Hello, my wonderful friend! Today's video is on attractive things guys do without knowing it.
Wouldn't it be cool if you were doing crazy attractive things without even realizing it?
The truth is, this happens all the time. Women obviously think differently than you
do. And there are things that you're probably not even aware of that just melt her heart.
So I'm about to pull back the curtain and share some of the
most attractive things men do without even knowing it.
Now, the last couple of things I share with you are the ones that are the most
surprising. And I have a special tip for you at the very end that I get a ton of questions
about. So make sure you stay with me to the end of this video so that you don't miss it.
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Okay, let's talk about the attractive things that guys do without knowing it.
As I share these secrets with you, there are two things I want you to do. Number one,
I want you to celebrate the things you're already doing.
Once I share some of these things with you, there's a really good possibility you're going
to go, "Wait a second, I totally do that." I want you to celebrate that. That's so exciting!
The second thing I want you to do is I want you to pay attention to maybe
the things you aren't doing. Because it's completely normal for you to not be doing
all the attractive things. That's just kind of part of being human.
However, now that you're aware of them,
you can use this information I'm sharing with you to your advantage.
Pay attention to the areas you can improve on. Because at the end of the day,
that's the entire secret to being an attractive,
irresistible person, is to learn how you can improve and then improve.
So the two things you're doing:
one, celebrate your wins. Two, pay attention to the things you can improve on even more.
There are two other videos that are also going to help you so much with this.
If you haven't yet seen this video on 11 ways to
melt her heart and this video on how to attract a woman deeply,
I will put links to both in the description below. They're going to help you a ton.
With that, let's get started with our first attractive thing guys do without knowing it.
And this is when you kind of nerd out or get really excited about something.
We all have things that we get really excited about and kind of nerd out about.
It could be a hobby, it could be something you're learning,
it could be a project you're working on, something at work.
Sometimes we feel like we have to kinda hide those things. Like maybe we won't be cool
if we get excited and nerd out about things.
But the truth is, it actually makes you a much more interesting person. The truth is,
there's nothing cuter than a guy who's nerding out about something,
or who's excited and interested in life.
Something I teach you in my academy when I'm teaching you how to become irresistible
and insanely attractive to a woman is to have things you're
actively involved in. Hobbies, interests, things you're learning.
What this does is it makes you a more interesting person. People aren't really attracted to people
who are boring. That makes sense, right? You're not going to be attracted to a woman who's boring.
She's not going to be attracted to a man who's boring either.
However, when you have those interests, those things you're doing,
it shows her that you're a motivated person and a driven person.
It also boosts your confidence, gives you more things to talk about,
and just makes you a fun, interesting person to be around.
So make sure that you do have those things that you're learning, that you're interested in,
that you're involved in, and don't hide it. It's a very attractive trait.
Our second attractive thing guys do without knowing
it is actually when you learn dating and relationship skills. And here's why:
Sometimes people feel like they kind of have to hide that they're learning about dating and
relationships. It's kind of like, "Oh shoot, I'm embarrassed. I don't want anyone to know."
But in reality, it's one of the most attractive traits you can have. And it's
certainly something that, one, a high-quality woman is already doing herself, and two,
something she's looking for in a partner.
The truth is, for both men and women just
being attractive is not enough. You also need the person to see that you will make a good partner.
And someone who doesn't have dating and relationship skills,
who's not proactive about that, they're not going to make a good partner.
While someone who is proactive about that, whoa, they're going to be an amazing partner.
Someone who's willing to learn and improve is always going to
be more attractive than someone who's not.
It's kind of like a chef. Who would you rather have serve you dinner? A chef who
really doesn't know what they're doing, who's just kind of guessing what will taste good?
Or a chef who has learned, who's always improving, who's always making their food
even better? That's the chef you want to serve you dinner,
right? Someone who's willing to learn is always going to be better.
This is actually one way you show her that you're different. That you're not like everyone else.
Because sadly, most people are kind of lazy about relationships.
They're kind of apathetic. And just like you would not be attracted to a woman
who's lazy about relationships, she's not going to be either.
When you're willing to learn the skills that most people aren't willing to learn,
you can have the relationship most people will never have.
And again, a high-quality woman is already working to
learn those things herself, and she certainly is going to notice it in you.
So never feel ashamed about that. Never feel embarrassed about that.
Celebrate that and be willing to show it. Because that right there is a game-changer.
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Our next attractive thing guys do without knowing it
is when you say something nice to someone that you have no interest in.
It's one thing to compliment someone or be nice to someone that you're attracted
to. It's another thing entirely to just be a nice person who's just nice to people.
You wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone who's not
sincere, right? Of course, you wouldn't. She doesn't either.
So when she sees you doing those nice things, holy cow, that's going to melt her heart.
And let me just say, women notice those things. Women 100%
notice those little things. Because to them, they're not little things.
Something else I share with you in my academy when I'm teaching you
how to be her hero is that gentle men are attractive men. Good men are attractive men.
Now I'm not talking about toxic women.
I'm not talking about drama queens who only care about a thrill.
I'm talking about women who are looking for someone to give
their hearts to forever. Someone who wants you to come home to her every night,
who wants to wake up next to you every morning. I'm talking about a high-quality woman.
When you're that kind, gentle man,
she feels safe with you. And she can only fall in love with someone she feels safe with.
She also feels like she can trust you. She sees that you're going to be
a good lifelong partner and a good father to future children.
So when you show that you're a kind, gentle,
nice man, that tells her that you're the kind of man she can give her heart to.
Okay, we're about to get to the two most surprising things. However,
I want to hear from you in the comments.
Are you enjoying this video, and would you like more? There are a lot of other attractive things
that guys do that I could share as well. And if you'd like to see more videos like this one,
comment "attractive" in the comments to let me know.
Your feedback helps me so much, so thank you. Again, if you'd like to know more
attractive things guys do without knowing it, comment "attractive" to let me know.
Okay, our next attractive thing guys do without knowing it
is when you share how you feel about things. Your thoughts, your opinions, your feelings.
Opening up and letting her see who you are on the inside is insanely attractive to women.
Women connect through talking. And when you talk to her, when you communicate to her,
when you let her see who you are, holy cow, that is insanely attractive.
That's part of what helps her know that you're the kind of man she wants
to spend her life with because she actually knows who you are.
Being a little bit vulnerable is an incredibly attractive trait.
So let her know your thoughts and opinions on things. Let her know what's important to you.
When a man opens up like this, it shows real confidence and helps build her trust in you.
Now, I just need to clarify something real fast. When I say share what you're feeling,
I do not mean to act needy or whiny. And I certainly do not mean to tell her that you
have feelings for her before it's the appropriate time to do that.
You should not tell her that you have feelings for her unless you've been going out for a while.
And so I don't mean to act needy at all. That will actually push her away so fast.
However, when instead you open up, you share your thoughts, you share your opinions, and definitely
share your feelings for her when it's appropriate, when it's the right time,
that is insanely attractive.
And if you're wondering how to share your feelings with her at the appropriate time,
how to move at the right pace, that's something I share with you in my academy as well.
So if you've ever felt afraid, like maybe you shouldn't share how you feel about things,
it's actually an extremely, extremely attractive trait.
Okay, our next attractive thing guys do without knowing it is when you smile with your eyes.
Holy cow, you want to melt her heart?
Smile with your eyes. A smile in general is one of the most attractive things we can do.
This is especially true when a man smiles because there are so many who feel like they
can't smile. That's kind of become something society teaches us, but it's not true.
When she sees you smile, she goes, "Oh my goodness, he's safe."
It also helps her see that you'd be someone fun to be around.
It shows that you're confident. And when someone smiles at us, we naturally connect with them.
So a smile in general is pretty powerful. However, when you take it up a notch
and you smile with your eyes, that right there is going to melt her heart.
Now I actually get a lot of questions about this. How do you smile with your eyes? And the truth is
it can take a little bit of practice. I have a quick trick I'm going to share with you.
The other day I was at the grocery store and I was wearing a mask because
that's kind of where we're at right now, right?
However, it was really interesting because I went to the bakery, asked for some bread,
he handed me the bread, and I said, "Thank you," and I smiled with my eyes,
and he smiled with his eyes right back.
And we both knew each other were smiling,
even though we couldn't see each other's mouths. So I'm going to show you this quick trick.
All you need to do is stand in front of the mirror
with a mask. And I'm going to try and do this on camera. We'll see if it works with my mic.
So if you hold up the mask, try smiling with just your eyes.
It might take a little bit of practice. Here's my smile.
Here's my smile again with the mask. You can tell I'm smiling, right? Because of my eyes.
But practice with it a little bit. Because once you do it, it becomes second nature.
And having that little thing to block it so you can't tell,
helps you, "Okay, I got to make my eyes look happier."
A little bit of practice goes a long way.
Start smiling with your eyes if you want to melt her heart.
And there you have it! Now you know
some of the most attractive things you do without even knowing it.
You might be wondering, what now? What are your next steps? What do you do next?
You might be wondering why you can be an attractive person and still be single.
This is a question I get all the time. "Okay, Melannie, if I'm so attractive,
why am I still single?" Are you wondering that right now, too?
It's because you have a lot of pieces to the puzzle,
but you don't know how to put them all together yet.
You don't know how to make it all fall into place. If you did,
you'd be able to have the relationship you want.
That's what I'm here for. And that's what I help men with every single day.
My methods are proven and crazy effective, and I'd love to share them with you.
Make sure you watch that short free masterclass to learn more.
Just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. There's
also a link in the description below and in the pinned comment.
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[blooper beep] Wouldn't it be amazing if- [laughter] Sorry,
I don't know why that's really hard for me to say. Okay. Wouldn't it be c- Uh huh. [laughter]
That's exactly what it would be, obviously. Duh. Okay.
You can tell I'm smiling, right? Because of my eyes. The difference would be- I don't know if
I can do it. I'm going to try and do it. I smile with my eyes so much it's hard to turn it off.
Nope, I can't do it.
[laughter]