What's going on Tripp Kramer here from Tripp Advice.com. So you've gone on a date,
maybe a few dates, and you just can't read her. You're not sure if she wants to see you again,
if she's interested in you, and it's crushing your soul. I know over here at the Tripp Advice
coaching program, we work with a lot of guys who ask this question a lot. They're always asking
us like, I don't know if she likes me, I don't know if she wants to see me again, I'm not sure.
We get those questions even in the comments down below. We get this all the time. So what I want
to do on this video, is I want to talk to you about some of the signs to ease your worries,
but also give you some of the reality of what's going on here. First, let's go through those
signs in no specific order. Wen she is giving you that fast text message back, then usually,
not always, but usually it indicates a sign that she wants to see you again, because it's
sort of a sign of interest. That means that she is ready and eager to be talking to you,
to be chatting with you to see what's going on with you. I really wouldn't take that for
granted. If she is a fast responder on those text messages good chance she likes you, good chance
she wants to see you again, and that means you should take advantage of that. How do you take
advantage of that? I'll tell you in just a bit. Let's keep going. Number two, this is more of a
sign that happens when you guys are together. It can happen over texting, but more of a sign when
you guys are together. Let's say for example, you're on a first date, you guys are chatting,
and you're noticing that she's asking you a lot of personal questions. Not just any question,
but really personal questions. She's asking about your history. She's diving deep into what it is
that you like and your viewpoints on stuff. She's very curious about you. If you see that happening
throughout the date... and of course, with that having a pretty positive reaction to the things
that you're saying, this is definitely a sign that she's interested, probably a sign that she
wants to see you again. We can elevate this one - if she's asking you personal questions on text
message, this is definitely a sign. Wh? Because you guys are not forced to be together right
now. You're not on a date, you guys are separate, you're away from each other. So if she's taking
the time out of her day to get to know you when you guys aren't together. That is definitely
a good sign. Here's a more obvious one, it goes without saying, but it has to be said - if she is
suggesting things for you guys to do. Now, the obvious one is she's suggesting, she's saying
let's do this - you and I, let's go here, let's do this activity or event, whatever. But if she's
kind of lightly suggesting it, but not planning it, this is still a good sign. If she's like, oh,
that'd be fun to do one day. Or, wow, I really want to show you some time how to whatever.
Any kind of suggestion or light suggestion of something where it involves you two and it's
coming out of her mouth. This is a sign obviously that she probably wants to do something again.
That's an obvious one but let's move on. Look at the way that she responds to your physical touch.
Does she kind of shy away? Is she giving you more of herself? Is she responding to your kiss? Is
she backing up from the kiss pretty fast? Does she seem uncomfortable in your physical presence? Look
at this, watch this, be careful not to overanalyze it too much in the moment because you want to be
in the moment with her. But afterwards, if you see okay, maybe some things were weird. Maybe
some things were awesome, she was super into it, she was all over me, probably signs that she wants
to see you again. Now as we wrap all this up, and put all this together, I was going to tell you,
what do we do with all this stuff? And not only am I going to tell you what you're supposed to do,
but really it's the more main point of this video. As much as we want to see the signs. We want to
put our anxiety at ease and calm ourself from the worry of whether or not she's interested. I
know we want to do that. We also more importantly, want to be focusing on whether or not she actually
just will show up. Obviously, right? It's like, that's the real sign. Because she can sometimes
give you all of those signs, literally all four of those and she won't see you again, or she'll ghost
you. This happens more times than not. I like to tell guys, as much as we like to hear the signs,
it's like as much as we want to know, we want to be telepathic, we want to read minds... that stuff
doesn't matter. What you need to do is whether you see the signs, whether you don't see the signs,
if you're interested, and that's kind of the main point here, focus on you - if you're interested
then you need to ask her out again and see if she shows up. Let me tell you a quick story here. I
remember before I was learning about how to meet women and building attraction and pickup and game
and all that stuff, when I was first learning this I remember I went on a date with this one girl and
it to me seemed like the best date ever. We got some food had a few drinks we were getting along.
After the date we were talking. I thought I was so smooth. I was saying things, she was laughing,
we were into it, she comes back to my place, we even make out a little bit. It's all good.
And then lo and behold, after all the signs, what happens? I never see her again. She says to me,
she didn't feel the connection. Strange, right? You see all the signs. What's going
on here? Sometimes, a woman will live in the temporary emotions of the moment, she will get
caught up in what's happening in front of her, and for that it doesn't necessarily all come
together to want to see you again. I know it's a little rough and maybe you're thinking well,
why did I even watch this whole video to learn the signs when you're saying it doesn't matter? Well,
it is nice to see some of those signs. Maybe that encourages you a little bit to make sure
that you ask her out again. The bottom line is no matter what, if you're interested,
move the interaction forward, get her out, try to do another date and see what happens.