Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. I'm sitting at the airport right now
about to take off from LA to Chicago. This is going to be my first leg of the trip
until I go to Southeast Asia. Just waiting right now with Britney and super
pumped. I wanted to make a quick video for you about how to get a woman
to chase you. I get this question all the time in the comments "How do you get a
girl to chase you?" Guys are always complaining why do I always have to do the
chasing? I know it feels that way because you're the one who's doing the
approaching, starting the conversation. You're the one who's really proactive so
you want to turn the tables a little bit. And I get that. I totally understand that.
I'm going to give you a few tips in order for you to do that. How do you turn
the tables a little bit and how do you get her to chase you? I'm going to
give you 3 different strategies, 3 different techniques that you can
use the next time you're talking to a girl and wait for the end because if you
have trouble talking to a girl, I got a free gift for you. When it comes to
getting a girl to chase you that means that she has to seek some sort of
approval or validation from you. This is the kind of back and forth in
terms of the attraction in terms of the flirting and the mating dance.
This kind of approval seeking behavior. This happens a lot.
To get someone to chase after you or want you, you need to get them to try to get
you to approve of them. Do you follow that? I'm talking kind of fast here so
to do that what you need to do is you got to make sure that when you're
talking to a girl, you don't agree with everything she says. I know in the
last video I talked a little bit about that, but again we're talking about the
idea of seeking validation and to not seek her validation, that
means you cannot be agreeing with every single thing that she says. Next,
to get a girl to be kind of chasing after you, to try to figure out who
you are, is don't give away every single thing about you when you first talk to
her. Don't tell her every single thing. You
want to let a little mystery happen. You want things to unfold naturally as
you go through the dating process. You don't need to go into every detail and
that is gonna want to make her want to find out more. So make sure that you're
not giving away everything. I know that one is a little bit of a long-term
play. That's not gonna make anything instantly happen like maybe the first
one where you disagree and it gets her to chase you a little bit. But here's the
third one for you that I think you're gonna like. The third one is using your
body language and use your body language and conversation in a way that's showing
that you're not trying to be all about her. What does body language
look like when you're all about the girl? You're really facing her and
really close to her, you're giving her amazing eye contact and I know I tell
you to do that all the time, to make sure that she knows you're flirting, but
there's a balance here. We're going a little bit more advanced and a little
bit more advanced part is you sometimes taking away a little bit and you want to
do this in the interaction when you know that she's already sort of starting to
become attracted to you. Don't give her everything and again I said that
verbally from the last tip but this is now non-verbally.
Kinda back off, make sure that you're not always looking right at
her. Make sure that you're kind of stepping back a little bit. Make sure
that your body language isn't completely facing hers. You might be thinking
Tripp this is a lot of game playing here. Do I have to play these games?
Listen, here's the deal. This is part of flirting and flirting is the idea of
showing a little bit of interest, showing a little bit of disinterest and it's the
mating dance. Don't think about this as games, think about this as the process
of attraction. And of course these aren't really games. You don't what you
want to be giving her your all right away because you don't even know who she is yet.
Which one of these are you going to use? I want you to
write it down below. I want you to write down below which one you're gonna
use and if you have trouble getting into a conversation with a girl and you're
not even at this point where you're trying to get her to chase you, then I want you
to get my video called Chick Crack and that give you the conversation topics
that women love to talk about to make conversation effortless for you and then
you can use some of these techniques to get her to chase you. I'll put a link
in the description below so go get that and I am off to board a flight to
Chicago. Peace!