Matt Artisan here and today I'm going to give you three simple steps that you can use
to approach beautiful women anywhere at any time and it paints you in the most attractive
light possible so that you can appear to be really confident. You don't have to pretend to be somebody
you're not or memorize any lines or routines or come off as some weird pickup guy. "Is there enough
room for some mayonnaise in this ladies sandwich?" So here's the deal most dating coaches and pickup
coaches out there focus on what to do what you're saying how you're standing it's do this.. do
this.. say that.. none of that really matters what you say not that important I can go up to a woman and
say "Hi I don't even know what to say right now" "I forgot what I was gonna say you're you're so cute
my mind went blank" and she can start giggling start laughing and be attracted right away and
it has nothing to do with looks. You might say "Oh well he's a good looking guy" and I say thank you
to that you have amazing eyes ah thank you you're so sweet but we also have a lot of not so good
looking clients who have amazing results because the thing is what you say and what you do is not
that important what is important is how you're being in that moment that's what really matters
your Vibe your energy how you're coming across what you're thinking how you're feeling women have
what's called diffuse awareness which means they pick up on everything they're noticing all the
little details in their environment and when you approach them they're picking up on all the little
subtle cues that you're giving off that are either showing confidence and certainty or insecurities
shame things like that so you can have the best pickup line in the world evening I'm looking
forward to the doctor being in oh but it's not really gonna matter at all if you're walking up
to her with all this doubt in your mind and on the flip side you could say pretty much nothing and
walk up to her with certainty belief in yourself and just radiate confidence and Charisma and it
can work really well one of my favorite things to say is just hi I'm Matt who are you simple
as that hi hi I didn't say my name did I you did it no how rude of you is Mateo nothing special
about that except for the sub Communications that she's picking up on what kind of trouble you girls
getting into now right now today yeah let's go so let's get into step number one which is
so important because none of the other steps are gonna even happen if you don't do step number one
so your first way of being is being bold I know it sounds simple but it's crucial and it's really
one of the hardest steps for most guys is because they see a beautiful woman and then they hesitate
they second guess themselves they get in their head instead of just stepping into boldness it's
like a minor Act of Courage you've got to walk up to her oh sorry I'm late hi I'm Matt because
nothing's gonna happen if you don't walk up to her don't be like one of those guys who just cat calls
women and hoping that they're gonna walk over to her it never happens in fact in the history of the
human race I don't think a woman has ever been catcalled and then was like Oh Me Oh okay yes I
would like to talk to you and walks up to the guy doesn't happen and the easiest way to get yourself
to actually be bold and approach her is to stop thinking about the whole thing that you have to
have a conversation and say all these things and get her attracted to you and get her phone number
and blah blah blah blah makes it sound really hard even though it's not really hard it's just think
of the first step which is literally taking a step you see a beautiful woman instead of
thinking okay I gotta do all these things just say okay I'm just gonna walk towards her maybe
I won't even talk to her let's just walk towards her see if she's cute see if I like her and then
when you get to her then you can decide if you want to talk to her or not excuse me real quick
I go up the no pressure approach because you're really taking all the pressure away you're not
saying oh I got to do all this stuff I got to say all these things you're just saying no I'm
gonna go walk towards her and then if she's cute then you say one thing which we'll get into next
basically the point is you can bail at any moment I remember when I was about five or six years old
my mom would took me to Disneyland and we were waiting in line for Magic Mountain and I was
screaming and crying because I was scared to go on and so she just told me all you got to do is
wait in line for 30 minutes and then decide once you get to the Top If you want to ride the rider
or not just see the ride and see what it's all about just you know check it out and then decide
and then of course once I got to the top you know still pretty scared but somehow she talked me into
it the point is she gave me an option to take the chicken exit so all you got to do is a little bit
of boldness you don't have to focus on the whole thing and ride the entire ride just focus on the
first step which is waiting in line when it comes to women it's taking a step towards them it's
walking towards them and then saying something it might just be introducing yourself or telling her
that she's absolutely gorgeous which brings me into step number two be honest be honest what's
the real reason you're going over there to talk to her I don't usually do this but I just thought you
were absolutely adorable oh thank you I had to at least say hi oh thank you hi easy to ask her for
directions do you guys know how to get to know you okay is it to ask her if she can help you decide
on something to buy your niece probably not you're probably attracted to her and most guys think they
need to hide that fact which is absurd when you think about it when you walk up to her and you
give her a compliment you tell her look I saw you over there and I had to come over and meet you
because you are absolutely gorgeous you're really pretty thank you very much I had to meet you
how much is that going to turn her on that you had the courage to say exactly what you think and
feel that you didn't have to hide your intention it shows so much confidence that you believe she
would be attracted to you because most guys they hide their intentions because they don't
think the woman would actually be interested in them so they have to use some like covert
way to try to get their foot in the door which women know anyways plus women are really good
at reading your intentions so if you use some backhanded way to approach her some indirect
beating around the bush method some pickup line that you heard somewhere a popular one used to
be do you like horses because you remind me of this girl from high school she loved horses and
blah blah blah blah it was all [ __ ] and women can read that you're full of crap and guess what
it's a complete turn off when you can't just own your attraction towards her and you have to be
you have to lie essentially just can't own up to being a man that's such a turn off but when you
can just be completely honest and just tell her yeah I'm a man you're a woman and I'm attracted
to you I just thought you're really pretty thank you and I want to get your sister's permission
to ask you out you don't necessarily have to say it like that but that's the underlining
context she's gonna absolutely love that even if she's way better looking than you you might
not be a very good looking guy and she could be drop dead gorgeous but when you walk up to her
with that type of confidence and certainty in your Vibe and in your mannerisms it shows her
that you expect her to like you it shows her that you date women of her caliber and if you're not a
good looking guy then that shows her you must have all these other things going for yourself
she's not sure what yet but she's thinking wow this guy has such courage to approach me
this you know gorgeous model or whatever it can really impress her in fact I have a friend who's
very short this is my buddy Ike it's just a little over five feet tall and he'd walk up to six foot
but tall women six foot plus and he would tap them on their heels with his foot and they would look
down and be like what oh and see this shorter man there and he would just be confidently looking up
in their eyes and say whatever he is gonna say I think it was something like you must be shorter
than me if you took off those heels or something like that and they'd be kind of confused at first
because like why is this short guy so confident thinking tall woman like me would be attracted
to him but it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy because as the saying goes what you believe you
can achieve so just own it man you're attracted to women you don't need to hide it you don't need to
pretend just go up to her and tell her the truth the real reason that you're approaching her and
that will absolutely make her day and show her how confident you really are I just thought you
were absolutely gorgeous thing and I had to say hi and then the third step has to do with
the conversation you just told her that she's gorgeous and you had to come over and meet her
and then hopefully you introduce yourself now what do you do you got to have a conversation with her
well it's very simple you just need to be curious about her who is she what is she all about would
she fit in your world or not does she qualify for somebody that you would want to date stop thinking
long term like you know do I want a girlfriend or not just think do you want to go on a date
with this girl or not that's it quickly tell me one cool thing about it really and then that's
the whole mission of the approach is to make her day and then find out if she's cool find out if
you want to take things further as simple as that that might involve asking her some questions some
qualification questions to see what she's all about it might make some assumptions about her
and she might correct you and say no I'm not that type of person I'm this type of person but the
point is all you got to do is be curious about her that's it now I don't mean just be curious
about everything about her and ask her 50 million questions in a row and interrogate her that's not
fun for her at all I mean be curious if she fits in your world like you're not sure about her yet
yeah she's going gorgeous but so what looks fade you want to find out if there's inner beauty as
well this is going to help you come off as more of a challenge in an authentic way you're really
curious about her you're really hoping she's cool and you know would be a good match for you but you
quite frankly don't know yet and think about this when you walk up to a beautiful woman and you're
challenging her and you're like you know I don't I don't know anything about you so I'm gonna put
you on the spot right now tell me something that makes you cool like what do you love about what
are you passionate about tell me one cool thing about you what do you love to do like that's just
an example by the way you do not need to copy that it wasn't even a great example but it's
going to show her that you have standards you're not going to just settle for any beautiful woman
so what you date beautiful women all the time by the way I need a haircut and what happens
is when you have this attitude that you're not sure about her yet that she can't win you over
with just her beauty alone she becomes more attracted too because you're so different than
all the other guys that she talks to who are won over immediately because she's so beautiful and
they have this energy like oh please like me I'll take you anywhere I'll do anything for you you
have the opposite you're like taking a step back and you're kind of looking at her like you're not
sure about her yet and that actually can make her start chasing you again it's not about a certain
line or phrase although a lot of times you're going to be asking her a qualification question
because you're qualifying her you don't know if you want to date her or not so what she's cute
a lot of girls are cute you want to find out if she's cool or if there's anything more than meets
the eye like what are you all about like what are you passionate about and when you do this you'll
see beautiful women start lighting up and start like oh uh you know even getting nervous trying
to think of something to say it in essence they're trying to impress you which is much better than
you trying to impress her that's gonna have the opposite effect that's just gonna push her away
that's going to come off as you trying to brag and cover up your insecurities don't do that get her
to chase you all right now that I'm done with my haircut looking extra sexy let's go approach some
women but before we do that there's actually a fourth step it's very important once you've
found out what she's all about I mean you know a little bit about her really you're not going to
find out that much about her until you go on a date with her but once you've decided like
this is a cool girl I want to go on a date with her the fourth step is to go on a date with her
take things further you got to leave so that's step number four is lead or be a leader and go
for the phone number go for social media do you have Instagram what's your phone number
or best case scenario go for an instant date right there on the spot go grab ice cream go
grab a drink go grab coffee and get to know her we're gonna go on a date you wanna grab ice cream
remember you always should be leading it's your job as a man to take things further to
make moves and to escalate the interaction yeah bring your friend I'm done and if you want me
and my team to help you do this take you in the field approach beautiful women with you
role play with models and actually mic you up and give you feedback on your interactions then make
sure to apply for live training with me and my team click the link down in the description or
to the right of the screen right now and hopefully I'll see you at a boot camp soon. [Music]