Hey guys, stuffy cat
will be my co-host today
we're reviewing coach Corey Wayne's video
do this when she backs away.
If you're not familiar with coach Corey Wayne
he generally reviews a viewer's question
so that's what we're going to do here.
We're going to review his review
of a viewer's question.
He also wrote the book How To Be A 3% Man.
Being in the 3% is a good thing
and I've read his book twice.
I do recommend it I'll put a link below.
If you're new to my channel
my name is Anna Jorgensen
welcome to just the tip Tuesday.
So, in coach Corey's video
he talks about a guy who was
dating his co-worker for about three months
and then she broke up with him.
And so, the guy took Corey’s advice
and walked away
and told her he wasn't interested in friendship.
Then she starts calling him and texting him
and he even spent the night together.
But after a while
her text started weaning
and she was communicating less and less.
She was pulling away again.
So, what happened?
So, coach Corey says
when this happens
a man's natural instinct
is to try harder
to get her to chase again
to do something.
But then you end up back in the same situation
with her pulling away again.
He says that if you had a lot of weak behaviors
that you displayed in the past
and you start displaying them again
the same thing is going to happen.
She's going to get turned off again.
I agree and stuffy cat agrees.
Stuffy cat agree? Stuffy cat agrees.
I've mentioned it quite a bit
in my play list
how to get her back when she pulls away.
So, if you do the same things
that turned her off the first time
then they're quite likely going to
turn her off the second time
if you have managed to change your behaviors
to entice her back and then you go back
to the behaviors that turned her off
well, you're going to get more of her pulling away.
However, if you're in a long-term relationship
sometimes it's actually the opposite
of over-pursuing.
You're not pursuing her at all
you're taking her for granted.
Anyway, if you want to see videos on that
go on over and watch
my videos on
what happens when she pulls away
when you're in a long-term relationship
and what to do.
So, coach Corey goes on to say
that being alpha isn't about
treating her like a jerk
it's about not caring
whether you have her or not.
You're okay either way
no matter what she does
it doesn't affect you
and it doesn't diminish you.
And he also reiterates a quote
that I've borrowed from him many times
and that is women are more attracted
especially initially
to men whose feelings about them
are uncertain or unclear.
If you give her space to chase
this provides that uncertainty
if her interest is 50% or above
he says then she will start to worry
that someone else is going to snatch you up
so then she starts pursuing you again.
If her interest is lower than 50%
she's not going to come back and if she does
you're not going to be able to keep her anyway.
Well, he didn't say that part
but he would agree.
So, I agree.
Again, he says that when she shows up again
and then starts pulling back
because of those same behaviors that turn her off
in the beginning your instinct is
to chase her and you got to not do that.
He reminds guys
only use text
to close for the deal.
Don't start getting into these long conversations
because you're not going to have
anything to talk about when you're together.
We're not going to have a reason to even get together
your only purpose of using text communication
is to have a short chit chat
and then close for getting together,
close the sale,
close the deal and then get off texting
knock it off, knock it off texting.
And I agree,
said many times texting is not
for conversation it's for
information not conversation
where, when, what, what time?
Why? Wingmam motto,
always leave them wanting more
otherwise, it starts to feel smothering
and there's no mystery or
enticement to need to get together.
Coach Corey says
a woman needs to feel that space
and experience your silence.
This puts the ball in her court to chase you
and I agree.
So, what happens in this story?
She pulled away, he chased her,
she did come back
he acted needy again
and she pulled away again.
Coach Corey says maintain your strength
agreed.
He also says this guy probably
doesn't know the material in his book
3% Man well enough
to have it basically in your subconscious mind
ready to apply.
And while I really do recommend coach Corey’s book
How To Be A 3% Man
sometimes you need a little bit more
than a book
because you can read all about
how to build a bicycle but if you don't
actually start building a bicycle
you're not going to know how to build a bicycle.
Of course, you realize we're not talking about
a bicycle, right.
Yeah, anyways I have a solution for you
that provides more assistance if
you've read the book several times
and you still need some extra help.
So, coach Corey says
that the amount of time it takes for her to
contact him will go down
and so she...
That's my little addition,
the higher her interest level is.
So, the more she actually really does like you
the shorter time it will take for her to
re-engage with you because she won't want you
finding someone else.
He also says women are like cats
they need to walk away
and have their own space
and it's your inaction,
you're not chasing
that allows her to come back.
What happens when you chase a cat?
They run away
do not chase ***
it won't do you any good
those are my words not his
although I’m sure he would agree.
Now, coach says that the guy is confused
because just a few days ago
her interest was really high again
and now it's already starting to wane real quickly.
He says it's really simple wait for her to reach out
and then set up a time to get together.
Don't get back into texting
back and forth a lot again.
Side note from AJ
you always do what you've always done
you'll always get what you always got.
So, he says send a couple of texts
and then close for the get together.
You can say something like
so I guess you want to get together?
If she says yes, then
make definite plans.
Drinks my place Tuesday 7 pm, 8 pm.
Whatever it is she agrees
then say goodbye.
Agreed.
Now this is what he want.
Coach Corey says to use this strategy
every time she contacts you.
Brief text exchange close her plans to get together.
He says that getting together
always allows for an opportunity
to have ***.
And surprise, I agree
whether or not you've already
done the deed with her
in order for it to be a possibility
you need to be in a space where it can happen.
Key point, if she's attracted to you
she wants you to seduce her
and key point
women who are open to a relationship
bond quicker when you've had physical intimacy.
Coach Corey says this guy should get busy
dating other women so he doesn't
become or in this case probably stay
fixated on her.
She can feel it, I agree.
Never invest more emotionally in her
than she's already invested in you.
And one of the ways of doing this
is by keeping your options open
and dating other women.
Unless of course, you're in a committed relationship.
Even then she must feel like you have options.
You got to keep them on your toes guys
can't be taking them for granted
and you can't let them take you for granted.
So, I’m going to give you a little bonus tip
and then I’m going to give you the solution
for those of you guys who've been in the situation
one too many times especially
if you tend to become needy or clingy.
Okay, bonus tip
do not be the first to say I love you.
What? I know.
She might feel it she might want it
but if you give it to her
she's not going to give it to you.
She's going to be like oh, wait that wasn't my choice.
Remember you always have to make sure
it's her choice, you're her choice,
which means you lead the relationship
but she paces it.
All right, now the real world solution
for if you've had a situation happen a time or two
yes, it is my wake up 2 luv program.
It provides a step-by-step plan
for how to lose that neediness
so it doesn't permeate
every area of your life
especially your love life.
So, you can stop turning them off
and start getting and keeping
the kind of woman you really want.
Now, this isn't for guys who just want to
hook up on the weekend.
Different caliber of girl there.
But if you're interested in settling down
without settling then
my program might be right for you.
But I should warn you it is a lot of work,
it's quite comprehensive
there's a lot of homework
both at home and in the real world
and it is going to get you out of your comfort zone.
But if your self-esteem needs repair
or if you get rejected
and dumped a lot
or choose not great girls
because those are the only options
for you or at least you think so
then this program really will help you.
And there's no risk because of course
it's a money back guarantee
and you could be
in a totally different situation
in just a few short months.
Some guys even got there sooner
but it's not competition.
So, if what you've been doing so far
hasn't worked for you, you've got nothing to lose
I will put a link below.
Overall rating for coach Corey Wayne's video
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and two paws up, stuffy kitty says.
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And if you're in a situation where she's
starting to pull away or you lost her
and you're still unsure of what you did wrong
then you might want to check out some of the videos
in my when she pulls away
and get her back play list.
And if you're interested in a girl
and she's going hot and cold
then you may be chasing
instead of pursuing and you'll want to check out
my video on chasing versus pursuing.
Thanks for watching, God bless.
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