Ladies and gentlemen, welcome back, Coach Mossab at you with another
video in this one, I'm going to tell you a little bit of my history.
It's going to be a personal one where I talked to you about how I had nice
guy syndrome, how I came to overcome it, how I became a player and who's.
Happily married.
So it's gonna get a little deep we're going to start from the beginning of how
I got into the journey of learning sort of game, pick up a red pill, all that stuff,
and then came to be a happily married guy.
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So really the story started for me back in high school.
Come from a different culture.
So I'm Sudanese.
I come from a different culture where a lot of it is pretty religious.
I came from, the middle of Sudan where my mom, my dad were pretty religious.
I was pretty religious as a little kid.
When we came to the U S we suffered a big culture shock.
And everything's different.
There was no brilliant electricity back home.
Everything was completely different here.
The language is different.
The people are different.
The culture is completely different.
And felt like they had to protect me and my siblings from everything.
And that meant socially more than anything.
They meant, they thought that if I went out, pardon with people had a little
too much fun that will become corrupted.
I will lose my religion.
I would, fall astray, stray, and go down the wrong path and be
into a gang and all that sort of.
Long story short, I got held indoors a lot of time.
So throughout my formative teenagers, I don't really get
to party with everybody else.
I didn't really to get to go out because my parents thought it would lead me
down some sort of dark twisted path.
So I was always locked in doors when all my friends were partying, I was inside.
When all my friends just simply went to the mall or went to watch a movie.
I never did any of that.
So a lot of the times when people were out partying, learning how to interact
with women, learning how to interact with.
I did not get any of that sort of interaction.
I didn't learn any of that sort of stuff when I probably should have, right.
When I was early teens, late teens, none of that happened.
It wasn't until I started noticing that a lot of the problems I was having with
women might be because of this lack of isolation, especially looking at it in
hindsight, not going out, not partying at all, really hinders your social skills.
So I would have all these interactions with women where I
would get constantly rejected.
I was always being the nice guy, because again, I didn't know what sort
of what women like what they didn't, because I didn't get to interact with
them that much because I was always.
So over time, I would have this nice guy syndrome where I would
go out of my way to help women.
I would even sneak out of my house to do stuff with them and help them and listen
to their stories and all that, just to try to get closer to them whenever I could.
And of course this was never reciprocated.
It was never appreciated and was never there was no attraction
there from the women's side ever.
And it was always just constant rejection after rejection.
It was always getting turned away and so eventually.
I felt like I'd had enough to the point where it actually, during my senior
year of high school, it got to such a low that, I asked my parents had begged
and pleaded for me to go to prom.
I finally got to go to prom.
I asked somebody and they, she said, yes no idea.
And the group that I was with, I was such a loser and they looked down on
me so much that they actually dished me in the middle of a McDonald's
parking lot and went to prompts.
So I never made it to my high school prom.
I got dish to McDonald's parking lot.
Imagine a kid who's sitting in a full tux in the middle of McDonald's,
it's an absolutely ridiculous site.
And so that was the lowest of the low in high school.
And I thought that sort of stuff would never happen again.
Shortly after that is when I start started Googling how to make women like
you, how do you get women to like you?
What do women want?
All the sort of stuff.
I just furiously Google.
I fell down the rabbit hole of, learning a bunch of stuff about
pickup, female psychology dating.
I felt, I found, for forums where guys will be talking about women, talking
about pickup, all this sort of stuff.
And I just got super into it.
I absorbed all the knowledge I could.
Bleeding into college.
I got a lot better at talking to women.
I started going out, going in, approaching women, constantly not giving
any, no, not caring at all about what happened, whether I got rejected or not,
because I'd already hit rock bottom.
So a lot of times you just need to hit rock bottom before you can get any.
And I hit that.
So I started going up approaching constantly learning what it is women
want and what they responded to.
Got better at, using more emotion.
I got more in phatic, I was a little more bore, a little boring, a little
bit on the boring side before then.
And so through this journey, I learned how to talk to women in a way that
they actually want it to be spoken to.
And as I got better at talking to women, I had a lot more adventures with them.
A lot more.
A lot more fun and I morphed into the asshole, I become a lot more of an asshole
towards women, towards people in general, because I learned to put myself first,
but I went too far to the other extreme and then something that you're gonna find
if you're going through this nice guy journey, something that a lot of guys
go through and they start off way too.
Nice.
I definitely started off way too.
Nice.
Went to way to almost mean I became an asshole, put myself first before anybody
else, and didn't really care for it.
Until the point where that sort of blew up in my face.
A lot of times, girls would call me out for being, just an
asshole, not calling them back.
Having completely disregard a lot of disregard for them.
And then I sorta tempered myself and came back to the middle where
I was putting myself first, but I wasn't an asshole about it.
I wasn't too nice to the guy.
I was just the guy who was standing his ground.
So it took a while.
It took years for me to find that middle ground, but I had to go
through that journey through a lot of sexless nights, loneliness.
A lot of, trials, a lot of, just getting rejected by women over and
over, going out and learning, gain, learning how to talk to them and pick
up women enter relationships with women.
And I think if I didn't go through all that and work on myself so much
through those years, also, that included stuff like learning how to
meditate, learning, how to get, how to self-improvement other areas,
bettering my mental state, all that.
If I didn't do all that I wouldn't have eventually met my wife and my
wife had met her a few years ago.
I was just partying on a rooftop bar and she was.
And through the practice that I, accumulated talking to women and going
up to approaching them, I approached her at the bar and we became inseparable
ever since she was an awesome woman.
I hadn't really met women like her.
She is awesome, super maternal, super affectionate super supportive.
And we hit it off and all the practice and training, so to speak that I'd been in.
With women through the past years that I've been doing, going out and dating
and approaching women, I was able to apply and be the best version of myself I
could be for the woman who's now my wife.
So I think it's super important that I went through that.
And this is how, this is why I hope.
Through this journey now as well, because I have all this knowledge, I have all
this experience that I can hope guys w with it as well, and I can help them
become the best version of themselves through learning how to interact with
women, through learning how to be the best men that they can, the most attractive
men they can for their future wives.
I truly think if I didn't go through.
Learning how to do pickup, learning, how to do game.
If I didn't go through the red pill stuff, I wouldn't be the man I am today.
Who's able to actually, be with on the further long-term knowing how to please
women and one woman in specific and being, and having that ability in general.
That, that was my story.
In a nutshell, I went from a pretty awkward guy who didn't go
out because I was shut, shut in.
To being a player and now to being happily married, using everything that
I learned along the way, everything from, the inner game concepts of how
to be a more resilient, stoic having that masculinity, having that alpha
edge to me that is that's something that I would not have recognized in me.
Had you asked me those many years ago, so it takes a lot of effort.
It took a lot of effort for me to learn all this, and this is what
I'd like to help guys with today.
So hopefully that shed some light into sort of who I am,
my sort of journey and my.
That I came with or that I came, that I come here with now.
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That's why I'm gonna continue to make videos and help guys with all
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So with that hope this video shed some light on me and my journey.
And this is Coach Mossab peacing out till next time.