this video I'm gonna show you the three things you must know about attracting a
specific person and if that's something you're trying to do then you have to
watch this video welcome back to another video my name is Erin and I help people
expand their consciousness now in this video I'm gonna be sharing with you the
ideas behind attracting a specific person that changed the whole entire
game on my youtube channel I have had so many people reach out to me asking for
more advice as to how to attract a specific person and the feedback that I
get from the things that I suggest really do work and what you have to do
is you just have to apply it and you have to know and almost have this frame
of energy behind what you do now here is the thing about attracting a specific
person that holds so many people back understand that anything you focus on
you send energy to now if when you are focusing on this person you are feeling
resistance or you are feeling like they aren't currently in your life then you
are sending them resistant energy that they can feel because energy is
contagious so the problem with the tracking a specific person is that when
you lock all your focus on one person if they're not acting and according to the
way you would like them to they're not returning back your phone call your text
message they're not asking or having a strong desire to go meet up with you
somewhere or to go out on a date then what happens is you feeling that
resistance and focusing on them is sending that energy to them so for this
this is about understanding attention and energy attention and energy whatever
you put your attention on you send energy to and however you feel when
you're focused on it is where that energy is going is that that is the
energy being projected out now the other problem with understanding this and the
first part of this process the first thing that you must know about
attracting a specific person is that whatever you put attention on and if
you're focusing on them which if you're focusing on a specific person then you
are focused on just that one person then what happens is you end up creating the
resistance towards being projected out to them and they can then feel that so
many times I've seen it to where maybe as you ever seen it to where somebody is
in a relationship and then maybe that relationship doesn't go well and they
break up and one person that relationship really wants to be in a
relationship with someone else and that with that person that they broke up with
but the other person is kind of not interested anymore and maybe after the
breakup they're stressing about it they're talking to their friends about
it and they're they're really not emotionally you know they emotionally
want that person back then what happens is that person is not returning the
phone calls our text messages the other the other person they broke up with or
that broke up with them then what they do is they go out to a club they go with
the friends they go out they just go to a friend's house and they hang out and
they start to forget about the ex I start to just be in their own movie well
then a lot of times what happens then that acts that person then Texas back
because they can emotionally feel that withdrawal of attention that withdrawal
of needy type energy you see this is an energy dynamic type play that's going on
and what happens is when you aren't the star of your own movie and you want to
be this you want to be the cameo in someone else's movie it then is
something that doesn't work in your favor because you're there to support
the lead role the lead actor or actress you see this is about you claiming your
star role and knowing that anything you focus on you're sending energy to and
how you feel when you focus on them is sending them energy so what is the key
to this then the key to this is focusing more on you focusing more on yourself on
you being the star of your own movie and I'll tell you this as well when it comes
to attracting a specific person when it comes to this understand that you
attract what you are you attract a reflection of where you currently are
the specific person that you're thinking about right now
your get about because of your current
thoughts feelings and emotions however it may be that when you start to become
the hero of your own movie the star of your own movie you might not be as
interested in that specific person because your standards may raise you see
you might start to realize that this person you were getting all needy about
in all Hedy about actually isn't the real focus as it isn't you it was almost
like an idea in your mind that you began to think more and more about and then
that became something that you thought that this is the person this is the one
but you might eventually start to realize that maybe you deserve even more
maybe as you get to your core you start to be going to start your own movie you
start to do what you're passionate about and you realize that this specific
person that you were focused on is not doing what they are passionate about and
maybe part of your attraction to them was that you weren't doing what you were
passionate about they're not doing what they're passionate about and maybe you
would have more in common in that way you see when you're doing what you're
passionate about you will find other people doing what they're passionate
about and that's when your being your true self but you have to first get to
your core in order to find out what that is and to realize that if you're chasing
someone else or wanting specific person in your life you might be trying to be
the cameo in their movie and they can feel that too it's a very different
energy than you being the star of your own movie imagine I go out to a club or
somewhere some spiritual Club where we are gonna namaste and we drink kombucha
and we just chill with each other and then imagine that I'm just having fun
with friends I'm enjoying myself and I'm in I'm the star of my own movie and I'm
just having fun and I just want to elevate the mood and just to have fun
and that's a certain energy but imagine that then I go and I go and I'm drinking
my kombucha and I want to be and everyone else's movie and I want people
to like me I want to control what people think and there's a specific person
right over there and if they were just act a certain way and if I go up to them
and I and I really tried to like impress them or or get into the tell them how
awesome they are and amplify how you know you see what I mean it's a
different energy but when you're at the start of your own movie you create a
gravity and then people want to be around you so that's the first part of
attracting a specific person that you probably have never really thought of
before with this but the you do is just elevate your own mood
elevate how you feel have more fun with the process so many people trying to
attract a specific person have such a seriousness about it I have to do this
as if it's like some type of mission Impossibles like dun duh duh duh duh duh
duh duh I gotta get to this person I gotta try to attract him into my life
duh duh duh duh it's like just calm down have fun with it you're the star of your
own movie you see if it's serious did you create this resistance and remember
whatever you focus on when you're feeling that resistance or whatever you
focus on you said energy too if you're feeling resistance when you focus on it
you're sending resistant energy to it so it's like duh duh duh duh duh duh
resistance and then they're feeling that they're like wool buddy calm down okay
they're like there's no mission there's no mission here then they feel that
mission right so it's about being aware of that now the second thing that you
must understand when attracting specific person is any time any time whispers for
effect any time you put someone on a pedestal you wanna know what you do if I
bracele separate yourself from them there they are up there in the pedestal
oh my god be so amazing if you just just do something with me and go out on a
date or something it'd be so amazing the specific person right here on a pedestal
all the way up there can't you see me all the way down here hi you're so
amazing but when you make anything important you put it on a pedestal and
if you're if you're trying to attract a specific person then you're most likely
putting them on a pedestal and it's like they can feel that once again it's an
energy dynamic type thing now the key what is the key to this what is the
solution to this don't put it on a pedestal
don't put them on a pedestal realize you're good either way
you're good either way you're an infinite spiritual being you're already
whole and complete sharing your life of someone is cool but this specific person
by thinking about how amazing it is and how it's almost like saying like our
self-image the way we see ourselves has a lot to do with what we experience and
if we put someone on the pedestal we're saying that our self-image is down here
and they're up here you see it'd be so amazing if you were in my life if you
were in my life but the thing is is to the
version of you that is with that person it's not so amazing and up on a pedestal
it's just natural you see it's just natural for you it is natural for you to
attract someone that that relates to you in that way
it is natural for you your good either way because you're not dependent on the
outcome you see it's a different energy dynamic but then what that means is that
your self-image might not be linked up to you seeing yourself as the kind of
person that just has somebody that resonates with you you see that's the
key it's realizing what is your self-image be aware of your self-image
that's the first thing most people just are not aware of their self-image you
might see yourself as somebody that's single that would love to be in a
relationship and if that's how you see yourself then that's the reality you're
going to experience you're going to think thoughts equal to that you can
have emotions equal to that in actions equal to that you're going to take and
it's just going to reaffirm that reality the key to this though is being aware of
that self-image being aware that you see yourself here and you see them up there
and then what is the key to that is starting to realize in the let go of
what you think keeps you in to this lower paradigm letting go of that let me
becoming aware of the beliefs is is 90 percent of it just become aware of the
belief that you think that you're not worthy of that and realize you're good
either way you're good either way you know I do
this analogy sometimes but imagine if I was like it'd be so amazing if you would
just like this video you just like this video could you do me a favor and smash
the like button just like this video it's very important that you do because
there's so many benefits to liking this video you see that's a very resistant
type energy and if I had it on a pedestal I'd be even afraid to say that
like hey can you like this video can you and you would feel that energy because
I'd be resistant about it but if instead now watch this if I was like listen I
hope you like in this video right now it's pretty natural natural course of
this is like you watching this video you're watching this video like 10 12
minutes in right now if you like this video and you're watching this far in
could you do me a favor just smash that like button I got I'm cool either way
like if you do it or not it's okay but it'd be really cool if you did
because it what it does is it shows that you like this video and maybe I'll make
more videos on how to attract a specific person or how to attract love in your
life maybe I'll do something like that but to
be honest I'm cool either way you don't have to like it but you could you see
there's a much different but I also see it as natural I kind of have this not
expectation but I think it's natural for you to get value out of this video and
if you do then to hit the like button you see it's natural which ones which
one feels better which one do you want to smash the like button on hmm does you
want to smash some like but now we check to smash the like button now seems
pretty natural seems like the cool thing to do itself for real you smash the like
button I really appreciate it but I'm cool either way you see what I mean
that's the difference that energy dynamic there makes all the difference
so it's natural for you to attract love into your life it's natural for you to
have people that gravitate towards you it's natural for you to be the star of
your own movie it's natural now the third thing that
you must know about that of attracting specific person that you might not have
thought of has to do it just this is this is one of the biggest things then
it has to do with self love and letting go self-love and letting go now here is
something as well and the top of the description box below I'm gonna put a
meditation that has over 1 million views and if you read the comments of this
meditation it has the most profound experiences there you could just just
scroll down so YouTube video scroll down in the comments i attracted love after
10 days of listening to this meditation i attracted love doing this the next day
this happened after I listened to this meditation within hours this happened I
was looking at the comedy of the day on this video and it absolutely blew me
away and what this video does is it gets you to a certain state to where you
believe and you know that you can attract love into your life you see the
belief is a very powerful part of this process and if you believe you're worthy
of love you tap into the self love within yourself you then see it on the
outer reality and other people can feel it
so many people have attracted love using this meditation and listening to it for
21 days that the whole third point of this is feeling that self love within
yourself and vibrationally resonating with that love so if you want a process
what I recommend you do you want to attract a specific person you want to
attract love in general listen to the meditation the top of the description
box below for 21 days and read the comments to see what's
don't take my word for it look at hundreds of comments of people literally
hundreds of comments of people that have said they have had that experience of
attracting love and listen to it commit to it for 21 days 21 days is what helps
to repattern the energy field 21 days is what really starts to develop powerful
momentum so it's on I think it's titled the most powerful meditation to
attracting love and relationships into your life or something like that but
it's right at the top of the scripture box I'll also link in the comments below
as well but just know that for this process the more self-love you give
yourself the more you're going to exude that out the more other people are going
to think about it and you know I've made a video before as well on attracting a
specific person and and that video did really well and one of the things I
think really resonate with people is to let go of trying to attract a specific
person it's not what you might want to hear but the thing is is when you let go
of it then you can actually have it I know that sounds like a paradox let go
of trying to want it to trying to have it let go because when you let go you
give it freedom you give it freedom and you might be holding yourself back with
this one person you want to attract what if there's somebody that could resonate
with you even more but you're whole you're blocking them out because you're
focused on just this one person you see but the thing is is when you let go then
you're more likely to actually have it because you're not attached to it you're
not needy of it you're not vibrationally sending it
mixed energy you see let go of it completely and trust the course of your
life trust that things will happen when they're meant to happen trust that by
you being the court the star of your own movie that things will start to happen
for you you see when you change this energy everything begins to change but
if you completely let go of trying to attract that specific person you have so
much more of a high chance of attracting them into your life trying to control it
from the level of the ego and for the level of the the limited mind is what
causes the resistance let go and allow the universe to bring it to you by being
the star of your own movie focusing on yourself
by understanding that anything you focus on you're sending energy to and any way
you feel is also being projected so focus on you focus on having fun focus
on enjoying the process focus on knowing that you're worthy whole and complete
you're good you don't need this specific person in
your life to be happy you got a lot going on you're an amazing catch just by
yourself you're a whole and complete just by yourself and yes it'd be fun to
share your life with someone else and have experiences with someone else but
you're good either way part of your self-image is knowing that
that will happen and the time it's meant to happen and right now in your life
it's about you tapping more into yourself the best relationship you'll
ever have is with you you are an amazing person you're meant to be the star of
your own movie and the way you get there is by realizing it now is by focusing on
it now and the more you do that the more your life will change the meditation
below you listen for 21 days you'll know that you are unconditional love that you
are in that state and you'll know that relationship is going to reveal itself
to you so listen to that meditation for 21 days and watch how your life begins
to change other than that if you could its natural it's not on a pedestal if
you could just smash the like button on this video comment below what you
thought of this video and if you're ready to attract love into your life
affirm it and know that you are loved as well and other than that as always we'll
see you the next video peace much love Kannamma stay