hello everyone welcome to success formulas there are very few things in
life worse than the feeling of being forgotten and left out it hurts to be
ignored by the people you care about it might be because they're going through a
rough patch right now and need some time for themselves to figure things out so
you shouldn't be worried it's probably just temporary however when it's not
just one or two people for a couple of days but almost everyone in your life
that seems to be avoiding you and keeping the distance for you then that's
a definite cause for concern so today we're going to discuss some reasons why
people ignore you and don't want to talk to you
reason number 1: you don't listen to others
Nothing is more annoying than a
person who only wants to talk and he is making no effort to hear what the other
person tells him being opinionated and assertive aren't unnecessarily bad qualities
but it's important to give other people a chance to speak too if you don't hear
out what anyone else has to say and constantly talk over everyone all the
time you will get on a lot of people's nerves and make them turn against you
they will think you're close-minded stubborn and can't be reasoned with so
the only thing left for them to do is just ignore you so now it's time to
close your mouth and open your ears to decrease the number of your haters
reason number 2: you complain too much In other words you're one of those
people who are always in trouble above them is always a dark cloud. Are you
constantly complaining to your friends about all the things that go wrong in
your life? Do you unload all your troubles on them every time you see each other? if
your answer is yes, then you should be careful you could be pushing away
everyone in your life with your constant companion people who complain all the
time can suck the fun out of any situation and exhaust you matter of
minutes. Nothing is ever good enough and there's always a problem or something to
nitpick and it can be hard enough to work or be friends with people who
complain constantly. Over time complaining will destroy nearly any
relationship because people don't like constant complainers and don't want to
spend their time with them.
reason number 3 : you criticize too much
Nobody like people who only know how to criticize and never gives the
compliments to others. People don't like company if a person who always
criticize them, dragged them down and put water on the ideas. In life there's
going to be times when your friend or someone you know is struggling and is
facing adversity during those times that person needs someone who will encourage
him, support him and convince him that it can be done, not someone who does the
opposite. That person needs someone to lift him up not someone to knock him down.
Sometimes some things should remain silent and you should allow people to
enjoy the things that make them happy.
reason number 4: you are too self-centered
Another reason why people may be steering clear of you is that you
are too self-centered after all who wants to have a conversation with
someone who only ever wants to talk about themselves who'd want to be
friends with a person who only ever cared about their own wants and needs? Let's
assume your friends were meeting for a dinner all were excited to see each
other and wanted to have a good time but what if you can't stop talking only
about yourself that's gonna ruin everyone's mood. So the next time your
friends may not invite you because when you're so caught up in your own thoughts
feelings and ideas that you fail to show interest in what other people have to say
Then nobody will ever want to be with you.
reason number 5: you are too mean
It can be hard for us to realize when we go
too far and hurt other people's feelings some time. Instead it's usually only when
they have had enough and walk away from us. Do we see all the terrible things we
have done? Do you have a tendency to make jokes about your friends and teach them
about things you know make them insecure? Do you point out the mistakes and make
fun of them? Even if you only meant it as a good-natured fun other people might
not see it that way. In fact they will likely give you the cold shoulder and
start ignoring you on account of your bad behavior because nobody likes people
who make fun of them all the time. Now it's time for you to stop that because
that doesn't make your person with whom people like to spend a their time.
reason number 6: You are too intense
When you are too intense all the time people tend to react by being dismissive
indifferent and tuning you out. It can be exhausting having to deal with
someone so emotionally volatile they feel like they have to walk on eggshells
around you because every little thing seems to upset you.
You are quick to get angry, hold grudges against people overreact to situation,
and spend most of your time ranting and arguing. This kind of
intensity can chase people away and make
them think you are too high-maintenance to be with.
reason number 7: you don't take anything serious
If you're late for
meetings and appointments, canceling them at the last moment, you don't stick
to your promises and so on then you should not wonder why people ignore you.
Because such actions are showing to the people that you don't respect them and
people don't want to be with someone who have no respect for them.
reason number 8: You lie
If you're one of those people who lie most of the time even
with their close friends and family without any reason then you should know
that the worst of telling lies is that the lies can't be sustained forever and
once your lies are uncovered people don't like it and start ignoring you.
Because they know that whenever you will talk to them you will lie and nobody
likes to talk to someone who is a liar and people don't want to waste their
time listening to your Lies
reason number 9:Boasting
We all like to at
times brag about our success and achievements but bragging with all
limits will leave a completely wrong impression. It's much more impressive to
do something great and have people find out about it then to do something great
and brag to others. If you set like you are above others you will gather more
enemies than friends.
reason number 10: Constantly questioning your value
You must be an unattractive person if you're constantly questioning why other people
are not considering you as important as you think you are. Let's say your two
friends went somewhere without you and you became angry and started thinking
that they are not your friends anymore and they hate you these are all over
reactions. Calm down they are still your friends.
If you relate to any of the reasons we have discussed in the video then it's time to
make some positive changes in yourself and work towards becoming more
considerate, sociable and enjoyable to be around. And if you
don't change something about yourself don't wonder in vain why people are
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