to whether it's
appropriate or not to do this at a gym
but I say why not so give it a try man
and leave a comment down below let me
know how it goes for you peace if you'd
like to be able to approach women in any
situation without fear nervousness or
hesitation and overcome all your
approach anxiety then check out this
free training that I put together for
you that reveals a simple technique that
you can do in a matter of seconds to
eliminate fear just click the link down
in the description and i'll send you
that training my name is matt artisan
from the attractive man and i'll see you
in the next video