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Six ways
women think differently than men.
Guys,
you don't have a clue.
The good news is
you've never been taught
so it's not your fault.
Here are the six ways
that women
think differently than you do.
So number one,
you guys tend to fear
or avoid sexual rejection
because your, the sex area of your brain
is much larger, it's twenty times larger than a woman's.
Whereas a woman
she fears and avoids
harm,
physical and emotional harm.
The emotional area of her brain
is eight times bigger than yours,
which explains a lot doesn't it?
Yes, it does.
Two,
you guys are built to protect,
provide for,
and procreate,
duh.
And women are built to
care for, connect with,
and communicate.
And even though in modern age
women don't really need
you to provide for them
or for you to protect them,
we actually still desire that innately.
Yeah, go figure.
Three,
men need respect and freedom,
women need again,
to feel safe
and to feel cherished.
So, if you can make a woman feel cherished
you're providing
what she needs.
Four,
men's brains are compartmentalized.
So, you know how you,
your brain is kind of like a file folding system
where you've got sex
big, big folder on sex.
Then there's relationships
and health and finance and career
and all these things are
completely separate from each other.
Whereas a woman's brain
is more like spaghetti noodles
where everything's connected.
So, a practical way
of understanding this is that
when she asks you
what you're thinking about and you say nothing
and you mean nothing.
Well, if you ever ask a woman
what she's thinking about, which you probably wouldn't
anyway but just say you do.
If she says nothing,
be very, very concerned
because she's never thinking nothing.
She doesn't have an empty file folder,
it's all connected.
Five,
men don't speak hint.
We know that women speak
a thousand shades of hint.
So, the only way really to get around this
is that you
can't obviously pick up
on signs and signals and hints
because you don't see them,
but you can ask her.
You can be very clear
about asking her
to be direct with you
about what her needs are
and just let her know and understand
that you do think differently.
You can even get her to watch this video
or get her to watch the other video
I did on how men think
differently than women.
As well,
number six, is the empty compartment.
So, you have an empty compartment
where there's the nothing
and women don't have an empty compartment
because there's no nothing
and everything's connected.
But here's one other bonus tip
is that women,
because of our need to communicate
and care for,
we tend to have
a lot more words
that we use in a day
and often times we
tend to problem-solve verbally.
So, if a woman is telling you
a story
and you've got your Mr. Fixit hat on,
she's not feeling heard.
What you need to do
is if a woman's telling you a story
that has a problem in it
that you perceive as a problem,
all you need to do
is listen and focus.
Take off your Mr. Fixit hat
and just be there
as a sounding board.
Unless she asks you
specifically for help
or if you really want to help
ask her if she does want help
or if she just wants you to listen.
And believe it or not,
but being there just to listen
is providing something
for her that she really needs.
Because she might not be able to
sort through the scramble
of the context in her head,
but if she's able to verbalize it
she might often
find the solution
and it's really thanks to you.
So, what's one thing that you learned
in this video that will help you
be more effective
with women.
Write it in the comments below
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So, thanks for watching this video
and I'll see you in the next one.
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