- Now, when you're getting out there and meeting men,
you are going to encounter two different types of guys.
Number one are real men who put in real energy
into relationships and dating,
and then you're gonna encounter some men-children.
(gasps loudly) Now, men are secure as mother(beep) grownups
who are as comfortable with who they are
and what they can bring to a relationship.
Whereas men-children will make you wanna delete
every single app from your phone and become a lesbian
for the rest of your life.
But before you go off and do that,
let me walk you through the five different types of men
to absolutely avoid in your love life,
so that you don't have to go and do that.
In this way, you can shed yourself of all that toxicity
that you may encounter throughout your love life,
and then focus all of your energy
on attracting high quality men,
that actually deserve your time.
Keep watching.
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Now my Love Accelerator clients are very aware
of what we call emotional energy vampires.
These are blood-sucking vampire,
basically people who suck all of your energy from you
and completely distract you from what actually matters,
which is attracting long-lasting love.
So in this video,
I'll not only teach you how to avoid the men-children,
but I'll also teach you how to avoid the emotional energy
blood-sucking vampire men-children.
They might also get in too when you're getting out there,
meeting people.
Let's get into it.
The first type of guy that you really wanna avoid
when you're getting out there meeting people,
is the needy Ned.
He's the type of guy that when you meet him,
he just goes all in.
He is love bombing you.
The first type of guy that you really wanna avoid,
when you're getting out there meeting people
is the needy Ned.
He's the type of guy that when you meet him,
he just goes all in.
He is love bombing you.
The first type of guy that you really wanna avoid,
when you're getting out there meeting people,
is the needy Ned.
He's the type of guy that when you meet him,
he just goes all in.
He is love bombing you.
The first type of guy that you really wanna avoid,
when you're getting out there meeting people,
is the needy Ned.
He's the type of guy that when you meet him,
he just goes all in.
He is love bombing you.
The first type of guy that you really wanna avoid,
when you're getting out there meeting people,
is the needy Ned.
He's the type of guy that when you meet him,
he just goes all in.
He is love bombing you.
The first type of guy that you really wanna avoid,
when you're getting out there meeting people,
is the needy Ned.
He's the type of guy that when you meet him,
he just goes all in.
He is love bombing you.
The first type of guy that you really wanna avoid,
when you're getting out there meeting people,
is the needy Ned.
He's the type of guy that when you meet him,
he just goes all in.
He is love bombing you, he's texting you constantly.
He wants to see you.
Whether you see him on a Monday,
he then wants to see you on Tuesday, Wednesday,
Thursday, Friday and then weekend comes,
he wants to spend the weekend with you.
And it feels like too much,
but you wanna give in because you're at a point
where you're ready for a relationship.
So you think, "Well, this is really cool."
And then you finally do give in,
you dive deep into this relationship
only to find out three months later,
that needy Ned moves on to be needy Ned with another woman.
It's guys like this who go in and out of relationships,
really hard, really strong.
They tend to be pretty insecure about themselves,
which is why they need so much affection so quickly,
but then once you actually reciprocate with that affection,
they tend to back away and move on to the next.
Avoid the needy Ned.
The second type of guy is the freedom Frankie.
This is the type of guy
that can be deeply falling in love with you,
but he's always keeping his distance,
because he fights for his freedom so hard
that he is not even willing to consider
being in a relationship.
And he'll go so far to even just protect himself
from falling in love.
He will back away
the moment he starts to be affectionate with you,
or the moment you start to be affectionate with him
and you can tell in his eyes that he has feelings for you,
but he's protecting his freedom with all his energy.
I know this guy pretty well because I used to be that guy.
Back in my twenties, I would fight for my freedom
with everything I had, because I was at a stage in my life
where I wanted to be able to travel a lot.
I wanted to have a lot of freedom in my life
and being in a hardcore long-term relationship,
was just not in the cards for me.
So anytime I would find myself starting to fall for a woman,
I would start to back away and fight for my freedom
with all my might.
Guy number three is the selfish Sam.
This is the guy where dating is just all about him
and his needs and what he can get out of it for himself.
Sometimes these men can even be narcissists
where they only look at their own needs and wants
and have little to no concern about you.
He'll consistently lie to be able to get out of situations,
he doesn't wanna be in or he'll lie about quite frankly,
anything that avoids any type of confrontation
or difficult conversations,
because he doesn't wanna deal with it.
He wants to be able to live on his terms
and make himself happy with again, no concern about you.
It's almost like your only reason for existing
is to serve this guy.
And it's almost impossible to be in a healthy relationship
with someone like this, because in a healthy relationship,
both of you are giving and putting in
and wanting to make the other person happy,
thus creating a very healthy, happier relationship.
Guy number four is the no effort Nick.
This is the type of guy who will respond to your texts,
but he's not really initiating,
or maybe he will initiate texts, but he never makes plans,
because he doesn't put in any effort.
In our Love Accelerator coaching program,
we call this orbiters.
These are people who kinda live in your orbit,
whether it's guys you're talking to on dating apps
or online dating, or even guys you've met out and about,
they might text you a lot,
but they actually put a note effort to see you,
to take you out or to progress things forward.
My clients avoid these men at all costs,
because we never invest more on a person
than they are investing in us.
Never invest a lot of emotional energy
in someone like no effort Nick.
And the final guy that you want to avoid
like the absolute plague, is controlling Cam.
This is the type of guy who literally beats to his own drum
and by the way, if you don't beat to that same drum,
he's going to have a real problem with that.
If you wanna have a night out with your girlfriends
away from him, he wants to know exactly where you're going,
what time you'll be there and what time you're leaving
and he wants to hear from you,
the moment you leave that venue.
He's the type of guy that makes you have to see his family
and spend time there, but when it comes time
to actually do anything that you wanna do,
sorry, he's not available.
He'll go so far to tell you
what clothing you can and cannot wear.
What's appropriate, what's not appropriate.
I've heard stories about women telling me about men
that require them to text pictures of what they're wearing
before any night they go out together.
This is a controlling Cam.
So I wanna hear from you in the comments below,
which of these five types of guys have you ever dated?
So moving forward,
I want you to set a new standard for yourself.
No more investing your energy
into men who are going to absolutely drain
all of your emotional energy.
No more giving into the controlling Cam
and no more chasing the no effort Nick for more attention,
no more.
From this point forward, you know the type of men to avoid
and if you are ready to start attracting
the right type of men and know exactly what to look for
when you're getting out there and meeting men,
I do recommend you apply
for our Love Accelerator coaching
at LoveApply.com.
You can speak to one of my trained love strategists,
and we will walk you through the little love steps
so that you can finally attract that relationship
and that men that you truly deserve.
Thank you so much for watching
and I'll speak to you next week.
Bye bye.