- I'm a married man.
(dramatic music)
(countdown ticks)
- Can I ask everyone's age?
'Cause I'm very young, I'm only 22.
- [The Group] Oh. - [Cloverse] Yeah, very young.
- I'm 29. - [Cloverse] Okay.
- I'm 27.
- I'll be 28.
- 25, almost. - 33.
- [Clovers] Okay.
- Scottie Pippen you're a baby?
(the group laughs)
- So how did everybody propose?
- So I took her back to Boston,
which is where we went to school.
Took her in front of the dorm where we first met.
- Ah, nice.
- That's where we first met in person,
'cause before that I slid in the DM.
(the group laughs)
Into Facebook DM, by the way, guys.
We did like a little Bollywood flash mob
in front of the dorm. - Nice. That's what's up.
- Yeah, that's actually nice, yeah.
- Yeah, that's pretty cool.
Well, he proposed on the Santa Monica Pier,
'cause it's one of my favorite locations, on my birthday.
So I'm from Colombia, he's from L.A.
- Okay.
- And we went back and forth,
and then when I came that time he proposed,
and then we had to do that whole immigration thing as well.
So, yeah.
- She really wanted to take couple photos,
like at the time.
And then we like went and like did like a photo shoot,
and then like she had like her back turned
to like towards the camera,
and like I had like, the ring (ring box dings)
and then like when she turned round,
I popped the question.
- Love it.
- I was actually active duty
for my first year,
and my wife actually decided to join.
So for a graduation, I proposed at graduation.
I mean, it worked out just only because her family
was gonna be there, and my family was gonna be there,
for the graduation.
- Took her to our first date spot,
which was the Gaylord Hotel.
It was under a really nice gazebo,
and there were like snowflakes (snowflakes twinkle)
coming out in the background and everything,
'cause they were doing some event,
and that's where I proposed to her.
- Nice.
I told her that my sister wanted to do a shoot with her.
So, when the photographer was like taking photos of them,
I just showed up with the ring.
I was like, oh hey. (ring box dings)
- Smooth, smooth.
- So like they were taking photos of us anyway.
- Yeah.
- And then mine, I didn't really propose.
It was like arranged,
but, I mean, we just agreed to it.
She actually lives in Pakistan right now.
Yeah, it's a little long distance thing. Yeah.
- Is that because you guys are waiting on like...
- The immigration stuff?
Yeah.
- Man, that's rough.
- Is it hard doing the whole long, long distance thing?
- Hundred percent.
Texting and stuff and the nighttime.
- Oh yeah.
- Yeah. (Cloverse laughs)
(bell rings)
(dramatic drum music)
- Man, he's a, he's a handsome guy.
So I, I, I thought in my head,
I was like, oh this guy's definitely an F boy.
(dramatic drum music)
- Andy just carries this like nervous energy.
I feel like when we started the game,
it's all like, just the pauses
and like the little nervous energy
really made me like, suspicious of him.
(dramatic drum music)
- You look like a (beep) boy.
- [Presenter] What does an F boy look like to you?
- Nose piercings.
(nose piercing dings)
Maybe a hat.
That's pretty much it.
(title slams)
- [Presenter] And we actually have a tie.
(dramatic music)
- Dun, dun, dun!
- [Presenter] Andy.
- Wow.
- [Presenter] And Justin.
- [The Group] Ooh.
- [Presenter] We're gonna have you talk
a little bit about marriage.
Both of you will have 30 seconds to do so.
(countdown ticks)
- So we've been married for a little over six years.
I wanna say the first year was like the hardest year.
I'm like a family guy,
so having to like kind of ex-
not excommunicate,
but like distance myself from my family.
So like, it was like literally just like me and my wife,
like best friends.
That's like where like,
the majority of like our growth has come from.
Just like really just like separating myself
from like, my family.
Six years later, we have two beautiful daughters.
Three and one.
- I think the biggest thing I learned,
you know, going into marriage,
was the importance of communication.
And my wife really helped me
kind of learn those things, with trial and error.
I think communication's the number one thing
in any relationship,
let alone marriage.
And I know this is completely irrelevant,
but what I'm saying is,
I'm trying to get you guys to understand that like,
I know what the most important thing in marriage is,
and that's communication.
- [Presenter] Who would like to vote Andy out?
(counter ticks)
(cross buzzes)
- Good luck guys.
- I believe you.
You are a married man. I believe you.
(countdown ticks)
- So, what is an F boy to you guys?
- I like think I'm like a cis male,
like a straight man.
That's just like what I've always thought of.
Like, when I thought about like an F boy.
- I think a (beep) boy is somebody
that like leads people on.
- I was gonna say the same thing, yeah.
- Right? In order to get them to,
to, to do whatever, right?
Like, I don't think it's as simple as
just someone that has a lot of partners, right?
'Cause that, that's totally fine,
as long as all parties, that's the arrangement
that they want.
- He was just like really confident
in like, his answers,
of like what an F boy was,
and I was like, this is the guy.
He was like saying all like the right answers.
- Yeah, I was gonna say,
mine's pretty much the same definition.
Someone who's just using you for the time being,
for whatever the reason is, I guess.
- Like, to you guys, is it like,
why do, why do people would need to go
for the emotional aspect
to get like the sexual part?
Like, why don't you just go for that?
- Well, I think that's the point,
what they don't, there's no emotion attached.
- Well, yeah, but why don't you just say like,
"Hey, I want this, and that's it."
- Well, that would be a good person.
(the group laughs)
- Yeah, yeah.
- But like, it's a lot easier.
Because that that thing in like queer communities
doesn't happen that much.
Like that concept of F boy. - Really?
(the group chatters)
- Can you like, elaborate on this, please?
- Well, it's just like,
if you want to go on a hookup with people,
you're kind of like straightforward with it.
Just text someone and say like, "Hey, you down?"
"Yes, down."
- Yeah. - But, like.
I don't need to go and say like,
"Oh, you know,
I'm thinking of wanting a relationship,
and I see myself with you,"
to kind of like get you to that.
- Can we be fair though?
To be honest though, it's kind of both ways,
if you think about it.
Like, the reason we have (beep) boys
is why good men like actually, you know what I mean?
Like, get appreciated.
- Yeah.
- And just like, if we remove that entirely,
then I feel like the standards would be even higher,
in a way. - What?
- Do you understand what I'm saying?
- I understand. - That makes sense, right?
- You're kind of saying like,
sunny days wouldn't be special without rain,
kind of thing.
- Right, exactly.
- [Tenn] But, but at the same time though,
if our status quo was that everybody was a good person,
I don't think it would be that way,
as humanity would just be like,
"Oh sweet, everybody's good."
"I can trust anyone."
- Really? You think so?
- [Tenn] I, I think so, yeah.
- Are you all monogamous?
- Yes. - Yeah.
- Like, hundred percent.
- No open relationship.
- Yeah. My culture will not allow for that.
- What's your body count?
Can I ask that?
- All right, now now.
We talk about it. We talk about it. Yeah.
- Okay. What's, what's yours?
- I said one.
My wife, yeah.
- [Robert] Really, that's it?
- [Justin] Growing up, yeah.
And for me, like grew up like,
in like the Christian like, home,
and so I knew that like,
it was gonna be like my wife was gonna save myself
for marriage and all that stuff.
- And, you did?
- I got made fun of a lot.
Like being like working in like,
I mean just like the warehousing environment,
but I'm just like, "I know what I want,"
and it worked out in the end.
- I was too.
I'm actually Christian too,
but my wife was actually my, my second body,
so she wasn't my first.
- Yeah.
I was just trying to catch somebody slipping.
Like that, I'm not trying to shame anybody.
I'm not trying to like, yeah.
(bell rings)
(dramatic drum music)
I unintentionally, intentionally,
proceeded to give him side eyes anytime I could.
I was like, you're, you're the mole.
- I felt as though Justin was very suspicious of me.
He seems like he's going to want
to eliminate me at some point,
so I'm gonna just try to eliminate him right now.
(cross buzzes)
- Wow. Wow.
- [Presenter] So Justin,
we'll have you step out of the box.
- I'm hurt.
- [Presenter] And then just come take a seat.
- I'm hurt. I trusted some of you guys.
(the group laughs)
Just some of you guys.
- [Presenter] If you think the mole is still in the box
and you'd like to continue the game,
please raise your hand.
(dramatic music)
- What?
- I'll, I'll rock this through.
- Come on.
- I'm actually fairly confident
that we don't have the mole here.
I'm like maybe 90%,
'cause somebody could be a really good actor.
- I feel like we've got the mole.
- There's a reason I'm certain,
and I, I want to call it out next round.
So I, I just have a big feeling.
- Let's do it. - Okay.
- [Presenter] All right, it's okay?
- Yeah, let's do it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. All right.
- [Presenter] All right. (countdown ticks)
- Okay. There's two people
I'm really like cautious,
but I'm more cautious about Syrus,
because of the reactions.
I feel like from last like questioning,
about the (beep) boy,
it seemed like he kind of like took it to heart.
He was like, "But why would you wear, view it that way?"
And I caught onto that. - I was kinda thinking too.
- And I was like "Why is he...?"
- [Robert] That is a pretty solid point.
- Yeah. And then also, no offense,
but I feel like you haven't spoken about anything.
I can't remember why you got married or how.
- Yeah, yeah, you're right.
- [Tenn] Let's ask, yeah.
What's your in-laws' names?
- John and Tina. - Okay.
- But they're both deaf,
so like, I have to sign it to them.
- Okay. - Oh, really?
- Gotcha.
- So I learned sign language.
- All right, so immediately I trust him,
'cause that's a (beep) up thing to lie about.
- Yeah, yeah.
- Yeah, that would be, yeah.
- Did, did you, did you, you said,
you said that you served in military, right?
- Yeah, I'm still active duty.
My wife is active duty too, yeah.
- [Tenn] Okay.
So I, you did say your wife was active duty.
- Yes.
- That's also (beep) up to lie about,
so he's not, he's not lying.
- So what do you want to know?
- I know you talked about like,
being in a long distance relationship.
- [Syrus] Yeah.
- But like when, like how did it start?
Just go more in detail, I feel like.
- Okay. Well, so we met in 2018.
We met on Tinder.
I was in Colombia, he lived in L.A.
You know, we kind of started saying,
"Oh, we should meet in person," which is pretty insane.
I know a lot of people were like,
"Wow, you're just gonna go to another country
to meet someone?"
So we met here, and then he visited to Colombia.
He met my family,
then I came back next year,
and then we got married.
And then when we had to do the whole immigration process,
that was like, the climax.
- Oh, I, I got one.
What's one thing that you found out
after you guys were married,
that you didn't know, like before?
- Home, household kind of dynamics.
Like, you do your things one way,
I do it my way.
- But my wife, she's very structural.
So she likes things done like this, this, one time.
And me, I'm kind of like a procrastinator,
so that is kind of an argument sometimes.
- It's the opposite way at my house.
- Really?
- I'm, I'm the structured one.
- Oh, really?
- Yeah, wife isn't.
- What, what is structured?
'Cause like, sometimes I'll clean the toilets,
and then she'll like go and re-clean the toilets.
(Cloverse laughs)
- See, no, yeah. Because, yeah.
No, no, that's calm.
My wife does, I don't do a good enough job of...
(Robert laughs) Yeah.
The chores around the house.
- Has any (beep) boy ever attempted
to lead you on?
- No, not really.
- Were you one before you got married?
- No, I wouldn't say that.
I mean, I've like.
(the group laughs)
No. I mean, like I've, I've hooked up with people,
you know, but I would,
I wouldn't, with that description we kind of agreed on,
with the emotional part,
I, I never thought that that's like a necessity.
- But I feel like you disagreed on it,
and that's why you were sticking so hard on it.
(the group laughs)
- Okay, let me explain about that.
So it was more about curiosity,
about how straight culture works.
'Cause to me that's very alien.
- But you don't think in another community
that there, there are F...?
- There can be, but like,
it's somebody that like,
let's say that you're like 25 hookups in a week.
I wouldn't say that's a (beep) boy.
Like, I wouldn't class it.
I wouldn't put that label. - 25 hookups in a week?
- No, like.
- That's really a lot.
- No, no, no, no.
(the group laughs)
- But, like. - That is wild.
- I also feel like an F boy can.
Like literally do both, I guess.
- [Syrus] Okay, wait, wait, wait.
So if you're changing the definition,
then, by that definition then, yes.
That person will be a (beep) boy.
So it's, it's semantics at this point.
- I guess.
- Do you guys get a, get along with y'alls in-laws?
- Yeah. Oh, hundred percent.
- [Errol] That's a big thing, yeah, yeah.
That's a big thing. - Yeah that's everything.
- Yeah. That could honestly make or break a marriage.
- Yeah. How'd you and your wife...
- We used to work together.
It was a hotel near Disneyland.
I was at the front desk. - Here?
- [Tenn] Oh yeah? - Yeah.
- Do you think (beep) boys are cool, yes or no?
- No.
(the group laughs)
- Trying to catch the mole right here.
(bell rings)
(dramatic drum music)
(crickets chirp)
(cross buzzes)
(Syrus walks off stage)
(Robert sighs)
(dramatic music)
- [Presenter] If you think the mole is still in the box,
and you'd wish to continue the game,
please raise your hand.
(dramatic music)
- I don't trust anyone, so I'm just raising it
and you don't have to go with it.
- Clover's got trust issues.
- Yeah, he does, yeah.
- [Presenter] All right.
So that means the game is over,
and we'll go into the reveal.
- Bro, if it's Cloverse,
I'm back flippin' outta here, bro.
(the group laughs) Like, I'm gonna, yeah.
I'm gonna smash my face into the wall, dog.
- [Presenter] If the lights turn green,
that means that you have voted the mole out,
and you all win.
But, if the lights turn red,
that means that the mole is still in the box,
and you all lose.
In
3,
2,
1.
(dramatic music)
- No!
- No, what the (beep). - Are you kidding me?
I don't know who it is.
- I'm pretty sure it's you, dude.
- [Presenter] Will the mole please reveal themselves?
In 3, (upbeat music)
2,
1.
(music whooshes)
- Yo.
- Are you for real?
- (beep) dude!
- Man, wait, I was literally like,
I was like, test it's me.
(Tenn laughs)
- He's deflecting bro.
Every time it comes over here,
he's like, "Oh, it's them."
- I thought you'd be like a man, man.
I was like, oh.
- [Tenn] You killed it, bro.
Like, do you have a significant other
that's active duty?
- I don't, no, no, no.
- So that, that person was made the (beep) up?
- Oh yeah.
So like, I was hearing your guys' definitions
of an F boy, right?
Someone who doesn't care,
manipulates,
no feelings, right?
And I feel as if
that's a big,
broad term.
'Cause I do have feelings for, for other people.
I just would rather be single right now
and focus on my career.
- I can respect that.
(Justin laughs)
- Yeah. I guess I'm classified as an F boy.
But I just enjoy being single.
Don't lead anybody on.
Everybody knows upfront.
You know? I just wanna be single.
(music whooshes)
(upbeat music)
(Errol gasps)
- [Tenn] Good game.
Good game, good game.
(the group cheers)
- [Robert] Hey, you wearing gloves?
You were allowed to do that?
- [Cloverse] Wow.
- Marriage has been wonderful.
I definitely, I love being married.
- My wife Michelle is my inspiration.
I get challenged by her every day,
in the best way possible,
and she just really motivates me to be a better man.
- It's hard, it's tough.
But if you communicate,
I felt that to make our love stronger, really.
Even after a fight, it actually makes it grow.