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Today, we are going to learn about 7 things people say when they like you
Now, let’s begin.
1.
Making Wishes Has someone ever told you, “I wish you were
here,” or “this would be more fun if we were together?”
Comments like these almost always carry romantic connotations, especially if the other person
is doing something fun or memorable.
Despite the exciting experience right in front of them, they’re sitting on their phone,
wishing you were there too.
In their mind, there’s nothing more enjoyable or exciting than spending time with you.
Even if you’re not doing anything fun, your presence is enough to put a smile on their
face.
Let’s say someone you like is traveling to another country.
You imagine all the interesting places they’re going to see; yet this person sends you a
message saying, “this would be more fun if you were here.”
If you get a message like this, you’re talking to someone who has genuine feelings for you.
They think about you, care for you, and genuinely enjoy your company.
That’s why they’re texting you.
Because you brighten their life in ways you may not even realize.
Pay special attention to comments like these.
If someone else wishes you were together, they may have feelings for you.
2.
Surprising Compliments Does he or she compliment your physical appearance?
Not all compliments are flirty or romantic.
For example, someone might say, “you have a great personality,” or, “I love your
sense of humor.”
Those things might be true, but that doesn’t mean they have a crush on you.
If they complement your physical appearance, on the other hand, it’s often a sign of
something more.
Maybe they pay special attention to the way you dress, telling you, “I really like your
style.”
Maybe they take long looks into your eyes and say, “I could look into your eyes forever.”
In either case, this person is drawn to you in a physical way.
They’re attracted to you, and they’re using compliments to express how they feel.
For an even more significant sign, listen for compliments given out of the blue.
Sometimes, people give compliments to make positive impressions or because it’s a nice
thing to do.
However, someone who’s attracted to you may compliment your appearance for no discernable
reason.
They randomly gush over your face, your voice, or your figure.
It’s not because they want something from you.
It’s because you are on their mind.
They are having trouble looking at or thinking of anything but you, so the words come spilling
out.
In other words, this person has romantic feelings for you.
They’re attracted to you, and there’s a good chance they feel something deeper.
3.
Gushing Over Crushes When someone likes you, they’ll talk about
you to their closest circle of friends and family.
Think about the last time you had a crush.
Chances are, you wouldn’t shut up about how great they are.
You kept talking about how strong your connection is and how quirky their sense of humor can
be.
You told your loved ones all about this incredible person that you’ve met, and you speculated
constantly about how they feel.
Do they like me?
What does this mean?
Should I tell them how I feel?
Countless people gush over the people they like.
So, what does it mean if another person talks to their friends and family about you?
It means you are important to them.
It means they’re excited about you, and they want to share that excitement with their
loved ones, just like you do.
Remember that your crush may be experiencing all the same feelings that you are.
Even if they don’t express them out loud, those feelings may pour out of them when talking
to a sibling or a best friend.
This person probably doesn’t tell you everything they say in private.
Instead, you may overhear something like, “I was telling my friend about you the other
day,” or “my brother and I were talking about you.”
If you hear comments like these, this person is talking about you to their loved ones.
Why?
Because they like you.
They want their friends and family to know your name, because they see you as someone
special.
4.
Finding Commonalities Has someone ever said to you, “I feel like
you really get me?”
This is a very important sign of romantic feelings.
Maybe the two of you are talking about your past relationships and sharing similar stories.
Maybe you have a lot in common and you understand each other’s interests, passions, and quirks.
For whatever reason, the two of you are on the same page, which bodes very well for your
future connection.
Understanding and commonality can foster a strong, romantic bond.
In many cases, those similarities act as the foundation of a longer relationship.
The two of you have developed a special kind of connection, which you may not feel with
other people.
When you’re together, you open yourself in a different way.
You’re vulnerable, honest, and unfiltered.
It’s that vulnerability that creates romantic trust.
And trust leads to a lasting, emotional bond.
Of course, not everyone who trusts each other is romantically involved.
You may have built a strong, trusting connection with a close friend.
But what if you and this person are also attracted to each other?
That’s where a friendship transforms into a romantic relationship.
You don’t just trust each other emotionally.
You trust each other physically.
Both kinds of trust, physical and emotional, are essential in any healthy relationship.
Listen when someone says, “I feel like you understand me,” or “I trust you more than
anyone.”
Mutual trust and understanding creates a special bond, and that bond signifies strong, romantic
feelings.
5.
Stand-In Phrases Someone you know might have feelings for you.
They might care about you in a romantic way.
They might be interested in a relationship, and they may be ready to jump into something
serious.
But they’re afraid of what might happen if they put themselves out there.
They’re afraid you don’t feel the same way.
Even though they have feelings for you, they keep their feelings hidden, and they rarely
acknowledge the connection they genuinely feel.
In other words, this person is scared to tell you that they like you.
They’d rather preserve the friendship than risk losing your connection.
To keep their feelings under wraps, people use stand-in phrases like, “you mean a lot
to me,” or “I really care about you.”
But what they really want to say is, “I like you,” or even, “I love you.”
The problem is… these phrases give away their feelings.
They can’t fully vocalize how they feel, so they use stand-in phrases to gauge your
feelings.
If you return the favor and say, “I really care about you too,” that is going to give
them more confidence—maybe enough confidence to tell you they like you.
On the other hand, if you don’t care as much about them, they can always reel their
feelings in.
They can say, “I really care about you… as a friend,” to undo the damage they’ve
done.
In moments like these, it’s important to consider how you really feel.
If you want to progress the relationship further, put yourself out there.
Return their feelings and be clear with your own.
If you choose to be vulnerable, your vulnerability gives the other person the courage to express
themselves.
6.
Personal Reminders When someone likes you, they’ll unconsciously
notice things in the world that remind them of you.
They’ll find things you like.
They’ll hear phrases you say.
They’ll see your personality quirks in the most unusual places, because you are the object
of their thoughts.
You might get a message from someone saying, “this reminded me of you.”
But here’s what they’re really saying: “I’ve been thinking a lot about you.”
Sending you a picture or a funny video doesn’t seem like a big gesture.
But it speaks volumes about their feelings for you.
When someone unconsciously thinks about you, their feelings for you have developed into
something strong.
They’ve not only taken an interest in your personality, but they’ve made mental and
emotional investments in you.
They care about what you like, what you think, or the way you talk—that’s why they see
things in the world that remind them of you.
They’ve taken the time to memorize the things you do and get to know the person you are.
So don’t ignore small gestures and messages like these.
If someone sends you a word, a picture, or a funny video and says, “this reminded me
of you,” you can safely assume…you’ve been on their mind.
7.
Unraveling the Obvious Have you ever heard someone say, “We should
spend more time together?”
Why would someone want to hang out with you more frequently?
The answer is as obvious as it sounds.
If someone wants to spend more time with you, it’s because they like you.
They enjoy your company.
You make them smile and laugh.
They’re attracted to your looks, and they’re drawn to your personality; so, they want to
increase the amount of time you spend together.
In other words, they want to be closer to you.
Maybe they want to get to know more about you.
Maybe they want to understand what you like or how you think.
Either way, this person is trying to strength your connection.
So don’t overthink or overanalyze.
Don’t wrack your brain wondering, what could they possibly want from me!?”
If someone is flirting with you or has feelings for you, the answer is often right on the
surface.
They give you compliments because they find you attractive.
They like talking to you because you have good conversations.
And they want to spend more time with you because you…are someone special.
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