13 Things Guys Want Girls to Know
13.
Your eating habits- If you guys are going out to eat at a restaurant, don’t get a
salad if you’re going to pick off the French fries off his plate.
Most guys won’t mind sharing, but it’ll make things easier for both of you if you
just order what you want!
If you want a burger, order a burger!
If you want a steak, then get a steak!
If you’re embarrassed about eating in front of him, then each time you guys grab a bite
to eat will just leave you starving!
Plus no man wants to see you eat a small dinner salad for each meal, most guys like a girl
who can eat!
12.
Upfront emotions- Guys aren’t psychic, meaning they can’t predict your emotions or know
what you feel unless you tell them.
Most of the time if you tell a guy that you’re fine or nothing’s wrong, then that’s what
they’ll think.
Plus they’ll be twice as confused if you go back on your word and start throwing a
tantrum on how everything wasn’t fine and he’s made it worse by not acknowledging
your emotions.
Well, all that unnecessary drama can be avoided if you were just upfront about how you felt.
As much as you’d want your boyfriend to know what you’re feeling instantly, that
only works if you guys communicate effectively together.
11.
Friends matter- Girls bond with their friends through communication but guys bond with their
friends through interaction.
So much like a girl’s day out shopping, guys also enjoy hanging out with the boys
as well.
This doesn’t mean he likes hanging out with you any less but hanging out with the guys
is just as important for him to feel free and to relax.
There might be a few things that he can’t say or tell you but can relieve to his buddies
instead.
Obviously, your boyfriend can’t tag along with you when you get a manicure, so guy time
is similar to that.
10.
Guys need space- When a man says he needs space, it usually sends off alarms in a girl’s
head.
It leaves a girl wondering what she did wrong and what she can do to fix it.
But usually when a guy says he needs space, he just wants to be alone.
He might be really stressed out from work and may be needing some peace and quiet.
Most of the time it doesn’t mean anything personal.
We all need a break sometimes from our hectic schedules and to unwind.
Give your man a few days to relax and refrain from bothering him.
When he’s ready, he’ll text or call you.
9.
Don’t string us along if you’re not interested- Rejection sucks.
But what sucks, even more, is putting yourself out there only to find out the other person
is full of uncertainty in a relationship.
It can be tricky for men to court a woman if she’s the standoffish type, and many
women don’t know how to turn down a guy without hurting his feelings.
Don’t string him along because it’s unfair to him especially if he is genuine in efforts.
The best thing to do is to let him down easy instead of pretending that you’re interested.
This eliminates the hassle, time and the pain for both of you.
8.
Guys also like attention- Whether it’s a compliment or a public display of affection,
guys like attention just as much as girls.
It makes them feel wanted and desired by their significant other.
Many women are used to guys giving them attention but not the other way around.
So when a girl gives her man some attention once in awhile, they’ll feel appreciated
and respected.
Small things like clinging to his arm or cuddling close up next to him, even if he doesn’t
reciprocate will make him feel like he’s on top of the world.
7.
Thoughts about the future- One of the biggest complaints made by women is that men don’t
commit and sometimes a guy will hold back when his lady starts talking about a future
together.
But this is because their first commitment is to themselvesl.
Men want to ensure that they can properly take care of themselves first and have a good
job and stability in their life before they can fully provide for a family.
Your man might not express his thoughts about the future right away, but this is only because
he doesn’t want to promise things that he might not be able to achieve at the moment.
Things take time and when he’s ready, he’ll be more than happy to include you in this
future endeavors.
6.
The way to a man’s heart- What girl doesn’t love a bouquet of flowers or a box of chocolates?!
It makes us feel happy and warm inside.
Well, most guys like receiving gifts too.
Whether you buy him a t-shirt or surprise him with tickets to a concert, he’ll feel
appreciated and loved.
It doesn’t have to be anything extravagant, a small act of appreciation is something he’ll
take notice, and it’ll definitely brighten up his day no matter what you do.
Besides, you can’t go wrong by surprising him with food right?
Nothing beats a home cooked after a long day from work.
5.
Making the first move- Even though it’s expected for guys to make the first move,
many men would love a woman to make the first move when she is interested.
The dating game can be frustrating, and there are so many mixed signals guys have to decode
that make it tricky to tell if a girl genuinely likes a guy.
When a girl makes the first move at a bar or on a date, this make it easier on men and
it eliminates the fear of rejection and uncertainty.
This is a significant boost for a guy’s ego and shows a girl’s confidence.
Not only does it relieve the pressure off men, but men love a girl who is fearless and
knows what she wants.
4.
He likes when you take control- Guys love when you initiate things once in awhile, whether
it’s making plans for dinner or in the bedroom.
Sometimes the same old routine can get boring, and men are so used to calling the shots that
they need something new.
So when a woman takes control for a change, it catches them off guard in a good way.
It’s exciting when a woman knows exactly what she wants and that you have your own
thoughts and opinions.
Plus most guys don’t mind taking a seat back and leaving you in charge for a few hours.
3.
Opening up takes time- Women are taught to open up and talk about their feeling and emotions
in any situation, and many women think that men don’t like expressing their feelings
at all.
The truth is men have feelings and need to share them as well.
However, what men don’t like is being pushed into talking about their emotions or being
seen as overly emotion.
Guys might come off defensive and clam up the moment you start asking questions, and
it might leave you feeling frustrated and confused.
But men will naturally open up to you when he feels comfortable, safe and ready to talk.
2.
His man tears- Guys cry and they hate it.
Men don’t like losing control of their emotions especially in front of their girlfriends.
Guys like to think that they’re strong macho men, but now and then, the waterworks start
showing.
It’s what makes us human, and sometimes we can’t help it.
Whether he sheds a few tears due to a serious situation or cry during a sad movie, let him
have his moment.
Don’t belittle him, judge him or poke fun at him, because it’ll make him feel weak
and helpless and he’ll hate you for it.
If he’s experiencing hardship, let him know that you’re there for him and he’ll appreciate
you even more if you show your support.
1.
Guys hurt more-Most guys won’t admit when they’re hurting and might pretend they don’t
care or choose to walk away instead of talking about it.
But this doesn’t mean that they’re hurting inside.
After a breakup, most women will share their feelings with their best friend or sister,
but most men will revert for awhile until they are ready to talk.
In a survey conducted by Binghampton and University College, researchers found that while relationship
breakups hit women the hardest physically and emotionally, women tend to come out emotionally
stronger and recover faster while men never recover but just simply move on.