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Today, we are going to learn about 6 signs that a shy girl likes you.
Now, let’s begin.
Helping Hands Does she have a hard time expressing herself
around you?
Talking to you may be nerve-racking.
It leaves her feeling awkward and tongue-tied.
So instead of communicating out loud, she may use her actions to express her feelings.
Imagine you’re moving out of your apartment this weekend.
You mention your upcoming move to a shy girl you know.
And she leaps at the opportunity to help you out.
A few days later, she happily helps you move boxes for hours.
She’s not just a nice person.
She’s doing it… because she likes you.
Here’s another sample situation.
Let’s say you’ve been working long hours lately.
You’ve been working so much… that you haven’t been eating properly.
If a shy girl likes you, she may offer to pick up lunch for you.
Or bring dinner one night after work.
She’s offering a helping hand, because she wants to get involved in your life.
Pay attention anytime a shy girl does you a favor.
Shy girls like to help the people they’re interested in.
She wants to make your life easier.
She wants to show you that she cares by shouldering some of your stress.
Even if she never vocalizes her feelings, she’s expressing interest by taking action.
Hidden Looks Eye contact is one of the most impactful pieces
of body language.
It expresses closeness, friendship, attention, and romantic interest.
We use eye contact to show our bosses we’re paying attention, just like we use eye contact
to show our partners we care.
But shy girls avoid eye contact.
Every time you look her way, she’ll quickly turn her head.
She’ll avoid your gaze and stare at he ground.
So does that mean she’s not interested?
Shy girls rely less on eye contact… and more on the direction of their gaze.
Let’s go back to the previous scenario.
A few seconds before you made eye contact, she was probably staring at you.
She may have been looking at you for 10 full seconds before you noticed.
Yes, she looked away as soon as you turned your head.
But before you noticed her, she couldn’t take her eyes off of you.
If a shy girl is interested in you, she will look at you every chance she gets… as long
as you’re not paying attention.
She looks only when she thinks you won’t see her.
But eventually you’ll catch her in the act.
You’ll turn your head to find her looking right at you.
In the moment, she’ll look away.
However, as soon as you turn your head, she’ll steal another glance.
A shy girl may not like making eye contact, but she may be staring at you in secret.
Forever Interested Does the conversation drag when you’re together?
This is a common issue with many shy women.
She clams up.
She doesn’t know what to say.
She leaves you to carry the conversation.
Does that mean she’s not interested?
It’s actually the opposite.
A shy girl may become especially quiet around someone she likes.
But how do you know if she likes you… or just feeling uncomfortable?
The key is interest.
Does she remain interested and involved throughout the conversation?
Does she smile when you talk?
Is she paying attention and absorbing what you’re saying?
If the answer is yes, she’s not uncomfortable.
In fact, she’s probably having a great time with you.
Shy people like to listen.
She wants to learn more about you.
Even if she doesn’t respond, she’s interested in what you have to say.
That’s why many shy girls like when their partners take the lead.
She feels more comfortable when you steer the conversation, because she can listen and
relax.
So don’t let her silence scare you off.
If a shy girl is interested in you, the conversation may not flow naturally.
She may never start the conversation or pull her own weight.
But that doesn’t mean she isn’t interested.
So don’t be afraid to take the lead.
Chances are, she’ll be grateful you did.
Subdued Flirting Flirting can be open and obvious.
An extraverted girl may express their interest loud and clear.
She’ll laugh at your jokes.
She’ll enter your personal space.
She’ll brush your arm or set her hand on your leg.
When trying to figure out if a girl likes you, these telltale signals are extremely
helpful.
If her interest is obvious, you feel more confident moving things forward, right?
But what if you can’t tell whether or not she’s flirting with you?
Many guys run into this issue with introverted women.
You spend the whole conversation looking for obvious signs of flirtation.
You’re trying to gauge her interest.
So you’re constantly looking for verbal cues, body language, and points of contact.
But you never find any of these signals.
The truth is… a shy girl may never show you that she likes you.
She may keep entirely to herself, making you think she’s uncomfortable and disinterested.
But that’s not how she really feels.
In reality, she does like you.
And she wants you to know.
Flirting just doesn’t come naturally to her.
In her mind, she may be flirting the best she can.
She may be using smaller, more subtle signals than most.
But, in her own way, she’s putting her feelings out there.
Instead of looking for obvious signals, pay more attention to the smaller changes.
For example, sitting close to you may not be an obvious sign of attraction.
For someone who is shy, this can be a big step.
It takes a lot of courage for her to sit so close to someone she likes.
You may also notice her smiling after everything you say.
Shy people are generally uncomfortable talking to strangers.
So don’t take her smile for granted.
If you’re making her smile, it means she’s having a good time.
Yes, shy girls may not flirt as openly as others.
But the signals are there.
Just be patient and look closely.
Indirect Quality Time If a shy girl likes you, she’ll want to
spend more time together.
She’ll want you to get involved in her life, the same way she wants to get involved in
yours.
But the problem is… she’s too timid to ask you directly.
Instead, shy girls find indirect ways to spend quality time with the people they like.
Her friends may ask you to tag along somewhere, because she doesn’t want to ask you herself.
Or maybe she’ll think of excuses to get on your schedule.
She’ll find unique ways to intertwine your daily lives.
That way, you end up at the same place at the same time.
If you notice these things happening, it’s not just a coincidence.
You’re not running into her by accident.
If a shy girl likes you, she will find ways to see you, even if she never asks you directly.
Of course, this can be confusing.
In the back of your mind, you know she might like you, but you’re not sure.
Luckily, there’s a simply trick you can use to gauge her interest.
Next time you run into her, be direct.
Take the lead.
Ask her to do something small, just the two of you.
Let’s say, for example, you keep running into each other at the same coffee shop.
Next time you see her, tell her about another place you’ve been wanting to try, then ask
if she wants to come along.
She may have been waiting for this happen.
Similar to conversations, shy girls rely on their partners to take the initiative.
If she likes you, she’ll be excited, even if she tries to hide it.
But what if she’s not interested?
A small 1-on-1 activity doesn’t have to be romantic.
In other words, no harm, no foul.
Testing the Waters Just because a girl is quiet… doesn’t
mean she’s insecure.
She may just be waiting for the right time and the right person.
So many shy girls will test you to see what kind of person you really are.
They want to know if they can be safe and comfortable around you.
So she may tease you in small, seemingly inconsiderate ways.
But she’s not trying to insult you.
She’s trying to test the waters.
Imagine this scenario.
You’ve been chatting with one girl for a while, but she’s been pretty quiet.
You’ve done most of the talking, until suddenly she catches you off guard.
After telling a funny story, she decides to make fun of you.
When a shy girl teases you, you have two options.
You can get defensive… or you can stay confident.
In this situation, getting defensive means arguing with her.
If she teases you, you could list off all the reasons why she’s wrong.
But a defensive reaction shows her that you’re insecure… and may drive her away.
On the other hand, a confident response will make her feel more comfortable.
You could, for example, build on her joke by making fun of yourself.
This shows her that you’re modest but secure.
Not only will this increase her interest in you, it also proves to her that she can be
herself around you.
If a shy girl starts teasing you, she’s not trying to be rude or inconsiderate.
She’s not trying to scare you away.
Instead, she’s putting you to the test.
As long as you’re confident, you’ll pass with flying colors.
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