This video we'll show you three things that block attracting a relationship into your
life.
I'm going to show you ways around this so that you're able to attract the perfect person
for you.
Welcome back to the other video.
My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness.
Now in this video I'm going to be sharing with you those three things that block a relationship
and the idea behind this video is to give you a practical understanding of some things
that are serving you so that you're able to be the best version of yourself and then able
to attract the person that you want.
Now with this process.
Understand that the most important part is the letting go of the outcome.
Now that could itself be one of the things that I talk about.
But when it comes to this the main thing that I'm going to be explaining is how you must
resonate with already having a relationship and one powerful way to do that is to focus
on your relationship with yourself.
Now the reason this is so important is because many times we're going to the label we're
going to say that I'm not attracted to a relationship or that this is something as we focus on it
not being there we create more resistance with the process.
So this is why the first thing that blocks a track in your relationship has to do with
feeling jealous of other people being in a relationship or the feeling of the resistance
in general.
So if we look and we are focused on our X for example and maybe our X found a relationship
the idea is that by focusing on that and having the perspective of not wanting them to be
doing what they're doing what we're doing is we are aligning ourselves with the feeling
of being single.
And the feeling of not having that there.
Now what I mean by that is imagine that you are in the best relationship you could possibly
be in right now imagine you're with that person you're having a great time.
How would you look at your ex beaner relationship or how would you look at other couples maybe
that are like do a PDA or something.
You would look at them and you wouldn't care or you wouldn't have any negative resentment
because your cup is already full you already feel good about who you are.
You already feel good about your own situation.
So the idea is that if we align ourselves with already having that perspective we're
already having that awareness and that trust in ourselves that they can be on their own
journey they can have their experience of whatever that is.
But we trust in our own life we trust in our own process and we know that as we trust the
process things are going to line themselves up for us.
So this is why it's so important letting go of any negative emotion that ego any resistance
towards in acts towards anybody else that is having and doing what they want to do.
The second thing that we must give up has to do with something that I've spoken about
many times before but it has to do with giving up beliefs that don't serve us giving up the
identifications and the labels that may be holding us back.
So this has two parts to it.
The first part is if we are attached to the label of being single and we in a way think
that there is like some type of clock to it like we it's been this long and this hasn't
happened yet.
The idea is that we create inner resistance with it and that ends up becoming a self-fulfilling
prophecy.
So it's almost like the more that we focus on it the more that we create that momentum
in our own life.
But if we were to simply realize that we could let it go just not focus on it so much or
not focus on being single as being a bad thing.
Being single could be that you have freedom to do what you want to do that you can start
to appreciate that aspect of it then as you do that you will naturally let go of the resistance.
Now the second part is realizing that we must let go of the limiting beliefs we have about
who we attract into our life.
Maybe we always attract a certain type of person that we don't prefer.
Or maybe we always have problems attracting to begin with.
The idea is that we must let go of those beliefs because those beliefs are self fulfilling
prophecies.
Now the best way to do that is to simply be aware that our prior experiences were nothing
more than experiences.
We can be grateful that they happen but the past does not have to equal the present or
the future.
When we become aware of the thoughts that are attained within that past when we become
aware of the thoughts we're thinking now we can decide to let them go and we could decide
that that doesn't have to equal what we experience now.
So this means that we neutralized past experiences if we were insert relationships that didn't
serve us we don't need to condemn them we don't need to look at them in a negative light.
We can be aware that they were there we can be grateful that we had something to learn
from it.
And as we neutralize it we then let go charge that it has.
So if your has attracted a guy that didn't treat you the right way or if you always attracted
a girl that acted a certain way what you can do is instead of being charged with it and
thinking that that's always what I experience simply neutralize it see the benefit of it
and then just simply let it go in and you let it go.
You are also letting go of all the baggage that comes with it and you're making it much
more likely that your next relationship won't have those same characteristics.
Because if it does have that charge there is a likelihood that that charge will be in
the next relationship in some level.
So if we let go of it now we let go of that probability.
Now the third thing that we must let go of is thinking that it's always just going to
come to us.
Now of course with the idea of attraction there is a level of US attracting the experiences
in it but it's also about understanding that we must take action to align ourselves to
those opportunities.
Think of taking action as opening up opportunities.
If you sit at your house and your intention is to attract a relationship it's not as probable
as if you push yourself outside of your own comfort zone.
Maybe you decide and you think to yourself where are the people that I want to be in
a relationship.
What kind of values do they have.
If you understand and you go to where those people are you increase the likelihood by
so much.
So think of it like maybe you do yoga or you want to get into yoga which you could do is
go and do activities with yoga.
Like any yoga group as you do that you're around and you're surrounded yourself around
those people where then it's much more likely that you're going to find that person you
could realize there are certain activities you could do.
There are certain groups of friends that you could push yourself to be around.
There are certain Meetup groups you could be a part of as you start to look at it from
this point of view and you realize that under the old realm of thinking under the old all
the pilot mind maybe when somebody invites you out you naturally would say no I'm not
going to go out tonight you know this you know whatever excuse you have.
You could start to say what if I do.
What if as you get into the unknown which is uncomfortable you open up so many opportunities
that could happen.
So realize that it's also about taking action and aligning yourself finding the people that
have the values that you want and as you go out and you do things and you put yourself
in those situations you increase the probabilities tenfold.
So remember that all you have to do is let go of these three things that are holding
you back from experiencing the kind of relationship you want the first one is letting go an understanding
that you don't need to feel the resistance that as you let go of being jealous of other
people as you let go of the resistance and you start to focus on the benefit or at least
the neutralization of being single that then you start to let that go that second really
let go of the limiting beliefs that you have about relationships let go of the real identification
with being single and what that means.
And as you do that you're going to feel like there was a weight lifted off your back.
And thirdly let go of thinking that that's all about sitting around put yourself in the
situations put yourself around the people that have the same values that you have and
you will then open up opportunities and you'll find that you increase the probability.
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