So do you deal with lot of women? Well if you do, then there are certain things that
you need to avoid mentioning in front of a woman. So what are these things? That’s
what we are gonna learn today.
HI everyone I am Niharika and welcome back to a new lesson. Well this lesson is especially
for the men who deal with lot of women in their lives. Now there are certain things
that you are not supposed to mention in front of women and that's what we are gonna look
at today. Now at times, men just pass funny remarks or they just say something that would
turn a woman into a lady dragon. Yes, so to avoid that kind of a situation, here I have
six tips or six things that you are not supposed to say to a woman. So let's get started.
The very first tip that I have for you is talking about their weight. Yes, women are
extremely sensitive about their weight. As a description, well they might be as light
as a feather, well just for them. But probably they weight too much, but this doesn't give
you a chance to talk about their weight. It’s absolutely not acceptable to woman because
they are very sensitive when it comes to their weight. They are very sensitive and emotional
when it comes to eating. so for example, i have seen men who say to their wives or to
their girlfriends that, "hey is that all you are gonna eat today?" so are you kind of directing
that, hey look at your weight and with this weight you think you are gonna eat so much
of food today? So, that's not acceptable, the woman is definitely gonna get offended,
it would hurt her feelings. So avoid talking about a woman's weight, whether she weighs
as light as a feather or whether she is weight too chubby or obese. Do not talk about her
weight.
The second tip that I have for you, is, before and after pregnancy remarks. Now when a woman
is pregnant, it's the best thing that happens to her. So you should feel really happy about
it rather than passing weird comments. For example, before pregnancy, women tend to gain
a lot of weight. Well because they have to eat a lot of healthy food so they tend to
gain too much of weight. So people tend to say Oh my God, look at you, you look huge.
Uh... that is gonna upset that pregnant woman. So please don't do that. And then there are
certain after pregnancy remarks. people either comment about their post belly, post pregnancy
belly or people comment about when the woman gets back to work, people will say that, are
you sure you'll be able to handle this work? Now that you are a mom. Well duh yes of course
she just had a baby; she didn't have a brain surgery. So she is as capable as before and
probably more efficient than before. So please do not pass any negative comments before or
after pregnancy to a woman, okay?
The third tip that I have for you is comparing a woman to another woman. Especially your
mom. Oh yes men adore their moms. Probably they are mama's boys. So they tend to compare
every woman they meet to their moms. That’s not acceptable. A woman would always like
to have her own independent identity. So respect that and stop comparing her with your mom
or stop comparing her with any other woman. Okay especially husbands tend to compare their
wives with other women they meet. That is not acceptable. Okay so if you are comparing
her or any friend, any girlfriend or woman colleagues of yours with your mom or with
any other woman, you need to stop doing that, okay?
The fourth tip that I have for you, is talking about their age. So lady, how old are you?
Hmm.... the woman is not gonna like this question. Again women are very sensitive about their
age. They don't like to really show or really tell people how old they are really. So asking
questions like, how old are you? So is this your 30th birthday? Is not acceptable. It’s
good manners if you do not ask a woman's age. So even if she looks way too old to you, okay,
may be in her 50's, may be in her 60's, just give her a compliment. Tell her that hey lady,
you know what, you don't look a day older than 20 so which means she looks just 20 years
old. Whether she looks old or not doesn't matter, just compliment her.
Alright, the next tip that I have for you is, talking about her menstrual cycle which
means talking about her periods. So all women go through this awful time and in their monthly
cycle or when they have monthly periods, they are way too annoyed, they are irritated and
they start crying for no rhyme or reason. so even if you know that yes probably she
is having her periods, you don't have to mention that or you don't have to talk about it because
there are people, there are men who would come up to a woman and say that, uh... is
that the time of the month? You look irritated. Well don't do it. Just ignore it. Okay let
that moment pass, let those days pass and you need to ignore rather than mentioning
it, okay?
And then the last tip that I have for you is, using profanity. Well when you are with
your boys, when you men are hanging out, you tend to use a lot of profanity. It means that
you tend to use a lot of abusive language, which is fine. But in front of a woman, uh...
doesn't show good manners. It’s absolutely bad manners.so words like bitch or slut, they
are horrible words. So it's like pulling a pin out of a grenade. So dont' use words like
bitch, slut, whore, uh... they are horrible words. You don't say these words or you don't
use them for women. Especially if you say it in front of a woman, she is definitely
not gonna appreciate that. So no use of profanity in front of women.
okay so these are the 6 tips that are gonna save your lives.so just go through them once
again, do not talk about their weight or the food that they eat. Do not pass comments about
their pregnancy. Do not compare them with any other women or your moms. Do not talk
about their age; they are very sensitive about their age. Menstrual cycle, talking about
their periods is not appreciated and then the last tip that I have for you is, no usage
of profanity. No using words like bitch, slut, whore, etc. Okay so keep these tips in mind,
trust me they are helpful and they are gonna save your lives and I'll be back with a new
lesson soon, till then you take care.