- In this video, you're gonna learn why letting go
is the most powerful manifestation process
you can possibly apply in your life.
You're gonna learn why attachment actually resists
that which you want to bring in,
and how when you really attach
you don't leave room for anything else to move in,
and how a side effect of letting go
is your vibration, your energy, your level of consciousness
will naturally begin to raise.
And you'll find that things happen easier,
things are more effortless, and it's because there is less
resistance in your life altogether.
So, in this video, I'm gonna show you step by step
exactly what to do and I believe this is the video
that when you look back three to four months from now
that you see that this is the thing that planted a seed
that profoundly changed your life.
(bright music)
Welcome back to another video.
My name is Aaron, and I help people expand
their consciousness, now, on this video,
I wanted to share with you why letting go works like magic,
and how you can easily apply this into your life.
Now, normally when we're studying the law of attraction,
what we hear is we need to think about what we want.
We need to intend for what we want.
And all the focus is, is on the outer reality
when, in fact, all the outer reality is,
is a reflection of the inner reality.
So, if we have a belief, either a thought,
a label, or some type of attachment
that keeps us tied to our old self or our old reality.
No matter how much we think of that,
of the Lamborghini, of the money, of the dream job,
of the ideal relationship, no matter how much
we think of it, if we are still attached to the old,
we ain't making room for it, it's like if you have a closet
that is so full of stuff and you wanna buy more stuff,
but even if you bought it, where would you bring it to?
You'd have to clear out some of the stuff
to then allow it in and when I looked to my own life,
I noticed that for me to be a full-time YouTuber,
to have that the cool little trophy over there
that symbolizes all the validation (Aaron laughing)
that I feel because I'm so worthy now,
that as a reflection was something
that I had to let go of the old past self
to become this new, higher vibrational Aaron Doughty
who has 100 or whatever, you get the idea though.
But, there are things that we're attached
to that those things that we're attached
to is what's actually blocking us
from bringing anything new in.
So, the secret to everything in my life
that I've accomplished has been from,
not necessarily just wiring in, mainly letting go.
Letting go of belief systems, of labels.
I used to have the belief that I had ADHD,
and, therefore, guess what? The only reason,
The only way that I knew to get around that.
You want to know what it was? Taking Adderall, smoking weed.
That was the only, that's what I believed.
That was the only way for me to get through it.
At least that was the belief system.
I had to let go of that label altogether.
So, these are the different types of attachments.
Let's first go off over those.
So, there is the attachment of a label.
So, this is like you are attached to a label of being shy,
or being outgoing, or being the class clown,
or being the introvert, or of being single,
always the one in the relationship.
You know, there's many different labels
that we'll find that if we attach to,
it then makes it challenging for us to switch
anything because it's a part of our self-image.
It's a part of our identity, which we'll talk
about in a minute, attachment to a person.
Imagine that you're attached to a family member or a friend,
and you wanna become successful.
But, you're afraid if you do become successful,
then you're afraid that you're gonna let them go,
and you're gonna let go of that friendship.
You're gonna let go of that relationship.
You might find that it's hard for you to attract and love.
Well, guess what? It's hard to attract and love
when you're attached to a past partner,
and you're energetically still attached to that.
You have to let go to then let in.
I'm gonna explain to you exactly
how you can let go, as well, now, a belief.
If you have a limiting belief that says, I'm not worthy,
or a limiting belief that says,
I must work a nine-to-five job.
I must go to college like my dad and mom told me to,
then guess what? Doing anything outside of that belief,
you're gonna believe you're a bad person.
If you have a belief that money is bad
because if money is not backed by gold
and the control system on the planet
and all this stuff, then guess what?
How can you attract money, when money is bad?
You're not a bad person, you don't wanna be bad.
Now, the thing with this is becoming aware of these things.
The outcome, if you're attached to the outcome,
to how things happen, how much resistance
you gonna bring in to the whole experience?
Probably a lot, I know in my own experience
for all of these, I've been attached
to different things at different times.
I've been attached to ex-girlfriends before,
made it very challenging for me to move on.
I've been attached to negative beliefs,
like believing I'm unworthy, substances,
you can be attached to substances.
I was smoking weed all day, every day for two years,
and it was because I couldn't imagine a life without it.
Anytime I would read an article or something
that said anything bad about weed,
I'll like immediately put it out of sight out of mind
because I didn't want to believe anything negative about it.
Now, we become addicted and attached to these things
because it many times replays similar
energy dynamics from when we were kids.
You guys hear me? You guys feel me on this?
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can you like this video below and comment? Let me know.
I'm gonna be talking more about letting go and moving
forward because it's something I'm passionate about.
But, in general, when we talk about these things,
and we talk about the things that we're attached to,
it's because of childhood trauma many times
that we're addicted to certain things.
I look to my own life when I had the ex step-mom
from 7 to 15 years old, where I had no freedom.
My dad was married to her, she's my ex step-mom,
and we weren't allowed to have friends,
we weren't allowed to, we had to earn
going to school activities, we were given a bowl
of cereal in the morning and TV dinner at night.
I know I've told this story so many times on YouTube,
so you've probably heard it before.
But, guess what I was addicted to there?
Guess what I was attached to?
I believed and had a belief, I had a belief
that women are trying to control me.
I also had a belief that the unknown is scary.
I remember when my dad divorced
my ex step-mom when I was 15 years old,
I remember feeling this uncertainty,
this anxiety that came from I could do anything now.
I can have friends, I can watch TV.
I can eat the kind of food that I want.
It was a whole new world, but it felt scary.
So, I kept attracting women into my life
that tried to control me, it is crazy how we will replay
the same childhood trauma over and over again
because we are attached to it because it feels familiar,
until we become aware of it and let it go.
But remember, I can't attract in a feminine person
that actually loves me and is nurturing towards me
if I believe that all women are trying to control me
and are manipulative like my ex step-mom was.
I had to let that go to then let in.
I had to let go of the nine-to-five job going,
Aaron, I worked a nine-to-five job for 10 years almost.
8 to 10 years, selling woman's shoes.
And there was a comfort that came with that.
I knew I didn't wanna be there.
I knew I wanted to be on YouTube,
but it felt scary to get on YouTube,
to put myself out there, so what happened?
I stayed in that nine-to-five job
for way too long, but why? Why was I attached
to that nine-to-five job? You see these things right here.
The reason, reason, the past pain.
Why are you attached to past pain?
Reason, reasoning, the belief system, the story in our mind.
These are all things that keep us.
Weed, why was I attached to weed?
There was reasoning, there was a meaning.
When I smoked, immediately would change my state.
So, the reason I'm sharing, the reason,
the reason I'm sharing this with you is that everything
in life is fundamentally neutral,
but we give things meaning and based on those means
are the things that we're gonna stay attached to.
And I'm here to tell you that if you want to wire
in a new version of you, a free version of you,
you're going to have to let go of the old version of you
and the old reasons you have about who you are.
So, that you're gonna have to let go.
I had to let go of the nine-to-five job, go on Aaron.
The codependent little bitch Aaron.
I had to let go of the version of Aaron
that couldn't have boundaries.
There's a version of me too, that created validation.
I couldn't wait to tell you guys about the,
Look at the the thing up there.
The trophy, the validation, you see what I mean?
That's what happens and in a way
it was kind of a good thing, I think that
maybe in some ways, some of these things
can actually drive us, but if they're using us,
then it's normally a negative thing.
So, maybe I got on YouTube back in 2017,
I was so excited to be making videos
and to not be in my nine-to-five job after six months,
but then I was craving validation.
I was craving the YouTube Plaque Button.
I dreamed about that fucker, you wanna know how long
I dreamed about it? I dreamed about it for probably
two years, I'm gonna manifest the million, the million.
Guess what, It feels pretty damn normal that it's here.
But, that's the way that it works in our reality.
We don't experience or attract in things
when we are attached to how amazing
it would be if we got it, how exciting
and fleeting it would be if we got it.
By the time we get it, it's natural.
By the time I started to make a lot of money,
it was natural for me to make a lot of money.
It wasn't on this great pedestal, it wasn't amazing.
It was natural for my identity.
Now, one of the things that we have to become aware
of is that we have to become more flexible
as to who our identity is, if you think that you are set,
your identity is set from childhood
and you can't change it, then guess what?
It'd be hard to change, if you think that it is set,
because somebody told you something about yourself.
If somebody ever doubted you or told you something
about yourself, I think about like the movie,
Matilda with Danny DeVito, I just watched him in Jumanji
the other day but Danny DeVito was in Matilda, right?
He's telling Matilda, "I am smart, you are dumb".
He's like saying I forget the whole bit,
but can you imagine she wired it in him?
I'm dumb, I thought I was dumb,
when I was in school, I thought I was dumb
up until sophomore year of high school.
You wanna know what switched everything?
I let go of believing that I was dumb.
You wanna know how I did that?
I was in English class and one of the teachers,
We had this test and I did good on this English test.
All of a sudden I realized everyone else
got like a B or a C, and I got an A on it.
All of a sudden I started to see myself as smart
because the teacher was like, oh Aaron, good job.
You were one of the only ones that got an A.
My identity is now that I'm smart.
I had to let go, I let go of the old version of me,
that thought school was hard, and all of a sudden
school became easy, I graduated like a 3.8 GPA.
This is all it is, is letting go to let in.
You can talk about thinking better thoughts,
and we can talk about, you know, putting our energy
in different things, which I think is powerful.
But the missing key for so many people
is they haven't let go of the old version of themselves,
and because they haven't let go, guess what happens?
They under the surface is that subconscious
mind it's all about awareness.
Now, how did we let go? How do we let it go?
Remember attachment equals suffering.
The thing that's blocking us is we haven't let go,
we're remaining attached to the reasons.
You have to first off become aware.
The first step to letting go is awareness.
Becoming aware of these things.
I realized that, you know, when I was in so many different
areas of my life, like I, I realized
that I was people pleasing, because I wanted
validation from other people.
I was going so hard to make the YouTube trophy,
because I wanted validation, I had trouble saying no
and setting boundaries because of that.
I had to let go of the value.
I valued other people's validation over my own.
I had to let go of craving that from other people,
and I had to start giving it to myself.
How did I do that? This gets into a little
bit deeper layer of this, but I had to release
the shame that came from childhood.
Many of us have shame, shame means that we believe
we're broken, there's an underlying
belief that says I'm broken.
How could anyone ever love me?
How could anyone ever love me for who I am,
even if who I am gives tension?
Because people pleasers do not like to make other people
feel tension because they're empathic.
So one of the main things for this whole thing,
is gonna be letting go of past meaning.
Letting go of past belief systems,
of past stories that are tied to our childhood.
And when we let these things go and we realize
that our parent's emotional unavailability
growing up, had nothing to do with us.
Our parents divorce growing up, had nothing to do with us.
We can stop identifying with and giving it the meaning
that there's something broken within us.
But the key to this is simply awareness.
Can you guys comment below awareness?
And make sure you do it like really long,
because I said it like that, awareness.
So this is the name of the game here.
When you become aware of these things, you're attached to,
you're gonna let shit that go.
And you're gonna be able to attract in other things,
so much easier, now, how can letting go be easy as fuck.
You wanna know how letting go is easy.
It's the only reason letting go is hard
is because we believe that it is hard.
We believe that our identity is set.
We believe that these reasons, these beliefs,
these stories are a reality, not just suddenly chosen.
You see? That's it, Letting go is extraordinarily easy.
It's just that, and here's the other reason
we're afraid to let go, we're afraid to let go,
because we believe if we let go of all of this,
then we're gonna lose everything in our life.
We're not gonna actually attract in what we want.
If I let go of the outcome, then I'm not gonna attract it,
furthest thing from the truth.
By you letting go of the resistance,
and the attachment, and the suffering,
you're going to allow even more in than you can imagine.
So many times in my life, I remember when I really wanted
my YouTube channel to do well.
I was focused on every video and I was so attached
to the outcome of like, videos getting views and stuff.
Eventually, I was also caring what other people thought.
One day I go into make YouTube videos, guess what I did?
Guess what I did? I decided that in this moment,
I don't give a shit what other people think about me.
I'm not gonna care whether this video goes viral or not.
I was then more free in my videos.
And I made a video on star seeds or some esoteric thing.
And it took the channel to a whole nother level.
So letting go is the key to letting in.
I can't tell you how many times
I've wanted a house that I'm moving into.
I wanted something and the more I've wanted it,
the more I felt the lack and the more I was attached
to the outcome, the less likely it was to happen.
When I let go and I allowed the universe to bring it to me,
that's when everything changed.
But you might say, well, am I just saying,
just let, go and sit on the couch.
No, I'm saying let go of the old version of you
that maybe was sitting on the couch,
and then you'll feel naturally inspired,
and you'll have the confidence to take action
to apply for that job you've always wanted,
to ask that guy or a girl out,
or gender neutral personal out or whatever
your cup of tea is (Aaron chuckles)
You see what I mean? This is all about awareness.
Letting go is extraordinarily easy.
It's just a choice and it's a choice
to let go of the reasoning, the meaning.
Past meaning that comes from childhood stuff.
That's it, letting go is extraordinarily easy.
But my life, the abundance I've created in my life
has, it's come from all completely letting go.
Letting go and wire it in, that's it.
Let go, let in, let go, let in.
Like this video, if you want to let go and let in.
10 times more likely to let go
and let in if you liked this video.
I'm just kidding, I'm not trying to guilt
you guys into like liking the video.
If you can like it, if you like it.
But the key and the most powerful thing you can do
for any of this is becoming aware of that.
Now that's also the key to raising
your vibration state of consciousness.
It's letting go, your vibration is naturally high as fuck.
The only reason you feel lower vibration
the most because you are attached to shame,
to guilt, to anger, to, called positionalities,
perspectives to say I'm right.
One of the dirtiest drug there is,
is the desire to be right, but when you let that shit go,
you become so powerful, so there is a meditation
that will show you step by step,
how to raise your vibration, raise your dominant vibration
permanently, and it will help you let go of all this stuff.
It's completely free, this meditation recently
got over a million views on YouTube.
Click the link below, listen to that meditation for 21 days,
let's all commit to it as well.
Group energy dynamic put into it is so powerful.
So with that being said, hope you guys liked this video.
Let me know if you guys like the letting go series videos
and I'll talk to you guys later.
Peace, much love, and namaste.