- In this video I will share with you
three most common reasons why is he ignoring you.
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So ladies, let's get on with it.
The first reason why a man might be ignoring you
is the most obvious one.
Let's start with the most obvious one.
He is just not that interested in you, right?
We all understand that.
There is is nothing else to explain, right?
He is just not that into you.
He's not that interested in you,
so when you're texting him first,
or when you respond to his message,
and he leaves you hanging, or ghosts you,
it's just simply because he is not interested in you.
Now, how to gain his interest is do not chase him.
Do not go after him.
Don't try to prove yourself.
Don't try to prove your value and worth.
Don't try and make him laugh.
Don't try and impress him,
because by doing that, you will come across as a pursuer.
The more you pursue a man,
the more you reduce your own value and worth,
and you turn him off, why?
Because when you're doing that,
you come across as very masculine,
because you're using your masculine energy to pursue a man,
and this is not what men are attracted to,
so you automatically turn him off.
Therefore, if he is not texting you,
if he's not chasing, not pursuing you,
just leave him to it.
Give him time and space, and after a while,
then you show him that you're not that bothered,
he's gonna get intrigued.
Why is she not bothered?
What is she up to?
Maybe she's talking to someone else,
maybe she's dating someone else,
and that is when he is most likely turn around
and start pursue you again.
If he doesn't do that even then,
then he is definitely not interested in you,
and just let him go.
In any case, ladies, when the guy is not pursuing you,
it's the best to keep you options opened,
and don't put all your eggs into one basket anyway.
So, the reason number two why he is ignoring you is:
he is pulling away.
There could be a number of reasons why is he pulling away.
The key is not to freak out or panic,
because it's a natural need for a man to pull away.
And in this video, I will share one of the reasons
why men pull away, but if you want to find out the rest,
please follow the link right here.
I have many videos on pull aways.
The most common one why men pull away
is after you have bonded or had a deep conversation,
or had a wonderful, loving time together,
because after this, this is when you are the most attached,
so you want to spend even more time with him.
You get really clingy and you're like where are you going?
I thought you loved me.
Whereas him, when he had the loving time together,
the first thing he needs is space.
He needs his space to charge his battery.
So, as I said in my previous video examples before
is when you are spending time with a guy,
he's like a phone, so his battery starts to go down, right?
And the more loving time you have,
oxytocin, which is also called a love hormone,
and it's released through spending lots
of loving time together,
brings a guy's testosterone levels down.
So he's like a battery when you're having
a lot of loving time together, he's like a battery.
His testosterone is going down, right?
So when you had really a lot of loving time together,
his testosterone is really down and his battery is tiny,
and what he needs to do is he needs to pull away from you
to recharge his battery, to bring his testosterone levels
back up with no loving time together.
If he's ignoring you after you had a loving time together,
leave him to it.
Don't be needy, don't cheat, don't be loving,
don't be too nice, just leave him to it
to recharge his testosterone levels,
to recharge his battery.
Once he recharges it, he will be back to you,
kissing you stronger than before in no time, okay?
Again, ladies, watch my video, "Why Men Need to Pull Away,"
just by following the link right here.
The third reason why a man might be ignoring you
is game-playing, 'cause guys,
a lot of guys like to play games.
Same with girls, too, actually.
Everybody does, majority of people do.
So, a lot of times, a guy will not text you or pursue you
because he's playing a power game
and is wanting you to text him or is waiting.
Will you chase him or will you pursue him
when he doesn't do that?
If you feel like that might be the case,
and he's throwing a power game on you by not pursuing you,
by trying to make you insecure,
showing that he's may not be that interested,
so you would chase him, ladies, do not chase the guy, okay?
Just don't pursue him,
especially when he is playing power games on you.
The worst thing that you can do is pursue him
when he's playing a power game, because what you're doing,
you're rewarding his negative behavior.
You're rewarding his game.
You're telling him if you're going play a power game on me,
I will pursue you, therefore, your game works.
If he sees that his game works, guess what he's gonna do?
He's gonna play more games on you.
And obviously, you don't want that.
So what you do instead if he's playing power games on you
where he wants you to pursue him, just do not pursue him.
Show him that your game is not working,
and if you want to get in touch with me,
if you want to talk to me,
I have better things to do than to pursue you,
so you come to me when you're ready to come to me.
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