ALEXIS: So today I talked to Tracy about me being
self-centered and spoiled.
And I focused a lot on me and not Danley and I.
It's all about me, me, me, me, me.
And I use that--
I'm a only child-- as a clutch to be able to get what I want.
And I realized that wasn't right.
So I want to change and work on that.
And focus on Danley, my family, his side, and all
become together.
SHANILE: She says she's gonna try to work on her ways.
So that's progress.
They have to put in that time and that effort
to really make it work.
And that's what I want to see.
ALEXIS: What I told Chanel earlier--
when we had our one on one--
is that, you know, if Danley doesn't
get saved then I can't marry him,
because I want a god fearing man.
But I said I'm going to believe what
he told me that he will get saved,
because that means a lot to me.
VENITTA: Being saved will it make you trust him more
and you stop looking at his cell phone?
I would stop looking in.
But I mean--
DANLEY: But--
ALEXIS: --actually, because do you want to look at my phone?
I'm just going to ask you. [INTERPOSING VOICES]
DANLEY: Not really.
VENITTA: If you do trust him and you know that your man
is loyal and faithful to you--
why do you need his password? ALEXIS: Because I want it.
Because I should have it.
Why?
DANLEY: You have an attachment where
you have to look at my phone, and have
to look at all of my stuff--
never find anything and you still are insecure.
You're young!
You're a young guy.
OK?
I have insecurities maybe it's because, like, how I grew up.
Like, I seen a lot of guys treat girls really bad.
Automatically I assume that if I'm not with him,
he's cheating on me.
I don't know.
I just never in my life trusted a man.
DANLEY: You know how she overcome that issue?
ALEXIS: Let them get too much rope.
That's when they get comfortable.
So what you're saying is--
And that's when they can do something.
TIFFANY: If he wanna cheat, you could
have all the passwords in the world
and he will make that thing happen.
Trust me.
He could still do it no matter what.
Think about how unfair that is to Danley.
[INTERPOSING VOICES] - I don't care.
I don't care.
SHANNON: Would you like for them to do that at your job?
ALEXIS: No. - Right.
You have something that a lot of people want, Alexis.
You have a man that's a hard worker.
MAN: I would date him.
TIFFANY: That love you.
That pretty much worships you.
Loyal.
TIFFANY: Loyal.
Like, appreciate it. ALEXIS: I don't care.
I still want your phone password.
But you're not gonna trust me regardless.
RAYNELLE: Her whole mood went back to the first frickin' day.
I'm tell you what I said.
Hey yo, stop pointing at me like that.
TIFFANY: I mean, we're talking about a simple cell phone
and she's, like, flip a switch.
RAYNELLE: And I think it's just like, is it really the phone?
Or is it just the concept of you not being
able to have that control?
That control.
Whatever.
SHANILE: There you go with the control and stuff again.
And nothing gets solved.
SHANILE: He doesn't do anything to hurt you.
So now all of a sudden you trying to break
things down over a phone. ALEXIS: Yes, I am.
Why's it mean so much to you all?
I'm trying to understand that.
Because if you're saying you trust me--
ALEXIS: That's why I'm upset. - You love me--
ALEXIS: It doesn't matter. - You believe me.
I treat you right. ALEXIS: It doesn't matter.
DANLEY: So why is this such an issue for you then?
It Is. DANLEY: It's a control thing.
I'm not listening.
Danley could be by himself if he wants.
Danley can switch all his passwords he wants.
I'm going to switch all my passwords.
VENITTA: No, let me tell you something.
ALEXIS: We're going to keep going just like that--
OK, but you shouldn't do it with anger.
It's going to be anger because Danley wants
to do what he wants to do. - Now she's getting angry.
Now she's getting upset.
Did you know that selfish people should stay single?
Did you know that? - Maybe I should.
TIFFANY: OK.