How do you know if a man is really in love with you?
I mean a guy can tell you that he loves you, but how do you know if he really means it?
Well in this video, you are going to learn 5 things that men say and do,
only when they are in love with you. So, if he’s doing these things, you can be confident that he
really means it when he says he loves you. Don’t go anywhere because we are starting right now.
In the very beginning stages of a relationship, It can be difficult
to know for certain that a man loves you, especially when everything seems great.
That’s because in the beginning men will say and do all the right things
trying to win your affection. And knowing if he is being genuine or if he is leading you on
and following his own agenda can be tricky? But, if you pay close attention to A man’s behavior,
his body language, and his physiology and what he says, you can understand how he feels about
you and remove any doubt. So, without further ado, here are the 5 signs that he’s in love with you.
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1. He Protects You When you love something,
you protect it. And this is especially true of men. That’s because the male brain is wired to
protect his “tribe” from threats, even in our modern day world. This biological
instinct to protect you is only triggered if he really cares about you deeply and he sees you
either subconsciously (or consciously) as a member of his tribe or family.
And I can tell you as a man…. A guy is not going to protect you if he doesn’t care about you a lot.
But when he loves you.. he will be protective of you in several different ways. for example, He
might stand in front of you if there’s a visible danger. or, at night, he might walk between you
and other people, acting as a line of defense. It’s not that he thinks you need him in order
to be safe. It's because he wants you to feel safe knowing he will defend you in any way that he can.
He will also protect you in social situations where he will defend
your reputation or stand up for you when someone is being rude or unkind.
Another example.. when you express your fears to him, he listens attentively and
does what he can to ease your fears. He offers you support and tries to make you feel less afraid.
2. He Takes Care of You When You’re Sick When a guy offers to take care of you when
you’re sick or recovering, it’s a huge sign that he loves you. Now I understand that when
you are sick, you might want to decline his offer because you don’t want him to see you
that way. But if he insists on helping you or taking care of you in some way..
yes that’s a huge sign that he cares about you so much. And, if he wants to take care
of you when you are sick with something contagious…. That’s an even bigger sign
of how much he loves you. That’s because when a man cares about you deeply… caring for you
and protecting you is a bigger concern than his worry about his exposure to the same illness.
And just like I said about protecting you…. If he doesn’t care about you,
he certainly isn’t going to offer to take care of you when you are ill. So, if you are sick
and he isn’t offering to get you some soup, or bring you medicine, or take you to the doctors
or offer help in some way…. Then you have to question how much he really cares about you.
Let me add one caveat …. Some men are not naturally born caretakers…. A man
might really love you but just not think to ask how he can help
So I’m going to make one exception because taking care of you when
you’re sick might not immediately come to his mind for whatever reason…. So,
giving him the benefit of the doubt…. You may need to ask him for help.. and when you do,
he is willing and able to help you without any hesitation whatsoever.
3. The Time You Spend Together is NOT Primarily Sexual.
Of course, sex is a very important part of a healthy relationship. But
it certainly isn’t the most important part, nor should it be the main focus of your relationship.
Sex is just a fraction of the relationship…. Not the sole purpose of spending time together.
So, Ask yourself these questions. When you are together,
what do you mainly spend time doing? Are you going on dates? Are You Having amazing conversations?
Do you feel like he is connecting with you emotionally and is really trying to know you?
Or, is he more interested in sex than any other aspect of the relationship?,
Is the time you spend together primarily sexual? When a man is in love with you, you will find that
sex is not the main motivation for the relationship. Instead, he wants to connect with
you on every level…. He wants to be intimate with you physically, emotionally, and psychologically.
By the way, I’m dr Antonio Borrello and I’m a psychologist and relationship coach.
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4. He is As Affectionate After Sex as He Is Before What a man does after having sex with you often
reveals so much about how he really feels. You see, some men will be very affectionate before
and during physical intimacy, but once the sex is over, they are completely different. Some
of this (particularly drowsiness) is related to the biological differences between men and women.
You see, After sex, men may feel drowsy due to the release of particular neurotransmitters
including serotonin and oxytocin which are associated with happiness and relaxation. So,
if your partner wants to sleep after having sex, that’s not a bad thing. In fact,
it’s probably a sign that he’s very comfortable, interested, and wants to stay right next to you.
Now, on the other hand, If his body language is closed off or
he leaves right away without cuddling or talking, there might be an issue.
Both men and women are in one of our most vulnerable states when we're sexual with someone,
especially if there's a strong bond between us. So, if a man uses this time to connect with you,
to cuddle and talk, then it’s likely that he cares about you deeply.
5. He Asks You About Your Friends and Your Schedule and Remembers The Details
When a guy loves you, he’s very interested in knowing everything about you – especially
how you spend your time away from him. This includes the things you do at work,
at school, or with your friends and family.
He will also ask you questions about other men including your platonic male friends, co-workers,
and classmates. He asks these questions because he is assessing if they are a threat to the
relationship or if he has anything to worry about. That’s because when a guy is in love with you, he
will protect the relationship And, if he perceives someone as a threat, then he feels jealousy
And, Experiencing a little bit of jealousy within A romantic relationship is not always a bad thing.
I mean If you see a person making moves on your partner or trying to date your partner,
experiencing some jealousy and talking to him about it is a healthy and appropriate response.
So, if he asks questions about men that he isn’t familiar with,
this is a sign that he cares about you and wants to protect the relationship.
He also listens to you carefully and he remembers the details,——-
big and small - especially about your schedule.
Even if you mentioned something briefly in passing about your time off or schedule, he will remember
those details, and let me tell you why Well, because what you say is so
tied to him emotionally, that your words get forged into his memory.
Think of it this way… most of us have very vivid memories of 9-11… we remember even the slightest
details of what we were doing when we first heard the news... we remember so vividly because of all
the emotions that were attached to the memory. So, When a guy remembers surprising details and
specifics about you and your schedule, it's clear that he’s emotionally attached to you.
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