- I've been a therapist for a long time,
and people always say, "How come you're so successful?"
Well, I think I'm so successful because, very early
in my career, I realized that all of my clients
had exactly the same problem, whether it was a millionaire,
a movie star, a school teacher, or a baker.
They all only ever had three things wrong with them.
And it led me to really research that there's only
three things wrong with all of us.
And the three things wrong with all of us
come from these three incorrect beliefs.
So I promise you, whatever you think is wrong with you
and whatever is going on with the people around you,
when you can look at these three beliefs
and break them down, it's actually life-changing.
The first thing wrong with people
is that we have this belief, "I'm not enough.
"I'm not good enough, I'm not smart enough,
"I'm not interesting enough, attractive enough,
"rich enough," you name it.
When you begin to believe you are not enough,
it makes you incredibly needy.
I've worked with thousands of addicts,
I've never met one, ever, who believed they're enough.
I've worked with thousands of people who are depressed
or anxious or have hoarding or self-sabotage
or destructive tendencies or money blocks or love blocks,
and without question, they always go back to the same thing,
"I'm not enough." And I've worked with many people,
and when they come in and I take them back
to how they ever got this misconception, this lie,
that they're not enough, it's a game-changer.
Because no baby is born thinking, "I'm not enough,
"I don't have a mom, I don't have any hair,
"I don't have any teeth."
Babies know they're enough. You were born knowing
you are enough, and like 80% of people on the planet,
somewhere, somehow that's been eroded.
I went through my entire adolescence feeling not enough,
and some of the most successful people in the world
feel not enough.
So if you feel that, you are in very good company,
and you can absolutely get over that super fast.
The second thing wrong with people is this belief
that, "It's not available to me.
"I want love, it's not available.
"I want health, but I come from a line of people with asthma.
"I want to be happy, but everyone in my family
"has got the depressed gene.
"I want to stop drinking, I've got the gene."
And I worked with someone a little while ago,
a man in his 60s, who said he had never, ever
had love because his own parents didn't love him.
And he was saying, "Love is not available to me."
And I showed him that wasn't true
but if he kept believing it, he would make it true.
And in a year, he was married, I went to his wedding,
it was a wonderful thing.
I get invited to so many weddings and engagements
and christenings because I show people the truth.
Love is available to you, happiness is available to you.
Success and wealth and health are available.
But you have to understand, first that you have the belief,
and then how to overcome it. And the third thing wrong
is this feeling of, "I'm different and I can't connect."
Now years ago, ancestrally, we all kind of looked the same,
we came from the same communities,
and we were the same color, we were the same.
But now we live in multicultural societies
where we feel so different. And when we're different,
we can't connect.
When you are born you have a driver to survive,
and how you survive is by finding connection
and avoiding rejection. And children connect by going, "Oh,
"you like The Simpsons, I like The Simpsons.
"You're just like me, I'm just like you. We like the same."
And nowadays, we look for what makes us different.
When we're different, we can't connect.
But the difference wouldn't stop you connecting.
It's not the difference; it's your belief.
I invite you to take a look at yourself.
Do you believe that you're not enough?
Do you believe that what you want and desire
is not available to you?
Do you believe that you're different
and so you can't connect, even though
you desperately want connection?
If so, and remember, it can only be
one of these three things.
If you have an eating disorder, an addiction,
self-sabotage, destructive habits, depression,
anxiety, even physical ailments like rashes,
an irritable bowel, they're often covered
by these three things. But you can overcome them.
I promise you, you can.
People often say to me, "How did you become a top therapist?"
Or, "What is it that makes you different?"
And honestly, I think it's because I simplified therapy.
For me, I remember Einstein saying, "Simplify,
"simplify, simplify."
I've simplified therapy, but not the results.
The results are mind-blowing. And then I began
to teach other people how to do what I do.
If you would love to do what I do
and to get the results I get,
and I know you can, I've trained 4000 people
all over the world, many of them had no background
in therapy at all, and they've become amazing therapists,
I've created a masterclass that will show you
some of my top tips, some of the things I do,
some of the things that I created and I do
that have made me a world-class therapist.
And that you could do too, should you want to become
a world-class therapist who is busy and booked,
does what they love, love what they do.
I feel so lucky because I do what I love, I love what I do.
I have a job that gives me freedom, I work my own hours,
I set my own fees; it's an amazing career.
I've been doing it for years.
I don't think I'll ever retire because I love it.
So if you want to know how you can become
a world-class therapist with a job that gives you meaning,
purpose, significance, where you make a difference,
where you have the freedom to set your own fees,
to work your own hours, sign up
for this free masterclass. Just sign up below
and I'm going to show you how you too can do what I do.
And it's the best job in the whole world,
which is why I've been doing it for 33 years.
I'll never retire because I love it; you can too.