Uncle c, back in the office and in today's video I'm going to be explaining stoicism
and the number one trait that all alpha males have that 99% of men simply don't. Okay,
this one trait I'll give away the punchline in the beginning is being nonreactive. But the real
fundamental of this is understanding just how reactive 99% of guys are when it comes to the
things that are ingrained in their conscious, as well as their subconscious. Okay, today what we're
going to be doing is I'm going to be taking you through the exact framework that I use
to identify myself on a day to day basis if I'm actually striving towards excellence and within
my purpose, or ultimately from becoming just honestly a weak needy little bi Tch.
And because of that this video is designed to really show you exactly how
you can be stoic, you can actually Excel within your purpose quicker, you can attract the types
of women that you want. And ultimately, you can be the man of success that you, you genuinely
know you were meant to be deep down. Now for those of you who don't know me, my name is Casey Zander.
I'm the founder of head man, and I'm here to help revitalize masculinity and make men strong again,
when it comes to their relationships, their issues with women, and ultimately who they
are on their purpose to maximize their wealth and their potential. Now let's dive into step
number one, okay? The masculine fundamental of not caring, okay, and why this is so important.
In order to truly understand these other categories, we're going to get into such as,
you know, being nonreactive when it comes to money, or personal finances, or even women,
okay? The truth is that most guys don't understand that stoicism is when you're indifferent to
external circumstances. What does this mean? This means that you cannot be moved emotionally. Okay?
You are not emotionally volatile. Now, I will give you numerous examples of men who are emotionally
volatile. And this is why they don't have success within their relationships or within who they are.
They're screaming at the television during sports, they're screaming at the girlfriend on her phone,
if she drove and was out with her friend for too long, right? They're screaming at their parents,
because they don't like the situation. They're pissed off at their boss. And then they're angry,
and they go home, and they watch the dirty websites like it surely is just a travesty
of men who are not stable at all. So when you are indifferent to external circumstances, guess what
happens, there's less stress in your life in every way, shape, and form. But not only that, you now
have faster success. Because you are feeling less. There is no strength in feeling things when it
comes to your decision making process. As a man, I hope you understand that the more you feel, the
more you go with what your heart tells you, the more that you get into that whoo mystical state,
the more you're being stripped of the power of rational, objective truth between your head.
See, this is where most men go completely wrong. They're emotionally volatile. Because
of that they are not indifferent to external circumstances, they are moved in every way,
shape and form by external circumstances. And this is why they simply cannot succeed.
Now I'm going to give you some react, I'm going to give you some examples of how men are reactionary,
okay? When it comes to finances, when it comes to that man excelling in his career,
this is how the modern man lives. When it comes to business. He's reactive over everything. Maybe
his ads, don't convert the dude spazzed out, I used to be this guy, okay, maybe all of a sudden,
an employee screws up or screws him over, he spazzed out thinking it's the end of the world.
I used to be that guy. Maybe it's a software breaks, maybe it's a customer wants a refund.
I don't know what it is. But this will happen. All of these things that I just described to you will
happen. And you know what happens because he's reactive, he's reacting because he's in scarcity,
because he does not think he's good enough. So then when it comes to bills, reactionary at all
times, emotionally volatile, pissed off angry at the world. And because of that, he can't actually
make cold calculated decisions to excel his life further. Look at this, how deep this goes. Most
men want to climb the dominance hierarchy, okay, they want to excel in life. They want to actually
love, love their status in their career. But when it comes right down to it, because of their lack,
because of their scarcity, because of every little small, 1% setback,
they're ready to throw away the entire the entire journey in the entire mission over small little
things. This is not being stoic. This is in fact, living out of fear and living out of emotion,
you're still too much invested. So what this really comes down to is men oftentimes putting
their self worth within their paycheck, and ultimately telling themselves they are not good
enough until they hit X. They are not good enough until they hit why they're not good enough until
they hit z. And what happens Within this mindset is you can never actually make the cold calculated
decisions in life that it takes to move the needle of success up, you are constantly in reaction
to what everybody else is doing to pull your internal world. Okay? This translates to women.
When you see the modern man go on a date with a woman or date a woman in general,
here's what happens. He is in reaction to everything that she does. She tests him,
he spazzing out, she all of a sudden goes out with friends, it's the end of the world. All of
a sudden, she's not calling him enough. It's the end of the world. He has nothing else going on.
And he's in reaction to everything. See, as a man, your masculine centered your masculine frame, she
is watching and waiting for you to be the rock. And when you are the rock that cannot be moved.
You are the man with the ultimate power. Because this is something that most guys just don't have.
So some of the most powerful words you can say to a woman would be okay. And she's gonna
say every time just okay. Yes. Just Okay. See, it's okay to actually give the truth. It's okay
to speak like a man. Another thing, no, being able to say yes versus no without justifying yourself,
or even I don't care. You're going to get a lot of women that tests you in every way, shape and form.
Why can't you be more like this? Why can't you be more like that? Why can't you be this type of
guy? Why can't you be more empathetic? Why can't you be the type of guy who cares more? And you
know what happens? As you start to engage your own feelings to appease hers, it proves you can
be stripped of everything that made you a man in the first place. Now here's the truth. This is a
little quote I came up with by myself if you hear anybody rip this quote off, just know that this
is the source of where this was originated from when men misbehave, right when men act beta when
men act weak, when men misbehave, women dumped them. When women misbehave, men try to fix them.
Look how disgusting that is. The misbehavior is to oftentimes shown through disrespect, not being
loyal not being trustworthy. And what does the man try to do? He tries to win over that woman still,
as if he can fix that personality, which means his mental bandwidth is going towards things
going towards people that is purposely pulling him off of his center in the first place. Do you know
what the scary superpower is that you can obtain with this one video alone. It's to live by the
monster of I can't be moved. I don't care. You can exit my life. Good. You can try to crumble the biz
good. Maybe something happens and I'm checked to check for two months in a row. Good, I'll live
I'll be fine. I'm not going to have any emotional toxicity towards it and I'm not going to be moved.
This is the power of stoicism being nonreactive a true 1% mentality that 99% of men simply do not
have. If you like this video, I want you to check out the links that I have below for coaching we
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