This video is about "The Signs of a Cold Person" I'm going to tell you the signs to look out for
when dealing with a cold-hearted person, and to find out more please stay tuned to this video...
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What is a cold person? A cold-hearted person does not allow themselves to
connect emotionally with others either because they're afraid or not interested
Recently i went to an event where i was introduced to people who i thought were nice and genuine
The reality was they were very cold and very awkward. We were supposed to be getting along
having fun but something was off and apparently these people were like that with everyone
Naturally they're cold people, I'm a friendly guy I think i'm fun I really like to connect and vibe
with people, I do that with strangers easily after all look i have this YouTube channel
i'm talking and conveying myself to people from all over the globe
all backgrounds, ages etc and i'm doing so in a friendly open way. With cold people you just
struggle to warm to them overall... you can hug them but it feels one-sided... you have a conversation
with them and you try to get to know them and it just doesn't feel right... something just feels off
and if you're friendly and perhaps empathetic like me you cannot help but notice that strange
behavior... Of course some people may need time to warm up to you they might be shy they might not
be ready to be their true self but this video is not about the more introverted and anxious person
this is instead about the cold-hearted person, who makes you feel weird, awkward, uncomfortable
the person who's hard to warm to. Avoid the cold person do not try and get them to like
you and appreciate you, do not try to build something with them especially romantically
there are happier, healthier and better people out there for you instead. Focus your energy and life
on those people instead of the cold-hearted person. Here are the signs of cold people....
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Cold people can be rude and entitled and very snobbish towards you and others
They've come to a conclusion in their mind about other people and they're not pleasant
I'm a college dropout yet i've successfully been self-employed for many years
however one time i was met with a very cold woman who looked down on me because i didn't have a
degree! Initially she was pleasant and polite but the moment she realized i didn't have an education
her attitude changed, she refused to continue talking to me, stared me up and down like a
piece of meat, ignored me completely and did plenty of other rude things as well
Feeling self-conscious i asked a few people "what's her problem??" and they told me exactly
what i had suspected = "she has no respect for people who have no college education," and clearly she had
no control of showing such disdain for people like that as well. The older, more insecure me would have
gone above and beyond to seek the approval of that cold woman who looked down on me
but now as i'm 35 comfortable with who i am i don't care, because you'll never be good enough
for the wrong person! Cold people will write you off quickly because they're just rude and they're
entitled to thinking they deserve better. It's no surprise how such people aren't very popular
not liked by many people either and are just not pleasant to be around in any capacity, because
their cold nature evokes such hostile entitlement and rudeness and no one who's healthy wants to
spend their time with someone who is rude and behaves like that do they, or especially someone
who actually looks down on you because of your life choices, where you were born or how you look!
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Cold people like most toxic people lack empathy because they're so concerned about themselves
they'll struggle to relate to you, understand you, have sympathy or even just talk to you! A
few years back i lost my dad tragically to illness, everyone was shocked by the news as he died at 62.
i knew someone who never offered condolences, reached out to support and was completely distant
and cold. It was not my job to educate this person how to be an adult and be compassionate so i never
let it bother me, until one day they called me up a few months later after my dad passed away
saying the following "we should hang out, hopefully you're still not feeling sorry for yourself
about your loss!" The comment was rude but he could not relate at all, they assumed grief was a waste
of time, they could not comprehend the pain me and my family went through, instead they were
more focused on themselves and what they could gain from the interaction and knowing each other.
You cannot teach empathy to cold people, you could do a Ted Talk or a PowerPoint
presentation to a cold person of how much pain and suffering you have endured, you can use evidence
examples, it could be an impressive production but it does not matter and it will not work
because cold people have no empathy for others unless it directly involves or affects them
in some capacity. They are not interested, one cold person once told me the following
"Why are you telling me about your suffering, it has nothing to do with me?! I
actually find it boring, i'm not interested go away!!" Cold people lack empathy and compassion.
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The cold-hearted person is extremely unreliable therefore expect to be let down. Remember
they are naturally cold and selfish, they don't have your best interest at heart, you're like an
accessory to them, a toy, making false promises or decisions and backing out at the same time too
Perhaps you wish to make plans with a cold person? Anything from a catch-up to booking
a vacation together, maybe you need them to help you get out of a jam, regardless the cold person
will truthfully bring you down and let you down...They may ghost you completely, they may not show
up at all, they might make a lame excuse or flake at the last minute, you are on the receiving end of
this unreliable behavior as you are waiting for them moving heaven on earth to accommodate them
only to be eventually let down. There was once a cold man who was a nightmare socially
as he would hate to commit to anything or anyone but he was polite and he'd often say "yes"
to whatever he was asked, when truthfully he just did not want to do anything that didn't suit him!
Long story short he'd always let everyone down that he knew to the point where no one
bothered to ask to see him again. "We've given up with him" were the words of all his friends
Why are they unreliable? One harsh reality behind this unreliable behavior of the cold
person is truthfully they're just waiting for a better option! Have you ever had plans with
a cold person like a date or night out only for them to throw you under the bus the last minute?
Truth is something better came along and you were just an option to fill the void in the meantime
sometimes, something better, it could be just them doing their own thing or hanging out on their own
Aka being selfish and entitled and throwing you under the bus!
They may not be as extroverted and expressive with their toxic behavior but the reality is
cold people are just not good news for you. I've lost count how many cold people have ruined my
life, i've had holidays cancelled last minute, many dates flake at the last minute, people pull out of
life changing business deals, and i've been left standing with my tail between my leg many times
too and to what avail? What gain did the cold person bring to my life? What positive impact or
change? Nothing, only pain, misery, discomfort and a whole heap of unnecessary stress and drama.
Walk away! There are good healthy, genuine, happy people out there who want the best for you
that do go on vacation with you, and you have an amazing time, that show up early to your date, that
do deals and partner with you, and change your life, that even if they're late or they make a
mistake they'll make it up to you! Choose these people instead rather than flogging the awful old
horse that is a relationship an interaction a friendship whatever with a cold person...