Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com.
Let me teach you a couple of alpha male body language tricks.
Here's the deal, when I say alpha male, really what I mean is someone who is exhibiting masculine
qualities and what I mean by masculine qualities is someone who's portraying confidence and
self-esteem.
Someone who is sure of himself and someone who is not trying to get people to like him.
Now that you understand that, let me give you some of these body language tricks that
you can use that really exhibit that.
I understand that this might not be possible for everyone.
Everyone is differently abled but if these are something that you can do, then I suggest
that you do them.
Are they the most important thing in the world in terms of gaining attraction?
Yes and no, a lot of guys ask me what's a good body language trick or how do I use body
language to attract a woman?
Just understand that, use these, that's why I made this video, it's stuff that definitely
does work.
But don't just focus on this.
If you're focused too much on body language and not enough on going over and talking to
women and doing that comfortably, then it's going to be a big mistake.
Step one, make sure you're comfortable enough to be able to talk to a woman.
Once you can do that, then use some of these body language tricks.
Don't try to do this stuff first if you can't even go over and talk to a girl.
Let me give it to you anyways, something you can practice, something you can be practicing
whether or not you're talking to someone.
The first one is this.
And this one is something that is not something you do, but it's something you don't do.
And a lot of guys do this, they nod their head a lot.
They're talking to someone and they're listening to what they're saying and they nod their
head.
It's like they're nodding their head in agreement, even though the person's not really saying
anything that they should agree with.
They're just nodding their head.
What this is, this is a nervous tick and you might not even know you're doing it.
Try to pay attention and be conscious of it when you're doing it.
This might be like a nervous tick.
You're saying like this, like, yeah, yeah.
It's just really intense and showing nervousness.
But even more importantly, why I don't want you to do it is because you're almost telling
the person that you're just constantly agreeing with everything they're saying and you don't
want to be agreeing with everything that girl is saying, because that is not going to create
tension between the two of you.
You should not agree with everything that she says.
At some points, you should disagree.
Not purposefully like lie, but it's natural that you and someone else are not going to
have the same exact mindset or view points or likes in this world.
There's many differences between you two.
So if you're sitting there just nodding your head, yes, like, yeah, like you hear what
they're saying.
It's showing her subconsciously that you're just very agreeable and that's not a very
sexy trait.
Guys think it is because it's a nice thing to do.
But this is one of those nice guy traits.
It's not really a nice guy trait.
You're just lying.
There's doing this so you can let her know that yeah, yeah, I agree with everything you're
saying and I'm listening and I'm here for you and I'm listening.
Yes, yes, yes.
And that is not sexy.
It's really just a complete lie and it's not exhibiting masculinity.
It's more of a trait that's showing nervousness.
Next on the list is posture.
I want to be very specific here.
A lot of guys mess this up.
And by the way, I'm included in this.
I still have to check my posture all the time.
I have a body frame that just is a little bit of a skinnier body frame, lanky, as you
may say.
And so I'm always constantly having to roll my shoulders back and make sure that I'm standing
up tall.
And it's crazy by the way.
When you learn how to stand up tall, it gives you look another inch.
If you look at yourself in the mirror, just kind of hunched over and then all of a sudden
you bring your shoulders back and stand up tall.
And by the way, it might feel weird to you.
It might seem like you're Frankenstein, very stiff.
But that's what it feels like to you.
On the outside, it looks like you're taller and it looks like you're a little bit bigger
and it looks like you more confident and sure of yourself.
The trick here is to roll your shoulders back, roll your shoulders back, and then keep them
there.
But then relax them a little bit.
Okay, so you're gonna be hunched over like this, roll your shoulders back, keep them
there for a second.
Drop them a little bit to be comfortable.
I'm just looking over here in the screen to make sure I'm doing it right.
And boom, you just give yourself an inch, better posture, makes you look more confident
and feel more confident.
Another one that I want to give you is it's not something you're going to really see right
here.
And I'm sorry about that you're not going to see it on the video camera.
But just understand that you don't want to put your hands in your pockets.
I think that's pretty self explanatory.
You know what that looks like.
And a lot of guys do that.
They shove their hands in their pockets.
And it's comfortable, I get it or by the way, they cross their arms a lot.
I see a lot of guys cross their arms and I get it, it's comfortable and I know that it's
a way subconsciously that you're trying to guard yourself.
People will try to hide themselves by crossing their arms or putting their hands in their
pockets.
Don't do this.
This is another do not, don't do this.
I know this is going to sound strange because you're going to try it and it's going to feel
strange.
Just don't do anything with your arms.
I know that for some guys, by the way, myself included, I still remind myself of this sometimes
is that it does feel weird when your arms are just hanging there and doing nothing at
all.
But it doesn't look weird.
If you need to do something, you can take your thumb right here and just lightly put
it and hook it on your pocket.
Just going to put it in your pocket and then the rest of your fingers are sticking out.
That's fine but that's the most I want you to do.
I know it's going to feel strange but it's going to look so much better.
It's going to look so much better when your hands aren't cross guarding yourselves or
your hands or in your pockets.
It looks like a very shy way of standing, looks like you are uncomfortable.
It's giving this sense of uncomfortableness when I want you to be more comfortable.
The alpha so to speak, if you want to use that terminology or the person who is more
confident is a person who has nothing to hide.
So keep them very nice and relaxed.
So again, good posture, don't be nodding your head a ton, keep your hands to your sides.
I didn't say this, but take deep breaths so you're more relaxed.
That's the whole idea and then boom, you're going to be on your way.
I have more techniques that are very similar to this one to be more comfortable in front
of women.
There's a whole section in my program called Hooked, where I'm going to be teaching you
how to be more comfortable in front of women and get rid of the shyness.
It's a little section I call The Date Machine.
It's a four part series in my Hooked program that teaches you how to implement this whole
process of going out and meeting women so you're more comfortable.
Even beyond the body language of appearing comfortable, your mind is going to be comfortable
too and this is all in my Hooked program.
Check it out at www.getherhooked.com.
Thousands of guys already have it and you should have it too because it teaches you
the basics all the way to advanced to attract women, get them invested in you and get them
hooked on you.
All right, so check it out.
www.getherhooked.com.
The link is in the description down below.
Use some of these body language tips.
Let me know how it goes.
Write a comment down below and I'll see you on the next video.