Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com.
Today, we're going to talk about the first 30 seconds.
We're talking about you going up to a girl and what do you say in the first 30 seconds?
One of the reasons, one of the many reasons why I decided to do a video like this is because
a lot of guys ask me how do you start the conversation?
What are you supposed to say?
I want to give you the first 30 seconds because the first 30 seconds are the most crucial.
If you learn the first 30 seconds of conversation, what's gonna happen is you're gonna have a
minimal amount of rejection.
Rejection rate is usually high in the first 30 seconds.
Whether you're going up to a woman at a grocery store or a sidewalk or at a bar or club, a
lot of rejections happen in the first 30 seconds.
If you learn how to know exactly what to say in the first 30 seconds and you have a little
formula, then your rejection rate is going to go down.
And if you don't know what to say, you might end up losing your shot because you might
be a great guy that wants to meet a great girl and you're going to miss your opportunity
if you don't learn what to say because you gotta know what to do in the very beginning.
You need a really solid opening routine.
If you have a solid opening routine, then you're going to know every time what to say,
how to start conversation and know exactly what to do.
That's the most important is having that opening routine.
The idea here is this is what gets you into the main conversation.
You'll have this and then it guides you into the rest of the conversation.
That's the whole thing.
You memorize it so then you can go into having more time to be with the woman so then she
can experience more of your personality and become invested in you.
This is the beginning to Investment and the beginning to attraction.
Let's continue.
You have your opener.
This is the first words out of your mouth.
This is the very first thing that you're going to say.
It doesn't matter too much what the opener is.
This is for people who want to know exactly what to do to get a conversation started.
I'll give you an example in a second.
Just start with your opener and then it moves into the continuer.
The thing that you'll see right after the opener.
Sometimes the opener and continuer are combined in one thing but I separated them so you can
get an idea of how this all works.
You go from opener into the continuer into the engaging response.
This is going to be her responding to you and then you are going to be responding back
to her.
This is now your engaging response to get the whole process going.
Let me give you an example.
An opener could be "Hey, I'm (your name) I wanted to come meet you."
And then from the opener, where do you go, to the continuer.
"Are you from (city)?"
You'll say the city that you're in.
I'm in Chicago so I'll say "Hey, I'm Tripp I wanted to come meet you.
Are you from Chicago?"
Just like that.
And then she's gonna respond and she's gonna say either yes or no.
Here's some options for you.
She's gonna say no so you'll say "Let me guess, you're from LA."
Now you're getting her to engage with you.
Or she's gonna say yes and you'll say "You totally grew up in the suburbs didn't you?"
This is an engaging way to talk to her because you're playing the "let me guess" game which
I really like.
In fact I talk a lot about that in my Hooked program and give you examples of that.
Let me guess you're this.
Or let me guess you live here.
Let me guess you like this.
That's different ways to engage with her.
Let me show you an example of what this might look like.
It's not to the t here but it gives the idea of opener continuer and engage.
Check it out.
Do you guys know where the nearest Starbucks is?
No.
You have no idea cuz you're not from here.
Not from here.
No way.
Okay, let me let me guess.
There's no accent.
So somewhere in the middle of America, Kansas?
Wow.
Far off.
Way far off.
Okay, I give up.
What is it?
Philly.
Okay, so I don't love that Starbucks line anymore.
It's not something I believe you should use.
You can if you want.
If you practice it enough it gets you to the point where you can continue conversation.
I wouldn't do that one.
I'd prefer you do the one that I'm showing here.
But that gives you an idea of how to transfer over from the point of opener to engaging
with her.
Let's go through a few different scenarios of what this might look like.
Imagine you're at a bar and you see a girl you want to talk to.
You just go right up to her and then boom go for it, opener.
"Hey, I'm (name).
I wanted to come meet you.
Are you from (city)?" and then boom go right into it.
That's an example at a bar.
You just go up and do it.
Same idea here at a grocery store.
If you see a girl at a grocery store you're just gonna go up and start the conversation.
My suggestion here is you go right up, don't worry about who she's with and just go right
up to her and start the conversation and then calibrate after by getting anyone else engaged
after the fact depending on who is with her.
That's what you want to do.
Go right up to them, start a conversation.
It can be the same thing in the downtown walking area.
You're going to see a woman, you're gonna want to go up and talk to her and you're gonna
use the line.
In terms of walking, you want to be a little bit distant from her by try to get in front
of her a little bit so you get her to stop and you say "Hey I'm (name) I wanted to come
meet you." and then go through the whole series of events here.
Continuer and then engage with her and boom that's the first 30 seconds.
If you want to learn more, check out Get Her Hooked dot com.
If you go to www.getherhooked.com this is my program where I go even deeper into everything.
If you want to know what to do after the first 30 seconds, how to get her more invested,
how to get her to be flirting with you, how to flirt with her and get to the point where
you get her number and take her on a date.
I explain that whole process and how you can do that.
I give you script format so I tell you exactly what to say and exactly what to do so you're
not left wondering what to do and understand everything.
So if you want to check that out, go to www.getherhooked.com where you can learn more so you can get the
entire process step by step.
Check that out.
The link is in the description down below.
Thanks for watching and I will see you in the comments.