This video weill show you three questions that if you ask will transform negative experiences
into positive ones so that you're able to attract more positivity into your life.
And welcome back to another video.
My name is Erin and I help people expand their consciousness.
Now in this video I'm going to be sharing with you three questions that I've applied
in my own life and really an understanding that can be an epiphany for many people if
you choose to apply it.
And this has to do with really attracting what you want realizing that we always get
a reflection of what we define to be true and what we are relating to.
Now when it comes to attracting positive things realize that everything in our life is fundamentally
neutral that we tagged the meaning as to whether things will be positive and as to whether
things will be negative and that based upon that meaning that will determine what effect
we get into our life.
So if something happens to you maybe your intention is to attract a specific person
or to attract more money into your life and if a roadblock comes into your life if something
happens if you determined and you don't find that as a negative thing and as a block or
as an obstacle if that's a part of the definition then that will become a self-fulfilling prophecy.
But the idea behind this if we simply question those thoughts if we simply allow our self
to see it as something that could be positive then we will get a positive effect out of
it.
Now I want to share with you one time that this happened and this happened actually maybe
a year or two ago when I used to have my old job where I before I went full time on YouTube
where I was a sales commission job and it was a funny kind of a funny situation to me.
There was this guy that I worked with who didn't really like to help customers.
He just had to like Instagram following.
I worked at Barneys New York and women's shoes just to give you the context and it was a
sales commission job and we got paid a percentage of whatever we sold there wasn't really an
hour early.
So we just had to help customers all day.
And I had this guy that I worked with he's a friend of mine and he pretty much just makes
his money on Instagram.
He has an Instagram account and people you know will message him and he sells through
that he doesn't like to help customers.
Well one time I remember meeting him we're said standing on the floor talking and this
customer came up and was talking to him and his customer had like appeared to have like
this bad attitude.
She's from New York.
She was with her mom who's like 90 something years old and she kind of came up with his
attitude and just like went up to him and was like you know what shoes do you have.
And like a narrow and first off it's a designer shoe.
You know all we had was you know high end shoes our$800 and they were none of them were
comfortable.
All of them.
None of them came in narrows.
You know that's something that maybe you could find at a different store but the idea is
that that's almost impossible to find.
And this lady came up to him and had like this bad attitude and it was very demanding
and he kind of looked at me and he passed the customer onto me.
And at first I wasn't going to take the customer because if somebody comes up to you we don't
have to you know take the customer especially just because the person doesn't want to help
them because that person has a bad attitude.
But what I did is I simply decided that you know what I'm going to treat and I'm going
to trust the process and treat it as if this could be a positive thing.
So what I did was that even though that could have been kind of a snarky move on his part
for him to like send that customer to me because he just simply didn't want to deal with her
bad attitude.
I simply decided there was going to be a positive thing and I remember I was like you know what
I'm going to take the customer it was kind of slow.
So I took the customer and I was simply really nice to them.
I joked around.
I saw she had a sarcastic attitude.
The person that who was there with her mom she was a lawyer so she kind of had that attitude
I think naturally.
But I actually worked really well with people with a new or two about it because I also
have a very blunt sarcastic kind of perspective.
So I was able to really bounce off of that.
Long story short I helped her for about half an hour.
She and her mom ended up buying like seven or eight pairs of shoes.
It was a five six thousand dollar sale which means that I made light you know four or five
hundred bucks on that sale.
And it was a very good sale and I remember I was ringing her up and the coworker was
like well you know I had no idea she was going to buy that much.
And I believe that a lot of that had to do with my attitude about it.
I simply decided I was going to add value was going to have fun with the process.
I was going to have it be a positive thing.
I kept thinking to myself How can this be positive.
And because of that that became a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Now this has happened many other times that just the thought that really comes to mind
with it and what I want to encourage you to do is to understand that if you simply choose
that something will be positive you can get a positive result out of it.
Now this is also something that we can apply when it comes to the questions we ask ourselves
which is the main part of this video.
So the questions we ask herself what we ask we will always look for the answers to.
So if we ask why is this obstacle in my life.
We'll get a different answer if we ask how can this serve me.
That will also get a different answer.
And that's the first question I always ask is How can this serve me.
What can I benefit out of this situation.
So that question you will start to look for the positives rather than the negatives.
Now think about it.
Even if it's a negative situation that happens simply asking that question all allow you
instead of to start to look at the negative things to start to look at the positive things.
Think positive in the sense a positive is more integrative maybe is more separation
is more segregated.
When you look at it instead of good or bad and more of integrated and separating what
you do is you start to see that if you are associating positivity with it it's more of
a part of the process.
I trusted the course of my day in the course of that customer.
That's why I think I got such a beneficial part out of it in the same way.
The first question is ask yourself how can this serve me what good can come from this.
And as you start to focus on those things you'll find that you will immediately increase
your state of being which is also an important part of the process.
If you feel better about the process you will get a better result you will perceive of opportunities
that you wouldn't perceive.
If you're focused on negativity.
So simply realize your state of being is the most important thing when it comes to the
process.
And if you decide to focus on a positive state of being you will start to perceive of better
opportunities.
Now the second question that you can ask yourself is what is the lesson that I can learn from
this.
Now say a negative thing happens.
Maybe someone backstabs you maybe you do something that you regret.
Ask yourself what can I learn from this.
What is the lesson and side of this and you'll find that there's always something to learn
even when it comes to that situation that turned out very well.
I can ask myself what is the lesson from this.
The lesson is if I trust the process if I have a positive attitude that good things
can happen.
So it's a matter of perspective and learning that allows us to put it in our memory bank
in a way that something that we'll know what to do the next time it happens it sets ourself
a trigger a way that we absorb that information so that we can use it in a much more powerful
way in the future.
You can apply this towards anything if someone backstabs you what is the lesson in this.
The lesson is I'm going to be more discerning and I'm going to really trust my gut because
I knew that this might happen with this person.
So I'm going to trust my gut and know that that something powerful to do whatever it
is.
Understand there's a lesson in everything you do and if you decide you're going to attract
some type of value out of that lesson you will then get that result.
Now now the third question that is also very powerful is how can I get positivity from
that.
So it's kind of similar to the first two but how can I get positivity from this.
How can I really understand that my own state of being is the most important thing.
And I can feel in giving myself permission right now to feel positive regardless of what
the external situations are.
This one is a constant reminder that the most important ability we have and the most important
thing that we can do is decide and give ourselves permission to feel positive right now in the
present moment.
Now this means that instead of being reliant on the external situations we simply go within
and we realize that the external is a reflection of the internal anyways.
And if we decide that we are not dependent on those external situations we are Berean
the power within and we are allowing ourselves to really generate the emotion from within
to really generate that positivity regardless of what's happening.
This will also prove to us that we could be in high pressure situations and we can come
out on top because we know that our own state of being is the most important thing that
we can give ourselves permission to enjoy the moment and that we can use it as a lesson
for us to really be more present to the moment.
So that's the other side of it.
How present to the moment are you and are you allowing the present moment to be or are
you trying to always change it or to get from here to somewhere else.
You can be positive where you are right now and remember positive doesn't have to be good
or bad.
Positive means integrative it means very a part of the process very connected.
And as you do that you'll find that everything begins to change.
Remember the three questions you can ask yourself is the first one how can this serve me what
is the benefit that I can get out of it.
The second one.
What is the lesson that is inside of this what can I learn from this and what can I
really get better at in the future of really trusting myself more.
And whatever it might be.
And then thirdly what is the positive I can get out of this.
How can I have the control of deciding my state of being in knowing that as I choose
my state of being and I choose to feel integrated and happy I will get a new reflection in my
life.
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