- I don't know what's going to happen.
This is interesting.
- I don't know.
Oh, it's weird.
No, it's going to explode.
- I don't know.
- I'm so nervous.
- (mumbles)
(blasting)
(screaming)
- Good morning or whatever time it is where you are.
If you're new here, my name is Shayla.
Welcome to the channel.
I started this channel out, traveling full time.
Then I got pregnant, and now we're talking about mom things,
which kind of blows my mind.
Somebody asked me the other day,
"Do you feel like a mom,
or do you feel like Shayla with the baby?"
And I was like, "Shayla with the baby."
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These videos used to take me hours.
Half the time it was just getting ready.
The other half of setting up the background.
If I'm going to get these videos out,
they're are going to be unrefined.
You're going to get this (mumbles).
Maybe some a mess in the background or something that's...
Oh, Whoa. It looks like put together
this little burp right here.
You're literally seeing this much of my house.
Everything else is a little (mumbles).
I kept the gender off social media for our whole pregnancy.
Did I know the gender?
Yes.
Am I one of those people that could wait till 40 weeks
and be surprised at the end by what the gender was? No.
They say it's the greatest surprise ever. Not me, man.
There's a genetic paneling that you can do at eight weeks
that'll tell you the gender.
I was like, "Sign me up for that."
I'll take you through the whole journey.
We found out we were pregnant.
I made a video on YouTube
telling my boyfriend I was pregnant.
Bought a couple of pregnancy test.
And it's freaking positive.
I'm really freaking nervous.
I want to call everyone (mumbles) right now,
but I'm just going to wait to talk to Seth.
Good morning.
A while back I stopped taking birth control
and I started doing the natural method,
learning all about my body.
And I feel like I'm starting to get the hang of it.
But now we got (mumbles).
What do you thing Seth?
We weren't trying, but we weren't preventing.
So now we have a child.
The comments in that video are horrible.
This guy doesn't want the baby.
He was pretty surprised when I told him,
but he's like the most excited.
Which you can see in our videos of our first appointments.
- So we got a heartbeat.
- We got a heartbeat.
- This is all good.
It was crazy. 'Cause she shared that the thing in the-
- I shared it-
- ...as clear as day.
- Yeah.
- And you could see the baby-
- Normally I feel like an ultrasound,
you're like, "What are we looking at?"
- Oh, my God. A chimp would have been like,
"Oh, that's a baby. And it has a heartbeat."
And it's measuring like, "Okay, everything's good."
- I was just silently crying.
- Healthy. And was (mumbles).
Everybody's quiet.
And I was like, "I feel like I'm losing my mind."
Like, "This is incredible, right?"
- I'm just super low energy and a little nauseous.
But other than that-
- I'm dumbfounded.
I can't even believe (mumbles) I'm so excited.
- Somebody was like,
"Are you guys going to have a gender reveal party?"
And if I'm totally honest, I didn't have anyone to invite.
Well, we just moved back from Washington.
I've been traveling all over the place for five years.
I don't have that many close friends here.
We were living in my sister's basement,
which I would've have stayed in forever.
Except there's like, "Gender reveal parties or extra." Okay.
But I was like, "But I still want like the poppers
so that we can just see it explode.
Even if it's just you and I.
I got this, it's like a blood panel for,
it's called panorama test for genetic screening.
And you can find out the gender.
The day that they called me it was his sister's wedding.
So last night was his sister's wedding.
And right before I walked in to it,
I got the call from the doctors saying,
"Hey, we have your panorama test pack.
Everything's negative. Do you want to know the gender?
And then I was like, "How do I do those popper things?"
- You asked them that?
- Yeah.
- Like on the phone?
- Yeah. 'Cause I knew that they would-
- You didn't tell me that just now.
- It was literally 4:27 and the wedding sort of 4:30.
She's like, "Well, I can put it on a card
and you can get it today."
It was Friday like at 430.
And they don't know. But again until Monday.
Seth is not happy.
I basically said,
"Oh yeah, I don't want to know the whole weekend."
That would have been the worst I would have known the gender
while you were walking down the aisle.
- So what?
- So then I was like,
"Okay, maybe we can call them back before 5:00.
And my sister can find out the gender
and then we could do the poppers on Saturday."
So we called back and they're like,
"Hmm, that's a HIPAA violation."
Seth, this is going to be so bad.
- Oh my God.
- What are you eating?
- Cheese dinner.
Today, what are we doing, Seth?
- We going to find out the gender.
- Finally, right?
Apparently we go to the doctor's office,
which opens at 8:30. It is currently 8:29. We're on our way.
I think (mumbles) scratch off.
And then we give that to like Party City,
and then they give us the right poppers.
However, it is raining.
Not exactly sure where we're going to do these poppers,
but it's going to be great.
So bring it to Party City,
she scratches it off, sees what it is,
goes and buys the popper for us.
Takes the sticker off that it says the color.
(mumbles) house.
I want it to be a little extra.
So we got...
I think it's full.
- Oh, that was easy.
- One breath.
- Yeah.
- That's strong breath.
- Got lungs like that. (mumbles)
- And then we got these poppers.
The gender was on top. She just took it off.
What's your guess?
- Ah, I think it's a girl.
- I have girl vibes. I feel like it's a girl,
but I've had a few boy dreams.
So I'm just going to go team boy.
Just to go opposite Seth.
- (mumbles) like this and you...
Seth, one...
I'm so excited.
I think you're supposed to take the top off.
You didn't take the top off.
- I don't know what's going to happen.
This is interesting.
- I don't know.
- I don't know-
- Oh, it's weird.
No, it's going to explode.
- I don't know.
- I'm so nervous.
- (mumbles)
(blasting)
(screaming)
- Oh, my God.
And it explodes as blue.
I was totally fine, boy or girl, whatever.
But when it was blue, I was like, "A boy."
And you could see in my face when I recorded
that I was like, "I can never post that on the internet."
I looked so disappointed.
But now I can, because it's fine.
When I found out that it was a boy,
I was Pinteresting boy outfits
to like get my mind right.
My sister was like, "Shayla it's okay."
So it was like she wanted a boy
and I just stayed silent.
Really watching that was brutal.
- Oh, my God.
- That's dope.
- Oh my gosh, it's a boy.
- It's a boy.
- What?
I was thinking it's a girl first.
- It's a boy.
- Oh my God.
Oh my God.
- I was right.
- You were right.
- What do you mean you were right?
You thought it was a boy?
- Shayla, it's okay.
- What's okay?
- You look so sad.
- I don't look sad.
- She wanted a boy.
- Oh!
- It's not even that much (mumbles)
- I'm having deja vu right now.
(mumbles)
- You've had a baby before?
It's a boy.
It's a boy Seth.
So we just had a 12 week appointment
and they're measuring everything.
Ultrasounds good.
We're like, "Oh, look at these, moving around.
This is so exciting."
'Cause he was moving a lot.
- Yeah.
So then we meet with our doctor.
We asked her a few questions
and then we're like,
"Okay, we need to schedule our 16 week and our 20 week."
Trying to schedule the appointment, and she...
I thought she was kind of frantic.
Seth wasn't really concerned about it.
- She just was like,
"Shayla, can you come back in here for a second?
I got to to talk to you."
- Yeah, but I was like, "Why do I need to go back there?
Why don't you just stop in the room?"
Okay, so we went into the room and she goes,
"So you said that you were having a boy?"
I was like, "Yeah."
What did she just say?
- She just said like, "You guys said it was a boy."
And she's like, "It's not a boy. It's a girl."
(mumbles) home gender reveal. And it was like,
"Boy (mumbles)."
(mumbles) girl.
- What?
- They gave us a scratch off,
and on the scratch off
that we we're supposed to give it to Party City.
- Oh, right.
- It said, "Baby B." Handwritten.
- So then I asked her,
I was like, "Well, why did it...
he said handwritten B?"
And she was like,
"Well, sometimes there's twins and twins are high loss.
So it's possible that it got like taken out
and then put back into the wrong box."
- So yeah. We're having a girl.
(laughing)
This is crazy.
- I can't believe it.
And Seth was like, "You're joking."
- Yeah, I was like, "Quit messing with me."
- Oh my gosh. So we're having a girl.
- Baby girl.
- Yeah. That's the (mumbles)
Right. That was just right. You were a girl. Yeah.
Seth didn't care one way or the other,
all guys are like, "(mumbles) a girl."
And he was like, "I genuinely don't care.
I just want to have a baby."
And I was like, "I'm so glad you're my baby dad."
Apparently baby A also got put in the wrong box
and given to a couple.
They did a whole gender reveal party.
They had friends to invite to a party
and they were not so understanding.
So there no longer doing scratch offs
at the doctor's office.
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all the things.
I going to go take care of the baby.
Thank you so much for watching,
and I'll see you later. (kissing) Bye.