As I’ve said in countless videos in the past, one of the core reasons why your ex
broke up with you is because a loss of attraction.
This loss of attraction can be emotional or physical, and there are a ton of reasons why
this happens which I’ve outlined in other videos.
But in this video, I’m going to talk about the 5 texts you can send to get that attraction
BACK … and hopefully, rebuild a better, more vibrant relationship with your ex.
What up, YouTube?
Brad Browning here with another breakup advice video.
And this time around, I’m going to talk about the top five text messages that you
can send to your ex right now that will make him or her feel more attraction towards you.
Now, of course, simply sending these five text messages without any preparation is like
throwing the parsley on to the raw chicken.
So if you haven’t already, I encourage you to check out the other videos on my channel
that have to do with ‘no contact’ and how you should act directly after a breakup.
But if you know some of the basics already, then I’m just going to jump right into this
brand new video!
Okay, so text #1 that you should send is the “Moved On” text.
Right now, you have to give the impression that you felt like the breakup was something
that was needed… and that YOU are a better person from it.
Let me jump right into an example of a “Moved On” text and I’ll explain why it works…
You can say something like…”I think the breakup is good for us.
As much as it hurts, I’ve moved on I feel better about things!”
Or here’s another example…
“I think that breakup definitely needed to happen… thanks for being there for me.
All the best.”
This text is really effective because it begins to change the way your ex thinks about you.
If you’ve done a lot of begging and pleading after the breakup… and if you’ve promised
to change and fought tooth and nail to get your ex back, then sending a text message
like this can totally transform the way your ex feels about you.
And, of course, this in turn will make your ex feel MUCH more attraction for you.
Why?
Because you effectively send their mind racing… you make him or her think about WHY you’re
moving on, and you’ll make your ex want to know why you, all of a sudden, feel this
way.
After you send this message, don’t be surprised if your ex messages you constantly asking
you questions about the breakup and why you’ve decided to move on.
In response, continue being cryptic… never say why you’ve moved on and just keep them
guessing!
This sort of dynamic is sometimes enough to get your ex back for good.
The second text to send is the “False Truth” text… in this text, you’re going to say
something like…
“The breakup is for the best…
I think it’s pretty clearly that we had too many issues to overcome.”
Again, similar to the first text, this text is designed to turn the tables and make your
ex begin chasing YOU down.
By saying that your relationship had issues to work on, you’re insinuating that you
don’t want the relationship anymore unless there are big improvements.
By doing this, you’re playing the reverse psychology card and forcing your ex to question
themselves and your past relationship.
If your ex replies with…
“What issues do you think we had?”, then reply with something confusing like, “I
don’t think now is a good time to talk about that stuff!
I just wish you the best.” and leave it as that.
Sending enough of these kinds of messages is enough to make your ex want to talk to
you, meet up with you, and seek your approval.
After that, it’s just a matter of time before your ex is begging to take you back.
The third text is something that I like to call the Fond Memory Text.
See, not many clients know this, but when it comes to re-attracting your ex, they have
a HUGE advantage.
They have the advantage of sharing so many fond memories with their ex.
Of course, there might have been some really bad memories as well, but if you can subtly
remind your ex of the GOOD times you’ve had together, you can effectively make him
or her more attracted to you in a matter of seconds.
Let’s jump into an example, shall we?
You can say something like, “I just totally hiked Mt. Washington again in my snowshoes!
Thanks for those memories.”
Or something like…
“I just had the best raspberry cheesecake at that café we used to love… so good!”
Obviously, you’re going to have to do a little brainstorming and come up with something
that is more applicable to you, but you get the idea.
By bringing up such a powerful and connecting memory with your ex, you’ll subtly remind
him or her what they found so attractive to you in the first place.
But remember, subtly is key here.
If your ex gets the inkling that you’re just trying to rouse up some drama, your ex
will feel LESS attracted to you.
If you’re stuck in a rut and you don’t know what texts to send your ex, then I highly
recommend that you sign up for my personal coaching program.
It’s SUPER inexpensive (like, less than a cup of coffee per day inexpensive), and
I promise you that you’ll get a TON of value for it.
To get more information on how you can sign up for my personal coaching program, just
head on over to BreakupBrad.com/coaching.
Remember, I can only take on so many clients per month…so if you see that there’s an
opening, then you HAVE to sign up.
Again, for more information on how you can hire me as your “Ex Back” coach, just
head on over to BreakupBrad.com/coaching.
Ok, back to it…text number four is something that I like to call the Mystery Text.
In this text message, you’re going to incite a little bit of jealousy.
I know, sounds a little evil and manipulative, but if you want to make your ex more attracted
to you, then you’re going to have to make them feel like they’re missing out.
How do you do this?
Well, lemme jump right into another example here…
You can say something like, “So I’m taking someone to the art exhibition on Friday!
to let your ex wonder WHO you’re hanging out with.
Doing this subtle tactic will drive your ex a little crazy, and in turn, make him or her
a little more attracted to you.
Finally, my last text is a bit of a different one… it’s a little bit more sexual, so
you’re going to have to be a little bit more careful in the way you use it.
I call it the “Intimacy Text”.
Let’s jump into a quick example here…
“I miss the way your perfume made my pillow smelled…”
Or if you’re a girl…
“I miss have your arms caress me as I fall asleep…”
Anything intimate like this… or somewhat sexual is a good way to remind your ex of
the passionate moments you two shared together.
Once your ex starts thinking about these moments, don’t be surprised if he or she begins yearning
for your attention and affection.
But again, you have to be sure of WHEN to send these text messages.
You can’t just simply send this text out of the blue and have your ex automatically
clamour over you.
You need to be precise and strategic in your planning.
For more information on how you can do this, head on over to BreakupBrad.com and watch
the free video presentation there.
That video is jam packed with information on how you can make your ex obsess over you
again.
Again, the URL is BreakupBrad.com!
That’s all for today, if you have any questions just post them below and I’ll get back to
you.
Talk soon!