this video will show you how judging yourself is blocking the law of
attraction from working I'm going to share with you tools and techniques for
really seeing yourself and this new point of view so that you're able to
attract what you want welcome back to another video my name is Erin and I help
people to expand their consciousness now in this video I'm gonna be sharing with
you the power of learning how to transcend the judgments that we have
about not only ourselves but maybe other people as well but how would we have
those blockages it really is something that distance ourselves from what we
want to experience you can think of judgment in the way as a blockage or
resistance to our natural self at any time that we judge ourselves or even
someone else that's a natural blockage towards the natural feeling we should
have the feeling of feeling self accepted the feeling of feeling loved
with other people or feeling connected to other people
anytime we create a judgment we create normally a label and then that label
acts as a barrier from us to actually experience the fullness of that
interaction because of what we are in a way subconsciously putting forth on it
now realize that we have what is called an ego and that the ego is something we
use it's not something that we need to really beat down and get angry about
because you know sometimes you see videos of people saying you know the ego
is the enemy or I think there's a book called that the idea is that the ego the
brain might in a way you know have these negative characteristics sometimes but
in general we do need the ego in order to have a physical type experience and
the job of our ego is to decide what our ego wants and then to move in that
direction now of course there's power and getting it into an observer point of
view so think of it like this we have the ego the ego is dissecting
information and reacting to the environment and deciding how it relates
the inner world to the outer world and then what we can learn to do through
meditation is how to observe from a neutral point of view now the observing
is where we can observe the thoughts of the ego we can become more neutral and
not give everything such a deep meaning we can let go of good and bad we can
learn to just observe and in that point of view is where almost all the power is
it's where you'll really deep when it comes to not only feeling
more mindful and feeling happier but also with the law of attraction because
you learn to let go of negative emotions that might keep you in a certain bubble
attracting the same things over and over again so this is why what I want to talk
about with this is knowing that when it comes to judgment many times the things
that we are judging are not even our own thoughts
there's simply conditioned thoughts that we've had that we've adopted from
someone else now this could be either things that we've learned from our
parents this could be things that we learned from our peers in school but
many times we must ask ourselves the question is this really my thought or is
this a thought or a belief of someone else that I'm carrying around with me
now if we start to do that we realize that many times I'd say probably over 80
or 90 percent of the time it's not even our own beliefs or our own thoughts it's
something we just adopted at a very young age in life now these gives us
power because once we know that we can literally picture ourselves as walking
around and lugging around this luggage that's not ours and carrying it with us
everywhere we go and that luggage is the resistance that we feel because anytime
we judge ourselves or we judge someone else we create a distance we create a
barrier between us and them but also between us and ourselves because that
judgment is something that always comes back to us it's something that we are
carrying around and therefore even if that person isn't here or even if we're
doing something else what happens is whatever that is we still carry that
emotion around with us so what are some of the most powerful ways of letting go
of judgment well first off its understanding that that judgment serves
a purpose there is something you can learn from that judgment now that's what
I've done I've realized at anytime I'm judging someone else I asked myself the
question where is this coming from and then I'm able to see that many times it
may have come from some type of experience you know well I hung around
with this type of person before and they start to have these deceiving type
mentality so maybe this is how they're going to be in the future and because we
have that expectation we then have that become a self-fulfilling prophecy so
what we can learn to do is to stop judging other people by assuming
that because someone did something in the past are going to do it in the
future now we can still have discernment with this we can still be aware but be
more aware more so than adding labels and the same thing comes from ourselves
instead of judging ourselves and assuming that because we've been some
way in the past that we're always going to be some way in the future and as we
start to see that from a new point of view that will become a self-fulfilling
prophecy so the power of this whole video is knowing that when we walk
around we normally think that the thoughts we have are our own when in
reality many of the thoughts that we have are just regurgitation of past and
prior conditioning on average we think 60 to 70 thousand thoughts a day and of
those 90 percent of them are recycled from the day before now this means that
we're continuously many times perpetuating the same thoughts over and
over again and the same judgments over and over again and when we feel
judgments what we can learn to do is to observe those thoughts observe those
judgments we have and that's where the power is and when we start to observe
them from a neutral point of view we take ourselves out of that reactive mind
and that resistance that we may feel so the next time that you are feeling
resistance what you can learn to do is to moreso observe the thoughts you're
having have the awareness and be grateful that you're having this like
understanding because then as you bring in that awareness you can actually
change it we cannot change what we do not own so when we become aware that
we're continuously thinking those thoughts that's when we start to gain
our power back and that's when we could start to choose to put it in a more
powerful way now there's another part of this as well and it has to do with the
subconscious mind the subconscious mind will always run itself out the
subconscious mind runs over 90 percent of our life so the key to this isn't
necessarily just the conscious but it's also the subconscious which is where the
awareness comes in and that's where we can start to affect it now there's a
meditation that I've put in the description box that you can download
that is very powerful for being able to reprogram the subconscious mind and what
it does is this allows us using dual induction technology using NLP allows
you to really wire in a new self-image a new way in beliefs about who you are
now those beliefs that you wire in can be things that actually serve you that
make you look like you're not judging make you look like you're more allowing
the moment to be and as you start to see yourself in that new way you will start
to have a completely new experience so this is something that I recommend
people listen to right before they go to bed it's absolutely free you can
download it right now in the description box and as you do that you'll find that
I think that you see that subconscious mind doesn't have as much power over you
because you're starting to work with it rather than against it so that's one of
the keys as well remember that you can start to observe your ego when you do
that you release the resistance and you allow the moment to be and by doing that
you're letting go of that negative energy so that you're not creating that
around your bubble and that's affecting more and more of you so with that being
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much love namaste