In this video, you’re going to learn 9 sneaky tricks that will make your ex come back to
you.
So if you’re cool with employing little mind games on your ex to make him or her yearn
for your love and attention again, then do not go ANYWHERE… because in the next few
minutes, you’re going to learn EXACTLY what to do to make this a reality.
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My name is Brad Browning.
I’m YouTube’s #1 breakup and marriage expert… and I’ve been teaching men and
women around the world how to mend their broken relationships for over 10 years.
And I’ve been pretty good at it.
In fact, I’ve written two best-selling programs on those very topics.
One of them is a complete, simple, step-by-step guide on getting your ex back.
So if you’re interested in a comprehensive guide to getting your ex to come crawling
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Okay, so in this video I’m going to cover the top 9 psychological tactics to make your
ex wish that they never broke up with you.
It’s taken me years and years of research to actually come up with a solid list like
this, so PAY ATTENTION because this might be one of the most important videos that you’ll
ever watch on this topic.
So let’s just jump right into it!
“Sneaky” tip number one…
use the law of pre-selection to your advantage.
Have you ever heard of pre-selection?
I’ve talked about this concept a few times in some older videos, but it’s an important
psychological trick that you should be employing as soon as possible.
And make a mental note, because this works even if you’re single and you’re looking
for a potential partner… so in the event that you don’t want your ex back, keep this
tip in the back of your mind.
The law of pre-selection states that the more a person is highly sought after by the opposite
sex, the more desirable they become to them.
It’s, in essence, a positive feedback loop.
So the more people you attract, the more likely you will attract even MORE singles… and
your ex is no exception.
Maybe you’ve observed this phenomenon in your life – maybe a bunch of your friends
began crushing on this one guy or girl at your work… and even though they might not
be your type, the fact that your friends are clamouring over this one person makes them
seem a bit more appealing, right?
There are a multitude of ways to showcase pre-selection, but one of the best ways is
through word of mouth.
Here… try this little sneaky tactic on for size…
Think about a very chatty and “gossipy” mutual friend that you share with your ex,
and ask him or her out for coffee.
Then come up with a story about how there are two girls or guys that are just constantly
asking you out on dates… but come up with an entertaining story so that it’s totally
memorable.
You’re banking on the fact that this chatty friend is going to blab to your ex about all
the gossip that they just heard.
And once your ex gets wind of how highly sought after you are, they’re going to be second
questioning their decision to break up with you in no time.
Like I said, pre-selection is something that is highly effective for even single people
as well – so if for whatever reason, you decide to NOT get back together with your
ex, then using this sneaky, psychological tactic for your dating life will work like
a charm!
Okay, sneaky tactic number 2… cause massive amounts of “FOMO” inside your ex’s mind.
Ever heard of FOMO?
It’s an acronym for “Fear of Missing Out”.
And it’s a pretty powerful psychological phenomenon in this day and age.
Ever see pictures on your friend’s Instagram of an amazing party or crazy travelling adventure?
Ever get that feeling that you just NEED to join them?
The next time they ask you out for an adventure, chances are you’re going to say yes because
you’ll have a “Fear of Missing Out” on the experience!
You can induce this sort of feeling inside your ex’s mind quite easily… all you have
to do is showcase to the world that you’re living the best life possible… and you can
do this by showing off some pictures on your Instagram, Facebook, or Snapchat.
You don’t even have to book a crazy overseas trip to Singapore, too… you can just show
videos and pictures from an incredible hike you did, or a cozy camping trip you did with
a few friends.
Once your ex sees how much fun you’re having, you’re going to induce massive amounts of
FOMO inside his or her mind… and it’ll only be a matter of time before they start
messaging YOU and asking you to hang out again.
Alright, sneaky tip #3… use jealousy to your advantage!
I know, this one is a bit manipulative, but using jealousy is one of the most effective
ways to get your ex back.
In my program, The Ex Factor Guide, I share dozens of jealousy-inducing tips that are
guaranteed to make your ex want to come crawling back to you in no time.
But today, I’m only going to cover one ESPECIALLY useful tactic… and I call it the “Jealousy
Text”.
Now, before you send this text, I have to warn you that you can’t simply send this
text out of the blue and expect it to work.
There is a certain time and place that’s appropriate to send this text… and if you
send this text at the WRONG time, you could be sabotaging your chances of getting back
together with them.
If you’ve been watching my videos here on YouTube, then you know that the No Contact
rule is extremely important… so if you DO send this text, you’re going to want to
send it after 30 days of No Contact (at the very least).
Even then, you’re going to want to psychologically prime your ex for this powerful text.
For more information on how to do this to your ex, just head on over to BreakupBrad.com
and watch that free video presentation.
Again, that’s BreakupBrad.com and you can watch that free presentation RIGHT after this
video ends.
Okay, so to better explain this text message, let’s jump right into an example.
You could say something like…
“Hey!
What was the name of that cute pottery shop we went to last summer?
The one with the purple teapots.
I want to take a friend there tomorrow night!”
Here’s another quick example…
“Hey, remember that cute Greek restaurant that we went to for New Years?
What was the name of that restaurant again?
I want to take a friend there this weekend!”
And that’s pretty much it.
Don’t be too specific… that is, don’t say that you’re taking someone as a date.
Leave your ex wondering WHO you’re taking and what your intentions are with them.
If you prime your ex correctly, their minds will be RACING with thoughts of losing you
to another person, and they’ll start getting CRAZY jealous.
I promise you!
So if you’re interested in how to use this tactic properly, again, just head on over
to BreakupBrad.com and watch that free presentation as soon as you finish this video!
Sneaky tip #4… focus on self-improvement.
I know, this isn’t so much a sneaky psychological tactic on your ex… but it IS a sneaky psychological
tactic on YOURSELF!
Self-improvement takes form in many ways, but one of the absolute best forms of self-improvement
is to hit the gym.
Not only will you look way sexier (which will obviously help re-attract your ex into your
life), but working out actually releases a ton of “feel good” hormones inside your
body.
If you’ve been following my advice on YouTube, then you’ll know that getting your ex back
isn’t just about “faking it until you make it.”
I actually help you to assume the perspective of a highly confident and attractive person,
and working out is absolutely one of the best ways to achieve this goal for a multitude
of reasons.
So instead of staying home alone, go out for a run or hit the weights!
You’ll be glad you did.
Sneaky tip #5… use “reverse psychology” on your ex.
Now this tip might not be useful for you if you talking with your ex.
But if you are, using reverse psychology on your ex can prove very useful.
But again, like with all of my tips, you have to proceed with caution and make sure you’re
using this advice properly and at the right time… but if you use this tactic correctly,
it can have a very powerful effect!
So for example, you could say something to your ex along the lines of…
“You know what, I think it’s good that we broke up…
I think we really needed this time apart.”
Or how about something like…
“I think breaking up has allowed me to focus more on myself.
I think this will be good for me.”
Something subtle like this can send a very sneaky message to your ex that you’ve moved
on, and force your ex to constantly wonder why your feelings have changed so dramatically.
Sometimes, giving your ex this sense of “loss” can be enough to kick them back into gear
and force them to start chasing you again like a dog on raw meat.
But again, I have to caution you that you need to do this properly – if you’re unsure
about your current situation, then maybe you would benefit from some old-fashioned personal
coaching with ME, Brad Browning.
For more information on how you can sign up for my email coaching program, just head on
over to BreakupBrad.com/coaching.
That’s BreakupBrad.com/coaching… and on that page, I’ll fill you in on exactly how
you can get personalized advice from ME, the “ex back geek”.
And did I mention that it’s super affordable?
It’s about the price of a cup of coffee a DAY!
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So head on over after this video and check out that page.
Sneaky tip #6 – refuse your ex sometimes and learn to say no.
Again, for this to work, you need to be on talking-terms with your ex.
For more on how to get to that stage, subscribe to my channel and be sure to watch all the
other videos on how to open the lines of communication with him or her.
One of the biggest mistakes people make when trying to get their ex back is that they become
far too agreeable.
They’ll roll over and do whatever their ex asks of them, no matter the circumstance.
This is low “social-value” behaviour and it will only push your ex further and further
away.
Instead, learn to say “NO” to your ex – by doing so, you’ll show your ex that
you’re independent and that you have a backbone.
People are scientifically attracted to these characteristics, so once your ex sees that
you’re sticking up for what you want, you will become a lot more attractive to him or
her… don’t be surprised if your ex begins texting you more, wanting to spend time with
you more, and feeling desperate to see you all…the…time!
Which brings me to my next sneaky, psychological trick…
Number 8… always appear positive and happy.
The WORST thing someone can do after a breakup is to start moping and crying in front of
everyone they know… and it’s especially annoying if they talk about it on social media.
Don’t be one of those people.
Not only is it incredibly annoying to people, but it’s also incredibly unattractive to
your ex!
Now, it’s okay to be sad in this situation.
You’re allowed to cry.
You’re allowed to feel depressed, angry, and bitter about the breakup… but it’s
never wise to broadcast these negative emotions to the world.
Doing so will not solve any of your problems and you’ll appear pathetic and weak.
BUT…
If you’ve already done this, then have no fear because there ARE work arounds.
What you need to do is start posting happy, positive, and even funny things on your social
media… even if you ARE feeling like a giant bag of dicks.
Remember, people are sexually attracted to VIBRANT, HAPPY, and POSITIVE people.
Nobody wants to be with someone who is whining, crying, and complaining 24/7, right?
So instead, try and put yourself in a better, happier mindset.
Not only will you feel better about yourself, but once your ex sees how happy YOU are, they’ll
be crawling back to you for MORE in next to no time at all!
And finally, sneaky psychological tip #9… take my free quiz tool on my website.
Just head on over to BreakupBrad.com/quiz… that’s BreakupBrad.com/quiz and take my
free assessment.
It only takes a few minutes to complete and it will generate a score that will determine
your chances of getting back together with your ex.
And based on HOW you answer these questions… you’ll be given a PERSONALIZED list of psychological
tips and tricks you can use on your ex right now to make them wish, want, and need you
more intensely than ever.
Yeah, I know, this “tip” isn’t really so much a sneaky tip in itself, but it’ll
help you come up with even MORE covert and powerful techniques that you can use TODAY
on your ex.
So if you’re curious about what that quiz might say about YOUR current situation, just
head on over to BreakupBrad.com/quiz and take that free quiz.
Alright, there you have it… 9 sneaky, psychological tactics that you can use on your ex to make
them want you back.
Now, if you have any questions or comments, just leave them in the comments section below
and I’ll do my very best to get back to you… and please mash that like button before
you go.
Talk to you guys soon!