Hello! It's Mark here from Make Him Yours, and I did promise you another video on Tinder,
so I'm going to deliver. Today, we're talking Tinder profiles and how to write a Tinder
profile. Now, if you haven't watched my previous video on running a larger online dating profile,
definitely have a look at that one. Link's in the description, but today, I'm going to
tell you how you can summarize your life very effectively into the tiny space that Tinder provides.
Stay tuned.
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All right, Tinder. Tinder profiles. How do you write a great Tinder profile that attracts
the best men in to match with you? Well, there's three central concepts I talk about when
it comes to writing Tinder profiles, but the first thing you want to do before you do any
of that, and I get my clients to do this by the way, is write a list. And in this list
you're going to write things I get excited about, can talk about, participate in and
also things I'm excited to do, have done, want to do, aim for. You can be really varied
with this list, but what you've got to do is get 15 to 20 items on this list that are
very specific to you. So here's an example of a list that one of my clients wrote. So, you can see,
you know, she's into music festivals, seeing live music soundwave, fitness is important to her
She talks about movies and dates and watching musical theater and cycling, and Europe-Switzerland
travel, Palm Cove and Cannes, entrepreneurs, Sweden, ballgames, strawberry daiquiris. You
can see it basically goes everywhere and really covers who she is specifically as a person.
Okay, so you've written your list, and you've got all the things about you, just like my
client there did. What do you do with that now? How do you turn this giant list of things
into something you can actually use on Tinder? Well, the first thing you want to do, the
first concept to understand what Tinder is, you want to make it specific. So I talked
about this in the other dating profile video as well, but you really want to make sure
that your profile is each specific to you. In other words, another women couldn't put
your profile up as hers and have it roughly describe her.
So things like "I love hanging out with friends. I like easy going people. I love travel," they
don't work because they apply to everyone. You want to find things that are very specific
to you and that's what your list is for. Your list is going to play a big part of that.
Second thing you want to do is there's a structure to Tinder profiles and you want to structure
it, so that the first two thirds, so about the first 30 to 35 words or so is about you
and the last 15 to words, 10 to 15 maybe 20 words is about what you're looking for in a man.
Right at the end, you sign off with a little call to action, introduce yourself.
All right, and the third thing is size. So you want to bite size everything. You remember
that 300 word list that we had from that one particular client.
I've got to get that down into 30 words. So what you need to do is to remember that that
still gives you about five to six sentences of about five to six words. Each of those
sentences can reflect one to two interests on there. Everything has to be small chunked.
You want to allude to lots of things about yourself without giving specific details on
any of them. You still want the thing to be specific. You just don't go into detail on
that thing. So let's have a look at how I narrowed down 300 words into 30 or so for
this client. So you saw the big lists that we had before and this was her final profile,
not a nine to five girl heart musical theater, soundwave (RIP) cause that festival died and
Bluesfest emoji. CrossFit and Le Tour wannabe to reflect both her fitness, loves a little
bit about movies in there. Time zone, over at dinner and a movie to reflect her ideal date.
Daiquiris at Cloudland, surfing at Byron Bay, and the Brandenburg Gate in Berlin. 31 words
and we've summed up almost 300 words of content in there. You can then say that at the end,
we go into what she's looking for in a man, hot man who can laugh at himself plus value
health, character over career, generosity is sexy, and a call to action right at the end,
introduce yourself. In that profile, she's gotten really specific to her. Everything
she's written there is incredibly specific to what was on that list. She structured it,
so there was two thirds about her, one third about what she was looking for and a little
call to action at the end. Introduce yourself and everything has been bite sized. We've
used emojis, we've used greater than, less than signs. We've used hearts. We've only used
one to two words to describe each interest, but they're still specific to her.
That is a great Tinder profile right there. It alludes to lots of things. It tells the
men to introduce themselves, what she's looking for, and it makes her sound fricking awesome
because she is, and you are too. But you've got to represent it in your profile. So when
you write a Tinder profile, remember those three things. Write your list, keep it specific
to you. Get your structure right and bite size everything, and you will have a fantastic
Tinder profile that attracts the best men to you on Tinder. Well, thank you so much
for watching! I hope you got a lot out of it. Don't forget to check out the other two
Tinder videos as well. There's one on photos and there's one on how to use Tinder. So between
the three of them, you should have an awesome kickstart on Tinder, and you will be a woman
who stands out to the best men on Tinder. Thank you so much for watching! Comment below.
Leave your thoughts, leave your comments, questions. I want to hear them all. Give the
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