Hey guys, in this video
we're going to talk about
can you get your ex back
when she blocked you?
If you're new to my channel my name is Anna Jorgensen.
Welcome to just the tip Tuesday.
Okay, how do you how do you get her back
if she's blocked you?
Well, the thing you have to know is,
that whatever turned her off
whether you were too needy
or whether you were too aloof.
Maybe you didn't even respect her,
you didn't even contact or never replied, ghosted her
way too often.
You have to show her
not tell her, show don't tell
that you are a completely different guy
than the guy she rejected.
So, if you can't show her that
through text
or other, I'll give you the other in a little bit
then she's going to assume you're the same guy
that she didn't want.
She doesn't want the same guy that
she rejected.
She wants a different guy,
so you have to prove to her
that you're a different guy.
So, you can't use the same ammo
that you were using before
because all that says is
you're the same guy, that won't work.
So, if you were overly attentive
or needy or desperate
or clingy or moving way too fast
then you need to do the opposite.
You need to scale way back
and be less concerned
take her off that pedestal.
If you put a woman on a pedestal
she will look down on you.
You have to know your worth
is higher than her worth.
Yes, we're all worth the same.
But if you act
like she's worth more than you are
she will instinctively,
intellectually, unconsciously,
believe that she is worth more than you.
What woman wants to be with a guy
that is worth less than she is?
No, she wants to be with
at least, someone on the same level.
So, you have to believe
that you're at least on the same level.
And if you acted super needy
then you have to act and behave
on a much higher level
there's my arm way up there
just to balance out
the equilibrium because
of where you really
believe you are in the relationship.
So, you need to step back
and be more aloof,
and care less and be less attentive
and less quick to reply,
initiate less, all of these things.
But okay yes, you're like yeah,
but she's blocked me how do I even get there?
Wait, just wait we'll get to that.
Hold on
hang tight,
not from a bridge.
Okay, if you were aloof
or didn't res... You know,
maybe you were playing the game
or maybe you were a player
maybe you got three girls on the go.
Whatever it is,
if you made her feel unimportant,
if you were aloof,
if you never reached out,
if you ghosted her,
if you took forever to reply,
if you were on the other end of the spectrum
and that's what drove her away
then you need to be more attentive.
Then you need to reply,
then you need to maybe give some compliments,
or don't do that
if you were overly complimentary.
But if you
basically starved her of these things
then this is when you go back in
and you offer up
some of the things that she was lacking
that you restricted the relationship of.
So, essentially here's the key point.
The key point is,
she needs to feel like
what the F?
Who is this new person
that is now trying to get back in my life?
Yes, we'll get to the blocky part.
Hold your horses.
And there's third situation is
if she's already
you know dating someone else
or moved on or whatever.
If that's the case,
then it's not necessarily too late
it depends on if you were
to aloof or too attentive,
possibly other things as well.
There may be legit reasons why
the relationship didn't work out.
Maybe your
values, beliefs, and long-term goals didn't align.
If you haven't taken my WakeUp2Luv program
you need to take that.
Because if you're choosing
the wrong person
based on beliefs, values, and long-term goals
it's just not going to work out.
You're going to be in for a bumpy ride
not a fun ride.
If you want a fun ride
then you need to get in alignment
with your values, beliefs, and long-term goals.
So, it could be
that she's legit realized
that you really just don't have
any long-term potential
based on those three things.
And no, that means that
you're not going to be able to get her back
and you shouldn't get her back
and shouldn't want to get her back
even though I know it's painful.
Sorry, I know I know.
Here's some other things,
if you were way too submissive,
if you're a nice guy, if you were beta male,
then you need to go to dominant alpha
qualities, characteristics,
you need to show her your dominant side
in a kind respectful way.
You can still be alpha dominant and respectful.
A lot of guys don't understand that's
actually mutually possible,
if you were super dominant
or dominant in a disrespectful way
or didn't show any vulnerability.
Then you need to
express a little bit of vulnerability
not too much even though
women will tell you they want vulnerable
they really don't.
Women say they want it
because they want a little bit of it
but they still want you to maintain your masculinity
otherwise, she goes into maternal mode.
Maternal mode and arousal mode
cannot happen in the same place
in an intimate relationship.
If you were needy
you need to wait for her to break contact,
to break no contact.
If you were aloof
you need to reach out to her more.
If you were too serious
you need to add some playful flirtation
and fun and teasing and flirting in there.
If you were way too humorous
and everything was a joke,
you need to scale back
and maybe let her see a little bit of your serious side.
Ans if she's seeing someone else
or wants to
then let her see someone else.
Do not break no contact
during a time where she's out dating someone else.
Instead, you want to suggest
that that's a good idea.
This is reverse psychology.
What, what do you mean it's a good idea for me
to be dating somebody else don't you want me?
Well, if she actually has a little bit of
interest left over for you
or if she still has a ounce of attraction
she's going to wonder why
you're not fighting for her in that way.
Go ahead see what else is out there
I know I'm the right guy for you
but you're not going to also wait around for her.
Never wait for a woman never,
I mean never
never, never, never,
never, never, never, never wait for a woman.
So, lots of love,
big hug,
hang in there,
not from a bridge,
and I'll see you next week.
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