This video is about "Most Men Tolerate Bad Behavior!" I will explain how and why most men these days
tolerate such bad behavior, especially from toxic women! To find out more please stay tuned to this
video... Welcome to The SCG Show! Please hit the like button for the YouTube algorithm
and turn your life around with BetterHelp! The link is in the description just down below... I was
sharing a story with a friend of mine about a toxic woman I was seeing for a few weeks
I was moaning complaining how badly she treated me, as she acted how rude and entitled she was...
My friend didn't hold back and he said to me "what made you tolerate such bad behavior for so long?"
And I said "well at least she wasn't a serious girlfriend... it was just fun and fortunately things
didn't go any further... but to answer your question mate I need to go into more detail," and I did so
and as I explained my answers it actually gave me the inspiration to create this video, because
I believe there's an epidemic of really bad toxic behavior out there! Whether you meet a woman you
want a date off Tinder or at your local coffee shop, with narcissism rising at an alarming rate
men need to tread carefully! Now full disclosure I am not hating or bashing women! There are women
who tolerate awful behavior from men too and don't worry I will do a video for women as well
Here are some examples typically of bad behavior that spring to mind =
she doesn't listen... she isn't there for you... she cancels plans... she avoids your family and friends
she tries to change you... she is controlling... she is entitled... she is disrespectful
she is rude... she is a drama queen... she takes you for granted... she's obsessed with validation
she cannot and will not compromise... she expects you to pay for everything... she lies... she cheats
she bullies you... she abuses you and maybe she even withholds affection and of course intimacy!
And the sad thing is most men nowadays hold on to these toxic women and are actually afraid to let
them go! I mean what the hell is going on?! Let me explore in more detail and of course i'll have to
massively generalize here, why this is happening and why men are tolerating such bad behavior...
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The first reason why most men tolerate such awful behavior from women particularly in relationships
etc is deep down they fear them! Now not physically perhaps although in some cases that's possible
but in a variety of different ways! First they are scared to lose her, despite all the pain misery and
suffering from these toxic women put on men deep down they still want to hold on to her! They're
terrified to be single again or get divorced so would rather hold on to a toxic relationship
and suffer such horrendous abuse "better the devil you know" is the motto of these men!
Next they're scared in general - typically these men who tolerate such bad behavior
are scared of everyone else and everything else they fear their boss, their own parents, siblings
their neighbors, strangers on the street you name it! They fear it thus they retreat into their shell
and plod along in life terrified! The man who fears his wife - There was a very shy
timid man who started dating many years ago a very controlling dominant woman. She was rude dismissive
aggressive but he fell in love and they got married and had some kids. He never said boo to
a goose and would never even dream of standing up to his wife who has just abused him and made his
life hell for many years. He would never offer his opinion... let her walk all over him... let her
humiliate him make all the decisions and let her willingly ruin his life... "you disgust me" is how she
would actually speak to him every day, even when they had guests around! When people asked this man
"why are you putting up with this treatment?" his go-to response was the following "i'm afraid of her
and i'm even more afraid to lose her..." thus wasting so many years of his precious life miserable
and even alone in his marriage. These men are afraid of women making them prey to toxic abuse...
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In my opinion these weak men who simply tolerate awful abuse from women have most likely been
groomed by society, family, friends and so on. In this context i'm referring to laying down
ideas and foundation to believe that the abuse you will endure is normal and you should feel
lucky to have such a woman in your life! Grooming can come from the following places and of course
i'm generalizing here. Traditional conservative family dynamics can brainwash men that they must
get married no matter what and they must stay married no matter what... then you got friends....for
example your friends might tell you "oh well you know my wife talks down to me it is what it is... my
wife has cheated on me but our marriage has been stronger since.... my wife controls all the finances
it is what it is... my girlfriend goes out and parties to all hours but at least she comes home...
my wife does this.... my girlfriend does that..." your friends will also say stuff like "you want to stay
in your relationship... you don't want to be single or you've got it so good...I wish my partner treated
me the way she treats you" and so on. Of course even female friends can solicit terrible advice too
because ultimately no one will know you and your relationship better than yourself. And then you've
got the media as well! Turn on a sitcom and you'll see all of the male characters in the family
dynamic as like a bumbling buffoon a Homer Simpson and so on. The reality is this is all a bunch of BS
but like a drug and factor in some romantic comedies like the odd Disney movie etc these
guys believe they're fortunate and so so lucky to have a girlfriend or a wife! Now don't get me wrong
if this person is healthy and you're very lucky to have them then that's a different story but if
she's screwing around behind your back and openly treating you like garbage then wake the hell up!
Everywhere you look weak men are being groomed to tolerate and endure bad behavior...If you're
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Most men tolerate bad behavior because they have either never educated themselves about toxic
relationships in people or never learnt from their mistakes. These men can sometimes get married many
times to the same type of woman and have the same thing happen... getting treated badly... cheated on
scammed out of money or "I never saw it coming" says the guy who carries on making the same
mistake. Insanity is doing the same thing repeatedly but expecting different results
A few years back I had a romantic relationship with a woman who ended up being a narcissist. She
had all the toxic traits and warning signs of one but I was naive. I had no idea what a narcissist
was, how they acted, how they treated people but she was hot! I assumed I was in love and I went along
with it for several years... we almost got married bought a house until I saw the light and walked
away for good! Initially we argued all the time clashed constantly and I was pulling my hair out
I remember stumbling onto a YouTube video about the signs of toxic people and my girlfriend ticked
all those boxes! I went deeper and deeper down the rabbit hole - watched more videos, read more books,
lectures, consulted with psychiatrists... the evidence was clear... hard to ignore = "I was dating a narcissist!"
Every time I tried to escape and break up... she'd manipulate me back
I would assume I was the issue... it was her all along...I tried to make it work but things just
got much much worse...I thought i could change but that made me more deluded... After the final argument
and her storming out for the last time the penny dropped.... that I was in a serious toxic relationship...
and I needed to get out! Google is your friend educate yourself about toxic people not just
women people in general... narcissists... sociopaths subscribe to this channel... watch the videos that
I put out... read my blog... speak to a therapist with BetterHelp.... a close friend.. a family member
you can trust... gain knowledge as to why you openly tolerate and endure such bad behavior...
If you're a man and have resonated with anything i've said in this video... walk away and start afresh
Whether it's been 10 minutes or 10 years if you've endured bad behavior of any kind
you need to walk away! I'm living proof as are many of my subscribers, if you stay things do
not get better... she's not going to change... this is how it's going to be forever... pack your bags... lawyer
up if you need to, to separate.... create an extra strategy and walk away from this type of person!
Assuming you have no ties to her or don't need to block and delete her information...
put a restraining order if you must then take the next step...Let's say you take this sage advice and
walk away completely from the toxic woman who's treated you badly well, now you need to start your
new life! Firstly heal and recover lord knows what awful things you've had to endure from this person
take some time out and focus on getting your energy back and feeling good about yourself...
Next talk to a therapist or a trained medical professional about your issues sometimes a fear of
abandonment is, what attracted such a relationship in the first place and if therapy is not for you
watch my videos, read my blog or search on the internet for more information about your issues...
and lastly when you have healed and recovered take your first step into your brand new life! No you're
not going to go down that same route again! I want you to change and be happy and healthy
you're starting afresh not looking for another bad woman and another toxic relationship....If you follow
this advice to the T, I guarantee you that you'll be astounded by the results you'll end up seeing...