- That reminds me of something.
Stay tuned to the end of the video
and I'll tell you a little story from my past
when I did something like that.
And it's really embarrassing.
Seven signs an introvert likes you.
Like, like likes you.
Or maybe if you're an introvert
these are some things you're doing around your crush
and you don't even realize it.
Sign number one.
They try to be physically close to you.
I don't mean like rubbing up right against you
like they're a cat or something
but an introvert will try to be like generally close
in proximity to you.
So what an introvert is trying to do
is create opportunities for you
to talk to them and initiate contact.
This is often because an introvert is unsure about
whether or not they should say something first.
It's also a sneaky way of testing you to gauge
if you're interested in them at all.
Because if they're around you and you never speak to them
it's tipping off the introvert that you're not interested
and maybe they should just forget all about it.
Sign number two, the introvert we'll talk more than usual.
Introverts tend not to be the most talkative people
but even they realize
that you have to communicate a little bit
with someone you like
in order to take it to the next level.
So you will see a noticeable increase
in the amount of words coming out of their mouth.
Introverts like to conserve their social energy
but they're willing to spend it and get talkative
if they think you're worth it.
Or number three
they won't talk at all.
So introverts can go either way here
depending on what type of introvert we're talking about.
I have a video about the four types of introverts
which you can watch by clicking the card
at the top of the screen here.
Assuming I remember to do it.
But some introverts will just shut down completely
when they're in the presence of someone they like like.
In some ways this could just be anxiety
like worried that they will make a fool of themselves
in front of you
or they're taking their time to really get a read on you
and decide if they really actually like you.
Are you worth spending all this social energy on?
So if an introvert totally shuts down around you
rather than assume it means
they hate you and wish you were dead.
It's entirely possible that the opposite is true.
That's not confusing at all.
That's what's frustrating about introverts, right?
Because when they draw that curtain
you just don't know.
You don't know what's going on inside there.
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I think I'm going to throw up.
Number four, they start to talk about
their interests around you.
This is sort of related to the second point
where they get more talkative
but the content of what they're saying matters too.
Introverts have this deep inner world
but they also realize that they're not always
the most talkative or easiest to know.
So they will start to bring out these things
from their inner world, like their interests.
The things they've been thinking about for a long time
as a way of allowing you
to see a part of them that people don't often see.
Number five, they seem to remember random stuff about you.
A lot of this comes from an introvert playing their cards
so close to the vest
that you will not often realize
how interested they are in you
and how closely they are paying attention to what you say
until they say it back to you later.
So if they seem to randomly remember
that time you said you prefer a Burger King to McDonald's
or that you played soccer in the third grade.
At the very least, it means they're paying attention.
But it also seems to indicate that
they want to then show you that they are paying attention.
However, to any introverts watching
there is a fine line here between
this being cute and creepy
so don't overdo it.
Number six, they will find weird excuses to talk to you.
So extroverts are fine
with talking to people for no real reason
but because introverts don't really feel a natural need
to talk to a bunch of people
it's much easier for them to do so with a specific reason.
Of course in general, this also allows them
to have a degree of plausible deniability.
If you say
hey, do you like me or something?
Is that why you're talking to me?
Then they can just say
no, I really just wanted to ask you about
is Seinfeld on Netflix or Hulu?
I guess I could have just Google searched it for myself
maybe that would have been easier
but I thought I would ask you for some weird reason.
That reminds me of something
stay tuned to the end of the video
and I'll tell you a little story from my past
when I did something like that.
It's really embarrassing.
Number seven, watch their eyes.
If introverts like you
they will watch you more than they watch other people.
And this is not just because you so beautiful
and they mesmerized by your looks.
That's probably part of it, but it's not everything.
The other part of it is they're trying to figure you out.
They're collecting data on you.
They're kind of trying to get to know you
a little bit indirectly.
Here's an interesting thing
which applies to everyone not just introverts.
If you're in a group of people
and someone says something funny and everyone laughs
try to see who is looking at whom when they laugh.
Often, if someone likes another person
they will naturally just look at them
when everyone is laughing.
It's a way of trying to connect with the person
and also a way of making sure
like we're both reacting in the same way.
Try it out, watch the eyes.
Okay so embarrassing introvert story in high school.
There was this girl I liked.
And I sent her an AOL Instant Messenger message
having never spoken to her in person before.
Asking her about some homework in French class
and we didn't even take French class together.
But it was like reveals a couple of these things.
It was revealing that I knew she was in French class
even though we didn't have it together.
And that somehow I knew
how did I even know her Instant Messenger name?
I don't even know.
That was so creepy.
And I don't think I ever talked to her again like in person
maybe like once or twice the rest of high school.
That was sophomore year too.
So it was like three years of awkwardness.
What was I thinking?
Anyway, check out another video here
and thanks for watching until next time.
Stay cool and attractive.
Unlike I was in 10th grade.