Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is on how to get a girl to like you over text. Have you ever
been texting a girl and she just stops responding or she ghosts you or rejects you and you have
no idea why? It's not very fun, is it? In this video you're going to learn why that happens
and what to do to instead attract her instead of keep being rejected and ghosted. So if you want
to learn that make sure you watch until the end of this video. Before we dive in if this is your
first time watching one of my videos, my name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for
men. I teach you how to stop wasting your time and energy on bad and dead-end relationships by
learning the skills you need to instead get your dream girl and your dream relationship. So make
sure you subscribe, ring the notification bell, and give me a big thumbs up. Okay, how to get a
girl to like you over text. Why do women sometimes just stop talking or reject you or ghost you over
text? I'm going to let you in on a secret that's probably really going to surprise you: Most women,
they don't do this to be mean. They would never ever intend to be mean. Now, this is not true of
toxic women. If you haven't yet seen this video do make sure you watch it. There's a link in the
description below. I'm not talking about toxic women, because I would never teach you to attract
a toxic woman. But most women, if she feels uncomfortable in any way, if the conversation
makes her feel awkward or uncomfortable or just if she doesn't feel like you're compatible, that will
cause her to not respond when you text and cause her to ghost you because she doesn't really know
what to do or what to say so she says nothing. Now is that how she should handle it? Probably not,
but she freaks out and that's what she does. So how do you change this? How do you turn
this around? No matter what the problem is when it comes to dating and relationships the answer
is always to get the right skills. That's how you show her that you have the quality she's looking
for in her ideal partner. That's how you stand out from the crowd. And that's how you get your
dream girl. It's always skills. Honestly guys, I know I've said this a million times and it's
because it's so effective. That's why I became a coach, that's why I created my program. Guys,
at the end of the day, skills are always what gets the girl. So the way to stop being ghosted,
the way to stop being rejected, is to have good skills. Now we're going to be going over some of
those skills that you can use right now to instead start attracting her instead of pushing her away.
This, my friend, is how to get a girl to like you over text. Okay, my first tip for
how to get a girl to like you over text is to pursue her. If you have seen this video
you guys know that pursuing is one of the most attractive things you can do. One of the biggest
mistakes I see men making when they text women is that they text her like a buddy, like a friend.
If you want to be her texting BFF, then act like her texting BFF. But if you want her to see you
as an attractive man that she wants to go out with, you need to approach it from that direction.
You need to be upfront with her about the reason you are texting her. For instance, a big mistake
that men make is they just start texting her and chatting, they never ask her out, they never
express interest, they never pursue her. And what that does is it makes her think- initially she's
like, "oh my goodness, this cute guy's texting me. It's so cool!" And then she's like, "wait, I
think he just kind of wants to be friends." That's one of the best ways to end up in the friend zone,
guys. That's why you need to be direct and open and honest. Speaking of dating and relationship
skills pursuing is one of the very best skills you can learn how to do. It's very important that
you do it the right way or it can come across as needy or aggressive, which you don't want.
I'm thinking about putting together a video on some examples of what pursuing looks like.
Would you guys like a video on that? If you would, please comment 'pursue!' so I know to make a video
on that for you guys. All right, tip number two for how to get a girl to like you over text is to
make sure you have a game plan. This really backs up pursuing. If you're going to pursue her you
need to kind of have an idea of where you see this conversation going or this potential relationship
going. If you don't have a game plan that's how you end up just kind of texting her as a friend
instead of "hey, I want to get to know you better. I want to go out with you. Etc." Your game plan
helps you know how to get to the goal, helps you know how to get to the desired end result,
which is not being stuck in the friend zone but instead her being really attracted to you. Now not
only do you need a game plan on how you're going to text her, how you're going to pursue her, you
also need a game plan for what to do outside of texting her. Because the truth is, guys, you can
be the best at texting on the planet and really attract her there, but once you meet in person,
if it feels awkward or uncomfortable, if you have no idea what you're doing or no idea what to say,
it's not really going to matter, is it? This is why you need a game plan. A lot of people think
that knowing how to text a girl is kind of a fix all. You just know the right line to text
her and poof suddenly she's in love with you. And the truth is, guys, that's not realistic.
It will often get her attention, especially a toxic girl, but at the end of the day you've
gotta have a game plan. A real high quality woman is looking to see if you have skills,
the type of skills she's looking for in a partner, and if you have that game plan.
Seriously, this is one of the biggest mistakes I see so please take this seriously. I see so
many men who just think "oh I just need to know how to text her and then poof it'll all
be wonderful." But the problem is they just get so far into the relationship and then it tanks.
And then they just get so far and then it tanks. Over and over and over again and they never
know why. The problem is they have no game plan, they have no skills. That's why I became a coach,
that's why I created my program. So if you are sick of tanking, if you're sick of getting so far
in a relationship and then all of a sudden she doesn't want to talk to you anymore,
this is your problem. I put together a free program for you that's going to teach you
more about this, what to do to avoid this, and how you can move forward and start having
success instead of rejection. There's a link to that masterclass through the description below.
I will also put a link in the pinned comment. If you're tired of tanking and you're ready to just
get your dream girl make sure you watch this masterclass. My next tip for how to get a girl to
like you over text is to have interesting things to talk about. If you saw this video you know that
one of the most attractive things you can be is an interesting person. When a guy texts hers "zup?"
and that's like it or if it's like "how's your day been? Cool." you know, if it's not
an interesting conversation, she gets bored and she moves on, she finds something else to do.
But if instead you're an interesting person to talk to and you actually are doing interesting
things and you're fun to talk to, wow, that's really attractive. That makes her feel closer to
you and makes her more attracted to you, makes her like you. So as you are texting women make
sure that your texts are interesting instead of bland. Now my next tip for how to get a girl
to like you over text is to keep things positive and to keep things fun. If you make her feel good
she's going to enjoy texting you and she's going to look forward to your texts. That's
how you get her to like you and want to get to know you better. It's really easy especially
when you're nervous to maybe focus a little bit on some negative things like "oh my goodness,
I'm stuck in traffic. I hate it." or "I feel like the work day is dragging on forever." And
the truth is it's okay to mention things like that occasionally, especially if you
can turn it into something a little more positive with a joke. But make sure you're mostly keeping
the conversation light and fun and very positive. People enjoy being around people who are positive.
It's much more fun to be with them. So again if you make her feel good when she texts you, she's
going to want to text you all the time. Every time her phone chimes she's going to hope it's you.
That's what you want if you want to get a girl to like you over text. Okay, let's sum
up what you've learned so far about how to get a girl to like you over text. Number one is to
pursue her. If you act like her friend and her texting buddy that's how she's going to
see you. If instead, you pursue her, you let her know you're interested in her, you let her know
you want to see if this is going anywhere, that attracts her so much. Women love to be pursued
and it leaves no room for confusion. Next make sure you have a game plan. This goes along with
pursuing her. Make sure that you kind of have an idea of where you want this to go and you have
a plan for how to get there. This also applies outside of texting. If you text really good but
in person it's awkward and uncomfortable it's not going to matter. Remember that texting is
not a fix-all. Guys, I can't say that enough, because so many men fall flat on their faces
because they rely too much on texting. Do make sure you watch my free masterclass to learn more
about how you can avoid dating disasters and instead have skills and a game plan. There's
a link to that masterclass in the description below and in the pinned comment. Next when it
comes to how to get a girl to like you over text make sure that you have interesting things to say.
If you don't really put a lot of thought a lot of effort into what you say, it's boring. But if
instead you're doing interesting things and you have interesting things to say she's interested.
She thinks it's fun and it's enjoyable for her to text you. And make sure you keep things positive
and fun. Don't focus too much on the negative things. Keep things on a happy uplifting note
and she will look forward to your texts and really really enjoy texting you and getting
to know you better. Always remember that the whole goal here is for her to feel really good when she
hears from you. Thank you so much for watching my amazing friend! Be sure to subscribe and ring the
notification bell if you haven't yet and I would love it if you would give me a big thumbs up. I
want to hear from you in the comments. Which of these tips are you going to use first? And would
you like me to do a video on with some examples of how to pursue? If you would, be sure to comment
'pursue!' And would you like more videos on texting? If you would, please comment 'texting!'
Do you have a friend who's been struggling to text a really cute girl? Please share this video with
him. I know it would help him so much. If we're not your friends on social media, there are links
to that in the description below. I would love to connect with you there. Thank you so much
again my amazing friend and have an amazing day! If you have seen this video you guys- Wait, what?
Oh, yeah. [laughter] If you have interesting things to talk- Oh, yeah. Uh-huh.
Wait, what? Oh, yeah. Okay.
Number one is to [clearing throat] [cough]
yes it is. Next up when it comes to how to get a girl to- What? I want to hear from you
in the comments. Which of these tips are you going to use first and- [messed up] [laughter]