I'm delighted to know that Meghan has finally discovered my videos.
That must be the reason why she was seen wrapped like a New York Burrito.
But something tells me that these photos are not as spontaneous as... she wants us to think.
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Meghan was 'spontaneously' seen shopping near Montecito, and these photos were supposedly
'leaked' by a papparazzi.
Now, when I'm doing a body language analysis, I try my best to find videos that show candid
moments of the people that I'm going to study, because that helps spot real body language
reactions.
Just like that clip from the Royal Wedding when this gentleman was helping our Forever
Glorious Duchess of Sussex to step out of the limo, and he received a... not so polite,
"Don't touch me, peasant".
The logic behind picking candid moments is being able to spot them, when they happen
in your daily life, with people around you.
I want you to learn them, and be able to pick them up.
But sometimes, we got pictures like these.
They want to come off as spontaneous, but there is something that is just off about
them.
I always suggest the same strategy when you have to analyze a photo.
Ask yourself the question, who was behind the camera?
This is very important because when you look at a picture, your brain instantly puts you
as THE spectator.
As if it were actually you that is looking at the scene.
And that's why any female glam influencer has so many simping male fans, because they
feel like they are right there with her.
Spoiler alert: it's her boyfriend who's taking the photo, you jerks.
The moment you think about who's taking the photo, you instantly think about the situation
itself.
It's the best way to make your mind take a step back for an honest look at the situation.
And in this case, we have a very good clue, that is that single shadow on the floor.
By the angle, the lighting and the shadows, that person couldn't have been more than four
meters, or four yards, from Meghan.
So they were quite close.
At the same time, these must be the cleanest and sharpest papparazzi photos in history,
especially by the fact that this happened at a time of the day where the angle of the
sun fell exactly in the best way possible to light whoever got out of the shop.
I mean, why aren't there any pictures of Meghan inside the shop? or she getting into the car,
or anything that doesn't look like a clean shot of her?
But just the fact that it was a single person taking pictures, and not two or three, can
tell you that there is something odd with this situation.
Well, it's not like there were many papparazzis at New York City, so... maybe just one this
time is fine, I guess.
But this appearance happened right after there were rumours that she had decided to remain
indoors because of the backlash of her appearance on the Ellen show.
I already mentioned in a prior video that this is perfectly understandable, because
the effect was absolutely not what she expected.
The other big question that anyone can ask is, how did the photographer know that this
was her?
I would have thought that this was Courteney Cox. or Alanis Morrissette. or Jared Leto.
So we keep stacking signals that this was a staged photoshoot.
And the other signal is how there is immediate information about all that she was wearing.
And also, extremely clean shots of the shop's fronts.
But wait a minute... why would a papparazzi take photos of the shop itself?
seriously?
Oh, God.
No, really.
These people really think that we are stupid.
This is the saddest attempt at merching whatever she was wearing and the brands that she was
trying to amplify.
This is the 'privacy' that she wanted.
To "stay out of the spotlight and live a normal life".
I'm going all in on the bet that if Meghan actually gets out her mansion and walks around
commoners like this, the only attention she would get is the dumbfounded look of everyone
trying to guess why this misterious woman is cosplaying like the Invisible Man for what
is obviously the wrong weather.
Of course, I'm sure Meghan is not promoting these shops and these brands for free.
She must be getting a handsome deal for wrapping herself in all those layers.
What is so odd is, how does this attempt at being 'spontaneous' reflect on her brand image.
Because that causes confusion.
And I think even her fans are confused, because some of them should be thinking, hey! do not
share this pictures and respect the privacy of the Duchess! and others must be feeling
that... these photos are so perfectly staged and shot that it doesn't feel wrong at all
to share them.
And that is the big question when it comes to how do you want to be perceived by other
people.
The greatest recommendation that I can give you is that, the easier it is for anyone to
understand what you do, and your intentions, the easier it will be for them to trust you.
That is why it's so hard to trust Harry, because I'm sure nobody has the slightest clue about
what does a Chief Impact Officer do.
If people have a hard time figuring you out, they will also have a hard time trusting you.
And it's not like you're going to be absolutely open, or reveal all your cards in the first
sitting, because that will make you instantly boring.
So, you have to make it easy for people to figure you out, but at the same time you have
to leave something for later so you're interesting enough... how can you do that?
Well, the first step of trust is intentions.
Some people are just not clear about their intentions from the get go, just like that
high school friend that called you out of the blue, invited you to catch up on things,
and it was just a multi level marketing pitch.
Annoying, am I rite?
The problem with Meghan is that there are so many twists and turns, and stories, and
layers, and detours about what are her intentions, and sometimes, who is the real Meghan Markle.
I must say that 2015 Meghan, acting on Suits, with her blog The Tig, and traveling the world,
was much more relatable.
She looked like a woman with passion for acting, for beautiful things and experiences, and
for social matters.
And it just made sense.
But as time went by, and strange facial expressions went by, it's harder and harder to understand
what is her real agenda.
And everyone that saw these photos, in one way or another, down within them felt that
something was off.
That is something that you just can't avoid.
We make split judgements of every action of those around us.
That's natural.
At first, those judgements could be unfair for the other person, and that's why we usually
give them the benefit of the doubt until we can confirm or discard our observations.
The problem when you're a public persona is that the internet never forgets.
And it would be ok, if it just remembered your five dollar smile.
But in reality, people have more and more reasons to have doubts about The Harkle's
intentions, and sometimes... flat out not trusting them.
It has become increasingly difficult to connect with any of their initiatives.
I really believe that there is always a sliver of hope for redemption.
Everyone deserves an opportunity to prove themselves, prove that they can actually represent
the idea that they originally sparked in the audience's minds.
It's really sad that Meghan spent so much time and energy into building some kind of
reputation, that actually made sense, and every person that met her, they always said
that she was charming and genuine, and fun.
Everything from Megxit to this point feels like a complete cash out.
And I'm not talking about the merching deals.
It's like sacrificing tiny bits of your reputation so that your ego can get away with one thing
today, and another thing tomorrow.
But reputation can take only so many hits.
You have to water that plant constantly, if you want to have more than one batch of fruits.
Do you think The Harkles will finally come to their senses and understand this? let me
know your opinion in the comments.
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