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Today, we're going to go over the 9 Traits of a Sigma Male
Make sure to watch each one of them, and find out how many of them you have.
You've probably ever heard of two made-up categories known as "alpha" and "beta"
males. With Alpha Males, with their leadership qualities, strong confidence, and no-nonsense
approach to life and Beta Males, eager to take orders and fall into line were the alternative.
However, recently, chatter on social media has people buzzing about the oh-so-rare sigma male.
So what is this mysterious sigma male and what kind of special traits does he have? Find out how
many of them you have. Here are the 9 Traits Of A Sigma Male - The Rarest Male On The Planet.
Number 1 - He is not a follower Above all else, the true sigma male
is a nonconformist. He has an own, independent way of doing things. When the crowds are headed to the
right, the sigma will tend to go left. Society's expectations and pressures are systematically
discarded as useless. Instead of society's or the masses' views of something, he bases their opinion
purely on its intrinsic value. While they aren't afraid of being a part of social circles,
they don't drown themselves in social obligations and commitments the way alpha males do.
He doesn't follow trends, he often doesn't know what's going on in the world of celebrity gossip,
and he is the same person no matter what the social context is.
Number 2 - He likes to be alone, but he values other people
One of the first things anyone will notice about a sigma man is how much he values being alone. Even
though sigma males can be charming and charismatic when needed, they're never more comfortable than
when they're alone. They're introverts who love having the time and space to think and decompress.
Nonetheless, sigma males still value the importance of having valuable people around
them because they understand that they cannot accomplish all their goals alone.
This may make it difficult for women who are used to obsessing and dominating men,
to be in a relationship with a sigma man. Sigma men are best partnered with women who
don't need to be around their partners at all times, because those kinds of relationships
can end up feeling too emotionally and mentally draining a sigma man.
Number 3 - He does not like social conventions Formalities are a waste of time to a sigma male.
Sigma males aren't so concerned with making friends or winning popularity contests.
Sigma males are not as attached to dominating every conversation as alpha males are and enjoy
contributing in their own way without hogging the spotlight. A male with a high sigma score
finds small talk boring and useless, despite the fact that it is a foundational skill for many. It
doesn't serve him to flatter strangers, nor does he feel he has to prove himself in front of them.
It is not likely that sigma male will stand in front of everyone cracking jokes and
boosting everyone's mood. Sometimes he'll stand on a corner and speak to someone he
thinks deserves his time and intelligence. Or he'll talk to no one and just observe.
He is not a fan of showing up in the proper dress code, replying to texts immediately,
or participating in the meaningless talks because he's just not interested in empty
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We would really appreciate your feedback. Number 4 - He is a silent leader
As opposed to an alpha male who speaks loud, always looks big and intimidating and doesn't look
like someone you would ever mess with, sigma males just have their own approach to lead the crowds.
Their unique combination of self-reliance, introspection, and intelligence allows
them to solve any problem and transform an inefficient concept into something productive.
It's great to have a sigma male on your team. He provides confidence and leadership of an
alpha male with none of the downsides of a large and fragile ego that needs constant validation.
Despite obstacles or inconveniences, a sigma male is tenacious; he will keep working at
something until he finds a way around it. Number 5 - He does not open to everyone
Social media is not the place where Sigmas brag about their accomplishments or big dreams.
Their passions are private. Some people think that they are cagey and secretive because it
takes a lot of time to get to know sigmas. They are not interested in sharing their personal
information with stranger people. They need ego boosts and validation like fish need cars.
Sigma opens very rarely and only to people who are known by him for a long time
or he have a lot of trust towards them. Number 6 - He has high adaptability skills
Sigma males are highly adaptable by nature. Some of their adaptability is so natural and convincing
that they may appear to have truly assimilated into the social hierarchy. However a sigma male,
rejects all notions of climbing this hierarchy. The reason he would assimilate is probably because
he finds some measure of value in it-or desires to partake in it for his own gratification,
fulfillment, or profit. However he is fully capable of walking away from it without a
second thought. There is never something above his independence. With no self-imposed expectations or
pressures, a sigma male can be either a follower, a leader, or any position in between, as long as
he is comfortable with the circumstances. Number 7 - He Treats Everyone The Same Way
He is doing so because he does not like a social hierarchy. He finds no point in treating one
person a certain way while another person is being treated a different way, just because
somebody has an invisible set of rules to follow. Sigma male is more than happy to treat everyone
around them the same way. They don't limit their team to only people who made their way to the top.
Their focus is on individuals' value and intelligence, no matter where they find it
and who in the social ladder has it. This is one reason they make outstanding leaders.
Number 8 - He knows his value Introspection is one of the primary traits
of a sigma male. The sigma male is a lot more introspective than alpha male, so he approaches
everything within himself and is very aware of the impact of his actions on his entire being.
Sigma male knows himself extremely well. Aware of their strengths, they are working
to improve the weaknesses. Rather than spending his time with others, the sigma male spends his
time analyzing what he could have done better. Despite lacking the strongest social graces,
though, they still manage to avoid drama because they handle social situations well and understand
how to appear likeable. As someone accustomed to living in their heads and not seeking validation,
they will surely be delighted when someone finally sees the very special things they have to offer.
Number 9 - He is attractive for women Women are drawn to the sigma male archetype for
many reasons. Generally, males who are sigmas are always open to walking away from a relationship.
Females find this attitude to be highly attractive, because it is a sign of confidence
and a sense of self-satisfaction. Compared to non-attractive traits such as clinginess,
neediness, and desperation, this is a serious, high-value trait.
Moreover, women are also highly attracted to novelty and mystery, and the sigma male
fits into this stereotype perfectly. Indeed, a certain amount of "mystery" can be sexually
motivating for women. The Sigma male is like a closed door, that challenges a woman to knock.
In addition to that, his strength, intelligence, and independence are very desirable traits.
Now, we have a question for you. Which sigmas trait do you have?
Please share your thoughts in the comments.
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