What matters most for female personal satisfaction?
Is it the size of their partner's wallet? Is it their partner's personal size,
for example, length or girth? Or is the emotional connection that they have with their partner?
Hi, I'm Michelle and recently I polled female viewers of my channel and asked them this very
question: what matters most to your personal satisfaction? So, in this poll I ran for over
the course of a week, and this was an anonymous poll so I can't tell you anything about the female
respondents only that there were 179 respondents, and they were given five options to choose from;
and the options that I chose to give them to choose from were those that you suggested in
my size matters video above as to what you thought, men thought, were most important.
So many of you suggested to me that wallet-size was most important to women,
our personal appearance was most important, and many of you raised girth as an issue too.
So, you can see here these are the five options that I gave women to choose from.
I gave them the option to choose; for what mattered most to them in terms of their
personal satisfaction. Number one was partner wealth; two, was emotional and mental connection;
number three, length; four, personal girth; and also to number five, was physical appearance. So,
after a week, I stopped the poll and collated the results. And I think you'll find they're actually
quite interesting and revealing. So I'm going to go through the results with you first from
what was ranked the least important to the most important for women, and then I'm going to talk to
you about four ways that you can improve upon your own personal relationship based on these results.
Now, coming in least important, and ranked equally were partner length and girth. They both
received four percent of the vote. So, four percent of women ranked girth as most important
in their physical in terms of their personal relationship and that what mattered most to them,
and four percent of women ranked length. So you can see combined I think we can say
that eight percent of women said that size matters most in terms of their own personal satisfaction.
Now, coming in next, was partner wealth. I actually asked about wallet size but wallet-size
wealth same thing. So, seven percent of respondents said that partner wealth,
or partner wallet size, made them personally satisfied or satisfied in their relationship.
Then, coming in next was physical appearance and that was ranked by eight percent of women as the
most important factor in terms of their personal satisfaction. So I think you can see we have
three. I can broadly categorize them to three factors that were nearly
ranked the same by women. Partner size, partner wallet size, and also partner physical appearance.
So these actually ranked quite small in terms of the overall percentage. So,
that really leaves one option doesn't it? Which was emotional and mental connection and
77% of women actually ranked emotional and mental connection as the most important factor
in their satisfaction with the relationship and this is how the poll actually appeared,
the final poll actually appeared on youtube.
So, all this got me thinking about what is an emotional connection, emotional mental connection,
and how can we actually improve upon the emotional connection we have with our partner?
Well, an emotional connection is being honest and open and showing your partner you care about what
matters to her. So, this is quite difficult to the physical aspect of the relationship,
the touch, the physical contact aspect, this is much more the emotional mental side of it. Now,
there's a number of ways that you can improve your emotional connection. The first way is to show
an interest in what your partner, what matters to your partner. So whether it might be an issue that
she's having at work, or something that's going on with her family. Ask her about that issue.
The second way is showing an understanding and an interest in that issue, and this is
by actively listening to what she has to say, and you might acknowledge that
yeah that really is a big issue I can see how you feel really concerned about that.
The third way is showing empathy. So, empathy means caring and understanding that person. So,
you might then say or you might then listen to what she has to say without
judging and without the need to offer a solution but show that you care and try
to understand why she's feeling the way she's feeling about that issue.
Now, the final way is about self-revealing. And that means, being honest and open about your own.
Perhaps your own concerns, maybe your own insecurities, and this is part of the give
and take in an emotionally mature relationship, and an emotionally connected relationship. So it
means sharing your own concerns and acknowledging and responding to your partner's concerns as well.
So, I hope you found this little presentation today interesting, insightful. I found the
results really quite interesting myself. I hope you can take away from this, the fact
that for some women; size doesn't matter most, and partner wealth doesn't matter most. In fact,
emotional connection is what matters most in terms of their personal satisfaction, and the
ways to improve this are to show an interest, show empathy, and also to to self-reveal.
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gentlemen as well that might benefit from the information or just find it interesting.
Thanks so much for watching today. Really look forward to seeing you next time. Goodbye for now.