Hey I’m Nadine Piat from Healthy You Healthy Love and I’m a coach for smart savvy women
looking for heart connected, passionate and united love and in this video I’ll be talking
about how to know if a relationship, or the relationship you’re currently in is just not gonna
work out and why it’s not the end of the world (even though it may feel like it).
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Now let’s be honest, when you really like someone and when you’re tired of being single,
or when you’re desperate to be loved, it’s easy to overlook the signs that a man is not
your match.
Deep down you might know he’s not right for you, and yet you find it hard to acknowledge
that he’s not a man who will satisfy your soul.
If you know that you tend to invest your precious time and heart into going nowhere relationships
then here are 5 Ways To Know whether you’re putting your energy into the right person for you... a compatible match
But before I continue I want to share something critical… some women and men are
what I would call runners rather than working on themselves and the relationship they give
up too soon, they don't put the effort in to reconnect or to build a deeper intimacy that
is needed for lasting compatible partnership and love.
So while these following points are valid in many situations, it’s important that
you reflect on your past relationships and dating life to discern whether you tend to
be a fault finder and dismiss someone too soon (because this is what you do with most
people, as a form of protection) or they’re legitimately not right for you.
Here we go... number 1
The desire for intimacy is gone - Is there a sudden or slow shrugging off of all forms
of physical or emotional intimacy either on his part or your part, or even both?
Has the action in the bedroom become scarce or disappeared completely?
Or maybe you were never physically attracted to your man, though you tried to make it work.
Or perhaps the physical aspect is the only thing that does work, yet there’s no emotional intimacy
Emotional and physical intimacy allows for true romantic partnership, without these two
types of intimacy combined the relationship rarely feels fulfilling.
Sure, if physical intimacy is not a priority for you then this tip may not 100% apply and
yet most people need both to feel connected, fulfilled.
There’s an over abundance of conflict- Arguments and disagreements are inevitable and bound
to flare up every now and again in any relationship.
You’re both unique individuals with varying needs, personalities, and backgrounds.
But when the fighting is at a constant and even expected, that’s when you know for
sure that something is definitely wrong.
If a couple is facing argument after argument day in and day out that means there’s a
failure on both parties in understanding and respecting the point of view and needs of
the other.
Can two people overcome constant conflict?
Yes, though both people have to be willing to learn new ways to not only understand themselves,
but also their partner too.
If one or both of you are unwilling to make amendments there’s a good chance nothing
will change.
Which leads to
An absence of communication - Some people can be talking and fighting, though are they
really communicating?
Well, most often not.
True communication involves listening to each other’s perspectives, sharing vulnerabilities
and values, and working out solutions.
Instead of truly communicating, many people fall into the habit of either blaming themselves
or the other, shaming, stonewalling or pretending nothing is wrong.
Communication is the main foundation of a relationship, afterall how can anyone’s
needs be met if the needs themselves aren’t being communicated?
If you’re not able to sit down and really nut out your challenges and work together
at a team then this is a big sign that you’re relationship may not be a true relationship.
Do you wonder if you might have some communication or love blocks standing in your way of true
intimate love?
Do you have a sneaky suspicion that you hold onto or attract the wrong relationships for
you?
Well, Luckily I have a brilliant free gift to help you identify any love blocks you might
be facing that are stopping you from experiencing sexy united and lasting love.
If you’re interested, simply click the link to the free gift in the description below
to find out what could be your Romantic Love Block Syndrome.
Next point: You no longer trust each other - For some people entering a relationship can feel like
a huge risk.
This is why in order for a relationship to feel secure there has to be a large amount
of trust coming from both you and your partner.
Trust is something that is near impossible to win back once it’s been broken.
When you think of trust, most people jump to fidelity and honesty, and yet another way
trust is eroded is when people do not honour their own word, when they don’t show up
fully in the relationship, when they break agreements often without communicating.
When we’re in a relationship we want to be able to trust that our partner will be
able to support us on a bad day, make an effort to see us and will think of us when making
plans with or without us.
If you don’t feel like a priority and valued, then your heart won’t trust the relationship.
This is a big sign that this relationship is not a united one. Next point:
Personal boundaries aren’t being respected - When it feels like personal boundaries are
constantly being breached and disrespected to the point that neither of you are comfortable
being around each other then maybe it’s time to call it quits.
To get a better understanding of what boundaries are please check out my video about this topic.
You can find the link to that video right down in the description.
In a nutshell, if it feels like there’s no physical or emotional compatibility, and/or
it feels like you’re constantly having to walk on eggshells in order to avoid upsetting
each other or getting into another fight, then it probably means that things aren’t
going to work out.
Coming to that conclusion is actually beneficial for both you and your man in the long run
as it will spare you both from days, months and years of heartache, allowing you both
to heal and find the kind of commitment and affection you both deserve, except with other
people.
Now as I said earlier if you’re inclined to run from intimacy and you haven’t
yet done the work on yourself then you need to be very careful and find out whether
you’re just running away rather than working on yourself and the relationship.
To help you to work this out and to attract the very best relationship into your life
my program Never Lose Him is a godsend.
It reveals how you show up with men and why you might be attracted to people that are
not healthy for you and how to break these cycles and free yourself from 'going nowhere
relationships.'
This program can help you save years of frustration and give you the clarity you need to create
big rocking sexy love.
Check out the description down below for the link to my Never Lose Him Program.
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