Buddha himself said that desire is the root of all suffering now desire is
actually the thing that keeps us wanting more and more blocks things from coming
into our life and there is a magic that when we detach and we let go of things
we allow amazing things to come into our lives so in this video I'm going to show
you the three things you must let go of to attract your dream life and to have
it be easier than ever welcome back to another video my name's Erin and I help
people expand their consciousness now in this
video I want to share with you the magic of detachment understanding that when
you let go your vibration raises when you let go of what you're intending to
create in your life and you stop trying to control the outcome of things you let
go of all resistance and it has to do with understanding this concept and I've
learned this honestly the kind of the hard way in some ways because when I
when I put a lot of intention and used a lot of my own kind of like my own
control controlling certain aspects of my life I've gotten certain benefit in
some ways like I started making daily videos on YouTube and putting out this
content and it really you know started to create momentum and then I started to
get rewarded for it and to associate that with something positive but what
happened is I kept coming up to like different roadblocks I kept coming up to
a place to where I would feel like a lot of resistance because I'm like why why
aren't things happening the way that my mind thinks it should and there were
certain times that then I just learned to let go and when I would let go it was
like it would come through even more floodgates of abundance and love or
whatever it was would come through with actually me even doing less which was a
very much a paradox for me and there's also sometimes I'll do I'll go to like
these called plant medicine ceremonies I'll do them like I do sometimes once a
year I go to a place in Costa Rica and I do this and it's is something where it
always shows me a similar lesson and that less
- let go - let go - let go trying to control to let go of these different
things and when I do let go magic happens literally magic happens and also
when I let go of what I think about other people as well
like for example if I have an attachment and a rule in my mind that says like
somebody needs to be here at a certain time for example I have a handyman he's
a great guy however he's horrible with time and if
I'm like okay could you be here at 1:00 or something to get this stuff done
because I got something to do it - they'll say yes every time I'll say yes
and then what I'll do is he'll get here at like 3 o'clock and I'll be like dude
I've asked I have stuff to do you know and it's almost always like that and
even the other day like I had somebody that was a that was um that was doing
some work for me like virtually and had to do some graphic divine design so
actually has to do thumbnails I was worried he's gonna like watch his
video or something but how to do with thumbnails and basically what happened
is I needed a thumbnail and he I was like I keep pounding forth uh give me I
need that need a thumbnail cuz I'm sketching on videos and I'm like weeks
ahead you know and there's this interesting thing that happened to where
I kept feeling resistance because he wasn't pumping them out fast enough even
though I pain and everything and it's like there's a certain you know he
disgust roll up videos on YouTube and eventually what I did is I just
completely let go of the outcome I just trusted that he'd come back with the
right ones or I'd find somebody else and the same thing as eventually I just let
go of my handyman needing to be here at a certain time and the story in my head
about it I just let go of that and magically enough then once I do that he
shows up on time the other one I did that one night I was like you know I'm
just gonna completely let go before I went to bed for the thumbnail guy and
then all of a sudden the next day I woke up with like six thumbnails like just
it's like it's amazing how it works when we let go the story in our head or we
let go of these ways of thinking of thinking that we have to control
everything when we let go of it we allow more amazing things into our life and
you know I've made a lot of videos on YouTube about manifesting
and there's a lot of people that said that they have manifested love you know
using some of the videos that I that I've created there's one it's a love
attracting love meditation it's the most popular meditation on my channel it's
got almost 2 million views and so many people in the comment section say that
they attracted love by listening to that meditation and some of the concepts that
I share that as well I'll link that below as well the that meditation for
attracting love however one of the things that I talk about is completely
letting go of trying to attract love because when you let go of the desire
you then allow yourself to become more attractive if you're not in that desire
mode then you're not resisting remember anything you want is a different
vibration than anything you have but when you let go of the wanting you then
can have it and I know that sounds like a paradox but think about this if you
say I really really want your saying I really really lack I really really don't
have and then if you if you decide you say ok I want to move into the having
all you got to do is let go that want and then it comes into your life it's a
huge paradox but like Buddha said the whole desires the root of all suffering
that creates resistance and when you create resistance you then block these
amazing things from coming into your life and there's so many people that say
that from legend go of trying to attract someone into their life or letting go of
trying to control the outcome of a manifesting a partner to their life that
it happens right after that and I've also made some videos on YouTube about
attracting a specific person and and the thing with the specific person is people
focus on a specific person and they send them a whole bunch of energy they may
create a lot of resistance and almost an expectation and the moment they let that
resistance go because they've been trying to control it for so long it's
the moment that then normally that that energy will rush back but you have to
truly let it go not this insidious thing well some people are like okay well I'm
gonna let go this person so that I could then attract them no I know I see you
don't do that what you want to do is you want to let go of this person because
you know you're worthy because you know that that happiness that you think
they're gonna give you it's actually already inside you all that's happening
is there's a rule in the mind that says once I attract this person to my life
then I'm a feel happy but if you let go of that
rule you realize the happiness is already within you and even think about
it what you do is you have a rule then what you do is you get into a
relationship with someone and then that rule is being met that desire has been
met you let go of the desire because it's here and then you feel that
approval you feel that that love but the love was always inside you at any moment
you could have felt that love already you see so if you just let go then you
can have if you just let go there's a magic to that and I say that from
experience because every single time I've let go of something that I was
trying to control I allowed magic into my life one of the first ones I want to
share there's like three main things you want to let go up
they'll just completely transform your life I'm gonna start with number three
because I like to you gotta let go of me work in an order okay you gotta let go
that but three is labels else answer labels the clothes labels become free
we all have labels we put ourselves in I used to put myself in a label that said
I have ADHD I'm unworthy I had labels that said I'm not very I'm not smart or
I'm dumb these are all labels that I had at one point in my life but what I
eventually did is I questioned that label and I let it go and then what
happened is my whole life transformed so it's these labels that we keep ourself
trapped in and then we feel stuck we feel like we don't know why things
aren't working in our life but we've kept our self in such a small box but
when you let go of these labels you then become free and what label may you have
in your life that is keeping you stuck some people will honestly they'll say
I'm seeing I want to be in a relationship but I'm just single I'm
that 30 year old cat lady that needs that doesn't wants a relationship book
doesn't have it I am this I am this person that's just not abundant things
Oh coming about like this is might these are labels these are these are believes
these are stories labels flash stories and those labels that story
we'll keep you in an autopilot way in a loop on autopilot over and over again
the key is becoming free of those labels let him go at a certain point in your
past you decided this is Who I am subconsciously or caught are
subconsciously maybe through your parents your environment growing up or
consciously you just decide to that because something happened but once you
let go or you change the meaning of those things you'll feel like you'll see
that your life will change in a very powerful way let go of labels become
free reality is changing every moment every moment is a new moment every
moments new moment you can be who and however you prefer to be it's just that
many people are changing to the same things over and over again not knowing
that they can be something too new they can be a new way they're free every
moment but they don't realize that so they continue to create the same thing
over and over again but if you want to become free let go of those labels
beware the labels you have the beliefs the stories you have that you tell
yourself that on autopilot then you start to become three now you aren't
gonna go to two but don't be attached to me go in in order and don't be attached
to me going backwards in order blow your mind right now
okay what is people people that go people let go of people's expectations
like that that that a handyman thing with the thumbnail guy off also I let go
of the expectation I let go of them being a certain way now at a certain
point I could have also had boundaries and I could have said you know what for
either of them I could have said you know I want to work with someone you
know that that does that works quicker with me with certain things or some of
that's on time I can have that boundary and do that but I found that by letting
go then it's like they're pretty much on time anyway so it's also something to be
mindful of but letting go with people especially if you're trying to attract
love in your life but you're attached to an X it's almost like a dog
energetically with a bone in its mouth and then trying to get into their bone
it's already full there's not room for that but when you let go you make space
when you let go you become free and there's so many people that once you let
go you then move from the wanting to the having and but let go of the desire as
well let go of the desire there is a fourth one I just put a fourth one in
here right now freebie hmm the video says three but you
gave four I like to under-promise and over-deliver okay so people let go of
people you become free when you let go of people from trying to attract someone
you wait for that X back let them go honestly let them go it signals
abundance but you're not letting go because it signals abundance you're
letting them go because that love is already inside of you is if there's a
big difference but it makes a huge change and understand as well there's
like three there's like two or three main desires that we have in life there
are three beliefs that we may have as well one thing we seek is we seek
approval a lot of times when it comes to letting go of people we're letting go
with that approval because we realize we can give ourselves that approval in love
secondly the Oh outcome outcome to control when we when we like oh when we
talk about this this is like safety we love safety when you let go of the the
outcome it may be a little bit of uncertainty but guess what you allow
something amazing to come in your life there was a while and I it was letting
go after one of those plant ceremonies in Costa Rica I let go of what people
thought of me because I was so worried about sharing esoteric concept on
YouTube and let go of what people thought of me and then I also let go of
outcome from trying to control like the growth of my youtube channel and
different areas of my life and guess what happened I let go I started making
videos that I was actually passionate about like talking about some pretty
esoteric things like star seeds and stuff and I just trusted I let go I
enjoyed and I let go of that outcome and once I did that it was profound how much
growth came just growth came from me my own personal growth how I felt
also it group brought in more people that I could even imagine I went from
like 400,000 subs like 600,000 like that and it was just like I made choices to
make videos that I thought I just let go of what people thought about me and let
go what people or me trying to control it as well and there's been many times
in my life when I let go of the control it's like magic flows in there is a
magic to detachment because when you let go of the 3d
ego controlling factor you then allow something much more magical to kind of
come into place so what I'm sharing with you right now is magic
it really is magic of letting go this is a higher level paradigm when you're
allowed to allow the divine to work for you and I have something by the way
that's called mind shift which are meditations and a step-by-step process
that shows you exactly how to apply this higher level paradigm so that you feel
empowered so you don't have to desperately feel like you have to want
things but also so that you have things like money and abundance and love chase
you because of that energy dynamic change by detaching the more you let go
the more you allow in and mind shift to being the top description box below you
can check that out and there's some there's three amazing bonuses that are
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it out you'll see what I mean this here on sale spacey testimonials of what's
possible but in general realize the more you let go the more you allow it when
you detach it works like magic and your life can be magic and night
life would be very transforming if you just let go so with that being said I
hope you enjoyed this video and as always peace much love and namaste