10 Reasons Why Girls Don't Like Nice Guys.
You heard the lament before, women complain about men who behave like fools, and then
keep coming back every now and then with the one that does not give them roses and does
not worship the ground beneath their feet.
Meanwhile, you try to become the best Mr. Nice Guy and end up in the category of "friend".
Then comes the question, why the good guys finish last?
1.
Do not look good protectors.
Perhaps this goes back to the days of our ancestors cavemen, but historically, men have
always protected women.
The good guys do not seem even to defend themselves, much less his girl.
Maybe there's not a giant mammoth trying to take her, but there are still thieves and
bad guys, and women who want to feel that whoever is with them can deal with this.
2.
They try too hard.
Good guys put women on a pedestal and act as if they were a kind of goddess.
They would jump into the sea because of their love.
They declare too fast, with too much momentum.
They put aside their own because of hers.
Women are human too and do not need to be put on a pedestal which is very easy to fall
of.
3.
Good guys are predictable.
Many people live fairly predictable lives: Marries, has two children, goes to work, and
retire.
Women do not want to adhere to dating a guy who is going to be so predictable that will
know each of his movements.
They like a bit of novelty and spontaneity.
Women want to know they will have fun with the guy they are, and won't have a festival
of yawns.
4.
Good guys seem doormats.
The good guys almost never raise their voice when something irritates them and rarely know
what they want or need for fear of a conflict that will result in losing his girl.
Letting people walk all over you without setting any limit signals that probably you do not
have character.
Without character, there's no respect because it is difficult to respect a guy who let others
treat him badly.
Also, if you're too afraid to kick the board, this also indicates that you probably would
not stop to defend her either.
And that is not attractive to any woman.
5.
The good guys expect kindness.
The good guys expect kindness because they are so super sweet, that people should respond
lovingly.
But the problem is that they let their own emotions and feelings in the back seat, on
behalf of the others, and when others are not reciprocal, play the role of victim.
No woman wants to deal with a guy who has a martyr complex.
6.
good guys seem to pretend.
The good guys may seem too good.
No one can be sweet as sugar all the time unless is a saint.
If you're too good to every person that you cross path with, it looks like you're pretending
rather than being genuine goodness.
You can not please everyone or be happy in every situation, so if you find yourself perpetually
putting on a happy face, it may be time to reexamine your real feelings and let them
out.
This shows that you are a real person with real feelings and not that you're just "acting".
7.
Good guys are not a challenge.
Good guys make it easy to eat sweets and chips on the couch.
They give the sensation that they will never go, so girls do not care to look good because
they don't think that they will even matter.
Women look to be with someone who presents them challenges, it keeps the relationship
going.
Challenges her ideas, discusses, makes her work.
That makes the relationship more interesting.
8.
Good guys seem insecure.
The good guys are so eager to be liked and accepted that women never know if the guys
really like them or want to be with them because they paid attention to them.
On the other hand, for those seeking a quick fix of their ego or just a free drink, the
good guys are simply stupid, and it's easy to take advantage of them.
You are the one who teaches others how to treat you, so if you act insecure and needy,
people (including women) will treat you as such.
Insecurity is also the most un-exciting.
9.
Good guys do not seem to be good in bed.
Being a good guy is not a good sign of being good in bed.
Women enjoy being with a man who can take control and bring them to fruition.
Being soft, sweet and a gentleman all the time is not the hottest vibration.
A woman wants to know that a man is not going to treat her like a piece of porcelain in
bed.
10.
Good guys do not behave like men.
Good guys think that always asking her opinion makes them sensitive, but often is annoying.
Women want a guy who can take charge and choose the restaurant, create a plan or make a decision.
Always asking her before deciding is irritating and makes you look as if you didn't know what
to do.
You do not have to be an arrogant stupid to get a hot girl, but you must have character.
You have to like yourself, feel secure and be able to stand by yourself.
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