how can you get a girl to trust you I'm gonna give you some practical tips for a
healthy relationship you finally found the girl of your dreams she's gorgeous
funny makes you feel amazing but there still seems to be something holding her
back this is somewhat normal when you first start dating and even if you can't
wait to share a lot of the wonderful moments with your new girlfriend she may
be reluctant to open up don't worry she will learn to trust you but she needs
some time to get to know you and see how great you actually are women feel
vulnerable when they share their emotions and thoughts guys do this as
well so it's important to have patience this doesn't mean being a good boy and
waiting around you should prove to your girl that you're honest kind and someone
whom she can really like so how can you get a girl to trust you in five easy
steps most girls and women fear that if they
open themselves up to a man the man will get scared and leave but if you really
like her and want to prove that you were indeed committed to having a deeper
relationship here's five tips on how you can get a girl to trust you number one
be a good listener this is so important yes girls tend to talk a lot and a lot
about things that don't really matter but you should know how to separate the
daily jibber-jabber from the things that are actually important to her in fact
you probably talked a lot about things that don't really matter either when she
talked about work or school listen to what she has to say because this is a
section of her life that is very important if she's having a tough time
maybe let her vent and unloaded her frustrations and make sure to avoid
spacing out you need to listen listening is super important it's also important
to avoid giving her advice when she doesn't ask for your opinion men have a
natural tendency to provide solutions for what they consider problems but
women need a friend and someone they can listen to their problems not a repairmen
now that you know a little bit about some of the things that are important
you should ask her about it from time to time it showed that you listened when
she shared these feelings with you and that you actually want to know a little
bit more that you're interested also you can offer a bit of comfort for her
problems by giving her maybe a relaxing massage or throwing her a hot bubbly
bath regardless of the situation make sure to keep your ears opened tip number
two to get her to trust you is do not pressure her when you're just starting
and everything is exciting you can't wait to get her know her and solidify
the intimacy between you and her physically mentally and emotionally but
for women things are a bit different if most of them will not hesitate when it
comes to the physical connection they need more time for the mental and
emotional one chances are they've been burnt before so they want to see if you
are a man of your word before sharing the most vulnerable part of their being
their emotions and their deepest dreams and fears to get her to open up
of yourself trustworthy by respecting what you say so don't be late to your
dates do the things that you actually said you're going to do and don't talk
trash about your friends or other people when you're with her ideally you
shouldn't talk trash about people at all a trustworthy man is an honest man and
understands the value of friendship the idea here is to be patient and let her
open up naturally don't apply pressure and make her feel uncomfortable I've
seen that the best relationships happen naturally tip number three is to do not
lie well this one is simple just be honest of course this doesn't mean
sharing everything with her in the first five days of your relationship but don't
openly lie if she asks about something and you're not ready to share or you
know she's not ready to learn about it from you simply say I don't feel
comfortable talking about this right now I'll share it with you when I feel it's
time so can you please be patient this shows her that you don't want to rush
into things and you don't want to just lie to get out of a difficult situation
but it's very important to be honest about things that you know will have an
effect on your relationship in the future for instance if you're just
looking for a hookup don't say you want a committed relationship
yes it might work but if you're using her for your own game that is not right
it is not a characteristic of an alpha male it's also important to avoid the
so-called white lies for instance if you have to meet up with a female friend but
you're not sure how she would react don't say you'll be out with the guys it
might seem innocent at the moment but these things have a way of coming out
and she will lose trust in your actions and your word tip number three was to be
open and honest about the things that might upset her let's move on to tip
number four is to trust her if you want her to trust you you should also trust
her if you keep checking her phone asking about the guys in a contact list
this does not show trust first it shows that you don't even have trust in
yourself which is bad so if she goes out with the girls every now and then don't
question her motives just wish her to have fun of course you shouldn't just
close your eyes on signals that might warn you about her deceiving you but
it's best to have an open conversation about this still if you feel you can't
trust her then she definitely probably does not trust you tip number five the
last one for you guys to gain trust is eye contact someone said the eyes are
the mirror of the soul well this may be a corny saying it's also something to
consider I contact as important when you want to establish a valuable connection
with someone after all that's how it all started right you locked eyes with her
and your story began now there's a thousand things that go into effective
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deal with eye contact is a make her feel comfortable around you so the
appropriate amount I contact is very important for instance if you tend to
look down or away when you're talking to her this can give her the feeling that
you might be hiding something even though you might just be nervous on
the other hand if you can't take your eyes off of her this might also be
problematic I mean I get it she's gorgeous and you can't believe you how
lucky you are to have her but being stared at makes her feel like an object
she's not your new shiny car so back off I'm gonna give you guys a bonus tip is
to make her feel comfortable yes you might be nervous when you're going out
with her but you're not on your first date anymore loosen up a bit and do your
best to make her laugh girls adore guys who can make them laugh and forget about
the difficulties of their day if you're not good at telling jokes you can tell
her maybe a funny story or take her to a comedy or maybe even take her to a
stand-up show there are plenty of ways to make her feel comfortable around you
but it's most important to be genuine about it if you're truly nervous tell
her about what you're feeling and why there's a good chance she reads your
nervousness wrong and this is why she might not open up finally for as much as
possible try not to glance at other gorgeous ladies I know it's difficult
for a lot of guys but it's disrespectful to your girlfriend and even though you
think you can be discreet about it there's a good chance she's going to
notice so don't risk it how would you feel if your girlfriend was checking out
other guys especially in the beginning of the relationship it's really
important to define this line anyways at the end of the day your actions will
always speak louder than words so do a quick analysis of your behavior and your
feelings and make sure you truly want this girl to trust you then ask yourself
would you trust yourself if you were in her position now there are definitely
more steps to getting a girl to trust you but the ones that I've listed here
are easy to follow and don't imply too much effort for you to comply to of
course if you want to go further you might consider some gifts to show her
your affection and maybe talk to her friends about how to win her trust
overall the idea is to be patient and prove that you are trustworthy through
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