Hello, my wonderful friend! Today's video is on the signs she likes you
and is not just being nice.
You know the situation I'm talking about, right? You see a girl, she's really cute,
and you want her to think you're cute too. And so you start looking for the signs she likes you.
But in the back of your head, you can't help but think, "Okay, so is she really attracted to me?
Does she really like me, or is she maybe just being nice? Or maybe even just being friendly."
If you've ever asked that, this video is for you.
The last thing you want is to think she's interested
when she is just being nice. That's incredibly embarrassing. Not to mention hurtful, right?
But at the same time, if she really does like you, you don't want to assume she doesn't and
just think that she's being nice. So what you learn in this video is going to rock your world.
Each of these signs is very important, and I explain
the difference between her showing interest and just being nice in each of these signs.
So make sure you stay with me to the end of this video. So you do not miss any of them.
Now before we dive into the signs she's interested
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As we dive into these signs she likes you and is not just being nice, there are two other videos
that are also going to help you so much. If you haven't yet seen this video on the signs she
likes you but is maybe hiding it and this video on the signs she is constantly thinking about you,
I will put links to both of those in the description below. They're
going to help you so much with this as well, so make sure you check them out.
And with that, let's dive into the first sign she likes you and is not just being nice.
This sign is that she often smiles at you and tries to catch your eye.
This can be one of the ones that's the easiest
to misunderstand. And that's why I wanted to talk about it first.
There's a big difference between just a polite smile, "Hey, how are you doing?" kind of smile,
and, "Oh, hey, I want you to notice me and I think you're really cute~" kind of smile.
One way to be able to know the difference between the two
is to look to see if it's frequent. If she's frequently trying to catch your eye and trying to,
you know, get you to notice her and connect with her that way, that's a really good sign that,
yeah, she's interested and she wants you, you know, to see her and talk to her.
Whereas instead if it's just a normal, "Hey" smile and that's it,
well then that's probably just because she's a polite person.
For instance, in my Academy, when I teach you how to know if a girl likes you,
there are 3 guidelines I also teach you about. And one of those is to keep things in context.
For instance, if you just walk into a room or walk up to her and say,
"Hey, how are you doing?" the polite thing for her to do would be to smile, right?
But if instead, you notice that she's always trying to catch your eye,
that's something out of the ordinary. That's not something people just
do just because they're being nice. That's her showing interest.
So as you keep it all in context and look for it to be frequent,
that's going to help you know that, hey, she's trying to catch your eye, she likes you.
Okay, the next sign that she likes you and is not just being nice
is that she compliments you and maybe even calls you cute names.
When we're attracted to someone,
one of the easiest ways to flirt or to show interest is to compliment them, right?
And some people will even call you cute names. Now,
this does depend on the person and how well she knows you.
Something I really, really want to clarify for you is please remember to keep this in context.
A lot of people get really confused if someone
is calling them cute names and whether or not that is a sign. Now, let me explain that.
The place where a person has lived or where they were raised directly influences how they talk.
And some people, pet names or calling people "hun," or "sweetie," or "darling," or "honey," is
just something they do to everyone. Where in other areas of the world, that's not something you do.
For instance, it kind of cracks me up a little bit, where I live,
pet names are not really something you do at all unless you are in a relationship
with someone. And even then, most people don't really do pet names.
However, there are other areas in the world where they just call
everyone "hon." They just call everyone "sweetie." They call everyone "darling."
And so we can always tell where I live if somebody was not raised here
because they'll call everybody "hun."
Now that's obviously not a bad thing and it's fine. It just kind of makes me smile. It's like,
"Oh yeah, you're probably not from here, right? Cause that's not really something we do."
So remember to keep things in context, as I mentioned with the previous sign.
Is this something she does for everyone? Does she call everyone "hon"? Well,
if she calls everyone "hun," then that's probably just because that's what she does.
So pay attention to those little things. Because at the same time, if she compliments you
frequently, if she doesn't call everybody else cute names or pet names, then that is a very,
very good sign, a very good indication that she does like you, that she's not just being nice.
I have a quick warning before we get to the next sign. Just knowing these signs,
these signs that she likes you, puts you lightyears ahead of most men.
This is a huge thing, and it's good to celebrate that.
However, most men assume this is the only thing they need to know.
Because of how people fall in love, these signs of attraction, these signs of interest
are only the first step. And if you just stop there and you just assume that's it,
you're literally setting yourself up for failure.
What comes afterward is far more important than just reading these signs.
So what should you focus on after you see these signs? Cause again,
celebrate that, that's amazing that you're seeing those signs, but what's the next step?
The next step is you need to learn how to attract a woman
in a way that makes her want a lifelong relationship with you.
I call this "attracting a woman on the deepest level,"
because it is so much deeper than her just thinking you're attractive.
That's what these signs are, is, "Hey, he's cute. I want to get to know him better."
Now you need to take it even deeper and help her say, "Whoa,
that's the man I want to spend my life loving~!"
That attraction, that initial attraction is a really good start.
But if you're not careful, it will crumble very quickly.
The good news is you don't have to worry about that when you understand
how to attract her on the deepest level, because that is how you turn her head,
melt her heart, and make her fall in love with you forever.
And that's what you want, right? That lasting, loving relationship. As a coach,
this is exactly what I'm here to teach you. This is what my entire Academy is all about.
I have a free masterclass for you that's going to teach you 3 secrets to attract a woman on
the deepest level and get a lifetime of kisses from a woman who adores you.
If you want that loving lasting relationship, you need to watch it,
ASAP. This is the next step after you learn the signs that we're talking about in this video.
I'm going to be perfectly honest with you. Most men skip this step
and then they come back in a month or two months, "Hey Melannie,
I don't know what went wrong. It all crumbled and fell apart. And I don't know why."
I don't want that for you. You don't want that for you. So
set yourself up for success in love right now by watching that free masterclass.
Just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass to sign up. There's also a link in the description below,
and I'll put a link in the pinned comment. Set yourself up for success in love by watching it.
Our next sign she likes you and is not just being nice,
is that she does nice things for you. This is especially true if it happens repeatedly.
When we're interested in someone, we naturally want to do nice things for them.
Now women, especially women, do this. We're natural nurturers.
We want to take care of someone, especially someone who matters to us.
A woman wants to take care of her man. And so if she's doing nice things for you frequently,
that's a good sign that she's interested in you.
Now there are a couple of ways you can
know a little bit more certain that it's because she likes you and is not just being nice.
For instance, ask yourself, does she have anything to gain from this?
For instance, are you her boss, or is she a waitress looking for a
really big tip? Well, then that's not quite as sure that it's a sign.
But if she literally has nothing to gain or very little to gain
by being nice and doing those nice things, then that's a good sign that she is interested.
Because most people are nice people. That's just kind of how the world works. However,
we're all busy. We don't really have that much time to go out of our way to help everyone.
She's going to reserve that for someone she's interested in.
So especially if she doesn't really have a lot to gain from being nice to you, but you notice she
does those nice things for you frequently, that's a really good sign that, yes, she does like you.
When she does those nice things for you, maybe it's bringing you a treat or offering to help out
with a project or something you're working through, or whatever it is,
that's a way for her to feel close to you. It's a way for her to take care of you.
It's a way for her to get your attention.
This is definitely something women do when they are attracted to you and interested in you.
I have a quick question before we get to our next sign
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Okay, our next sign that she likes you is that she acts differently around you.
This is incredibly common. When someone is attracted to someone it's very normal to get
nervous or to act extra excited or to go out of your way, like, to do nice things for them.
If she's acting differently around you, if you're kind of the exception,
that's a really good indicator that she is interested in you, that she does like you.
Something else I teach you in my Academy is to pay attention to see if you're the exception.
Are you different from everyone else in how she interacts with you?
If she goes out of her way to say hi to you, to do something nice for you,
to smile at you, to catch your eye. If you're the exception, then she's not just doing that
to be nice. There's a huge reason, and it's usually because she likes you.
Our next sign is that she tries to keep the conversation going.
Now, this can certainly be true in-person,
over text, online, through social media, chatting, whatever it is.
If she's making an effort to keep the conversation going, she's not just doing that to be nice.
Unless of course, you're at an awkward dinner party and there's no one else to
talk to and she's just trying to come up with something to say. That would be the exception.
For the most part, again, as humans, we're really busy, and we're well-meaning,
and we enjoy people's company, but we don't really have a lot of time
to go out of our way to keep the conversation going with someone we're not interested in.
However, when we're interested in someone, we want to keep that conversation going as long
as possible, right? I'm sure you've felt that way as well.
So if you notice, again, whether online or in-person or on social media,
wherever it is, if you notice that she asks a lot of questions or brings up
random things or whatever it is to try and keep the conversation
going, yeah, take that as a sign that she's interested and that she likes you.
Now, these signs that she likes you, the signs of attraction, are pretty exciting, right?
It's really cool to be able to identify between whether she's interested or not.
So just take a second and celebrate that. That's really cool!
Now, remember your next step. The last thing you want to do is just celebrate these signs
and then not do anything because that is setting yourself up for failure.
As you learned earlier in this video, you must learn how to attract her on the deepest level.
How to make her go from saying, "Hey, that guy's really cute," to saying, "Holy cow,
he's really cute, and I think I'm in love with him, and I want to spend my life with him~!"
If you don't know how to do that, you're going to struggle
in relationships. And you deserve instead to have a lifetime of kisses from a woman
who adores you. And that is what my free training is going to teach you.
So to watch this free masterclass, just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass.
I'll also put a link in the description below and in the pinned comment.
Do yourself a favor, set yourself up for success in love, and watch it. Like right now.
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[blooper beep] Um, okay. Here we go. We ready? Are we ready? Are we ready? I'm
ready. Are you ready? I'm ready. Totally ready. Except for this problem right here.
Now our next sign that she likes you and is not just being nice, is that she does nice things for
you. Yeah, that's it. [laughter] I thought maybe that was another one, but it's this one. Okay.
The end. [chuckle] I always feel like there's something else.
Nope, nothing else. If there is, it's too late, this is the point of no return. Here we go.
Dun dun!