hi everyone Caroline here if you're having trouble setting boundaries in your relationship whatever
that kind of relationship is whether it's a relationship with your husband a relationship with
your wife or spouse or whether it's a relationship with a family member or family friend or a
co-worker or a boss or whatever if you're having trouble setting boundaries and you have fluorite
pyrite red granite or whatever crystal I'm going to be talking about in this video then here this
crystal lovers you already have the tools to set physical mental emotional or even spiritual
boundaries so that no one is treading on you and that's what you want because you want to always
have healthy boundaries especially during these times when everyone is living together in close
quarters and some places and houses and whatnots are so small and then you have all these people
treading on you and maybe you don't even like the person that you're staying with I mean who knows
you know these things happen sometimes you just don't like the person who's staying with you or
they really really get on your last nerve and you don't know what to do and they keep treading on
you and just irritating you and sometimes it's just because oh well the space is small but you
also have a problem saying no or standing up for your rights and then people trample on you and
then you're feeling some sort of way which is not the good way and so we're gonna use the tools that
we have on hand to set these healthy boundaries and like I mentioned before there are some
crystals like fluorides and pyrites and garnets and diamonds and celestite and lapis lazuli and
topaz and peridot that you can use to stop that mess and the reason this is is because these
crystals have a cubic structure and any crystal that has a cubic internal structure can be used
very very very well for these types of boundary creation situations so what's going on with you
do you have a situation where people are treading on you and you need to create boundaries well if
you have these crystals like I said you know you have a two that you can use and if you happen not
to have the crystals that I have talked about you can use crystals that are cut into a cubic shape
you notice the energy of crystals and then there's the energy of ships the cube shape sets boundaries
within the square it contains the energy within a square so if you're in a relationship and
things are going out of hand when you work with crystals in the shape of a cube or in the shape
of a square whether that square is in terms of you creating a crystal grid in that shape of a
square you are able to contain that energy around you so you can make a grid with the intention of
containing energy within that square so that all these outside forces are not treading on
you and you know within that time you also have to work on strengthening your personal responses and
reactions so that other people are not treading on you because as we know it ain't magic there's
a lot of it that happens but we have to support the process by also working on ourselves and
being able to say no when people are treading on us right okay anywho the other thing I wanted to
mention just before I forget is that the cube is such an amazing shape it's such a powerful shape
for manifestation of energy it represents solidity and security that secure and stable energy is one
of the reasons why it's always recommended to use the energy of the square for manifestation
of money you know what I mean money money money square shape solid cubes security this is what it
means on another level okay and Oh have you ever wondered why our homes are square most apartments
a square shaped or rectangular our furniture is square a lot of things in our households
are square have you ever wondered why there's a reason behind this because the square energy
contains energy refrigerators are square they contain energy within them you know the equipment
in your home most of it is square just because it contains energy and shapes always control the
movement of energy I just love sacred geometry and sometimes when you understand some of these
things it just becomes so beautiful to observe how we are affected and influenced by energy and how
to break through or break out of those energetic patterns if need be and also squares can be used
to control you know when you have kids who are out of control you can always use the geometry
of squares somehow to contain the kids so they are not really getting out of control or there's
not a lot of rebellious energy and whatnot you know there's a lot you can do with the energy
of the squares and the energies of the cubes and with working with these specific crystals
that I have mentioned you know you can just you know give someone a flourite you can give them
a lapis lazuli you know once you have created that intention about how that is to be used or whatever
you can wear them or you can place them around your house so that that Square energy of whatever
it is that you want to achieve is manifested in your life experience right it's so so so cool
and I absolutely love it and I am here for it because I love my crystal babies such amazing
amazing tools what a gift anywho with that said I gotta say this as a precaution when you're working
with the square energy ensure that whatever it is that you want to contain is resolved within
you I may have mentioned it in the beginning but just make sure that whatever it is that you want
to resolve by not allowing other people to tread on your boundaries make sure that that matter is
resolved because the square contains energy so imagine this if you're working with energy of a
square to prevent other people from treading on you so to speak that energy is contained within
the square so if you have not resolved that matter with that individual or within yourself
that energy is always going to stay sick and solid within the square energy so of course maybe the
person will not be trading on new but you yourself will be really experiencing a lot of inner turmoil
because you have not resolved the issue because the issue is contained within that square energy
and it has nowhere to go and you know as within so without so square energies are powerful tools but
you must also work to release the internal energy first hopefully before you can successfully work
with emotional boundaries in a relationship or mental boundaries in a relationship because again
as within so without and on another level people usually reflect to us what we need
to know or they reflect to us who we are and it just depends on how we see the situation shape
at any given time but personally I learn from the people around me the environment around me
how I respond how I react always gives me a gauge about what I really need to be seeing and working
on and resolving or amplifying if that is the case because people don't always just reflect the bad
things they also reflect the goodness around us and when that happens I'm just like hey Caroline
yes you did a lot of good things but you know it's never just black or white there's always
a lot of things in between and every situation is different so just keep looking at your case and in
the meantime if you're in a relationship and you need help and it horrible or whatnot make sure
you get the correct type of help that you need and make sure if you need to exit the situation
exit the situation I mean it's your life it's a beautiful life and you can live it powerfully
until next time I love you guys keep loving your crystal babies and I'll see you next time bye