yeah
Matt
a sturdy part of the
assertive and
just like
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you know what works and what doesn't use person so I qualify what does qualify
show that you're not just us but we're just gonna take anybody on the street
okay well basically what separates you from the
girls they basically we're tracking right shows that you have standards
shows in your challenge which presupposes that you must have other
women in your life
other women like her caliber I don't know anything about you
thanks yeah i know this so I don't know if we can hang out yet but tell me one
cool thing about you
I'm not some very picky what do you mean what are you passionate about what do
you
the maker party at mac imagine she's just as gorgeous
knock out right the supermodel whatever but you normally date like these average
looking women a guy that normally ditched don't imagine that you date that
bullet let's say there's somebody who date's average woman
it wouldn't make sense for him to go up to her and treat her like everybody else
most guys wouldn't do that if you like wow yeah i'll take you to your favorite
restaurant
I'll take you out anytime i'm free all week like you would really want her
because she's so much better looking
does that make sense so when you come in there and you just treat her normal and
you're like qualifying her you're not sure her that shows that you must date
women of her caliber of her quality of that status and women want a guy who has
a higher status than them
so if you have the body language and you communicate the you date women of lower
status
she's not gonna be interested no woman wants to date a guy who gates women of
lower status than my sense is that is your lower status
ok
so when you qualify her first of all when you approach her in this relaxed
way but I just showed you
it shows that you're comfortable around her as you're comfortable around women
like that and that you expect that she would like you you would approach a girl
you didn't think she would like you would approach a girl if you expect that
she's going to reject you like
no guy would do that doesn't make sense all this girl's not gonna like me
because I don't date women like her she's way too hot for me
I'm gonna go talk to anyway like guys don't think that way so right away she's
going to think that and then when you qualify her that's showing her like look
I don't even know if I want your number because I don't even know if you're up
to my status i don't even know if you're more of the enough for me to get your
phone over and this is like an egotistical thing like you're better
than her but it's just you don't know you don't know what she is
you know she could be a great woman she could be not such a good woman
you don't know you're just trying to find out and you don't in the daytime
situation you don't have time to find out everything that sort of data is for
to find out more information and see if you want to take things further
but you at least want to find out enough information to see if you want to go on
a date with or to even to see if you want her phone number
it's like her looks got your foot in the door that's why you're talking to her
but now she has to win you over so that you actually want her phone number
so first you gotta have standards
you got to have like what are the non physical attributes that you're looking
for in a woman
so your homework assignment write this down is going to be to make a list of
ten non physical qualities that you wanted a woman and be specific
don't just say I want to go with a good personality
what does that mean what kind of personality do you want to go with sense
of humor what kind of sense of humor is I'm sure there's certain types of soot
sense of humor that you wouldn't be attracted to do you like did see do you
like kind of offbeat sarcastic
so you can have at least out of those 10 have five that are non negotiables like
she must have those five and then you can have five that you know like for me
I love a girl that can cook but if she can't cook that's not a deal breaker
I can hire a cook so what you can have 10 that are non negotiable but at least
half a pot and this is not qualification is not just a tool to get her to like
you because it does do that
it does make her like you does make her see was higher status
it gets her to qualify yourself to you that therefore she is investing in the
interaction
she's working for you we as humans we appreciate what we have to work for
think about somebody just gave you a free car here has keys to a brand-new
car is yours
you think you take care of it as well as if you had to work for two years to save
up for that car
the same car
probably not
you appreciate what you have to work for take care of it more value it more if
you don't make her work for it and roll
she's not going to value it the number is not going to be a solid when you text
her and go for the date it's she's less likely to respond and want to see you
so it is a technique that gets her to like you more but it's not just the
technique it should be real should actually be wanting to see if there's
something more about her now
sometimes I get guys that are like well I don't care i just have got late and so
long I just need a girlfriend i need you i need a date
it's need me Ed I tell them to qualify anyways because if they keep doing it
they keep asking those qualification questions eventually don't care about
the answer
maybe not the first couple times eventually you will care
you mean the girl who just gives you some crappy answer and you'll be like a
I don't like that you leave and when you leave a beautiful woman because she
didn't meet your qualifications
that's a powerful moments like what I have a choice
no no that would be bad really nice no no reason you may I
I'll make you I'll making my miami girlfriend for the next five minutes
then it will be ok
yes