welcome to the dark side so you clicked on this video for one of these three reasons
i said it in my previous video above one you wanna know how to gaslight someone
two you wanna know what gaslighting looks like and three you wanna know if you're being
now i started this series i will link it below of how sometimes you must visit the dark side
you can't really know if you're being gaslighted if you don't look through the eyes of a gas slider
so i'm going to take you through the 20 most common phrases a gas slider will tell you
so let's see how gaslighter thinks like
interested of course in the beloved memory of the ultimate gaslighter i decided to wear this
he is a big applause for the person that made gaslighting a trending term in 2018
that made gaslighting the most popular term out there uh in the oxford dictionary thanks to you
mr ex-president now we know what gaslighting is and some of us get to feel a little less crazy so
let's start i've done this i've done a previous video on how to gaslight someone and the tactics
but i've also done a video on jeffrey epstein and larry nasser because i believe that like
i said we must visit the dark side in order to find some light so gaslighting number one
is create an addict now there are many ways to do that check out my video above
but you can't go to someone and say that they're crazy and that they're losing their mind because
you're gonna you're gonna turn up as a crazy one and you can't tell someone that what they
remember is false because you haven't laid those seeds of doubt it's all about patience
gaslighters now for those who are asking or saying olympia why would you teach someone to gaslight
well my beloved victims gaslighters already know these things so it's not like i'm teaching you
guys anything new but for those who are being gaslighted this may be an eye-opening video
actually it will be an eye-opening video because you will be surprised of how many common phrases
gaslighters have in common how do we gaslight people first of all you make them feel crazy
second of all you trivialize their feelings you make them think that they're not important
that they are overreacting that they are making things up the most crucial the crux of gaslighting
selective memory you're going to have to learn like i say to lie lie and deny deny
you're gonna have to learn to twist manipulate the truth to your advantage and the more that
that you take them out of their reality by isolating them from their friends and family
the more they can you can immerse them into your reality in the off chance that the victim
does confront you you have to act ignorant you don't remember what they're saying is not true
why would you say that so we pledge allegiance to the gaslighter club by memorizing the following
anthem phrase number one if you are paying attention so the victim tells you something
and we automatically need to invalidate what they're saying so we kind of bring up a moment
that they weren't paying attention or something that they forgot to do in order to validate our
point and then we use that one mistake or two or three that a person did we're all people um to uh
to be able to say the phrase if you were paying attention and that makes the other person doubt
number two just like the first one if you were listening this makes the victim think that they
miss something that they don't remember something correctly that they misinterpret
something and then that's when you can get them into believing your reality instead of theirs
falling into the category of selective memory and distorting the truth we talked about this
don't you remember so if your victim decides to talk about something that an issue that you've
been having so for example one time the victim got angry about the fact that you raised your voice
and um how you need to treat the person better and you in your mind are going to convince the victim
that you are to resolve this issue you already talked about this remember follow this up with
the following phrase and you're golden i guess i have to repeat myself since you don't remember
like i said gaslighting is all about patience it's about laying the groundwork
so in order for them to believe you even further and make them feel even more crazy and get your
way you have to be able to repeat the same thing over and over again until you convince them you
always jump to the wrong conclusion what'd i say the crux was for gaslighting denial denial denial
so you have to convince that person that they've come to the wrong conclusion that what they're
saying is not true and you have to lie yourself way through it until they actually believe it
number six you're gonna have to learn to communicate better gaslighters are masters we
are masters of projection if we don't know how to communicate if we don't want to communicate we're
gonna throw it on you we're gonna say that you're the one that doesn't know how to communicate
phrase number seven you're being irrational now this one really strict strikes a chord when i was
being gaslighted going back into my gaslighting persona your being irrational makes the person
feel self-conscious self-doubt especially people the people that are more susceptible
to gaslighting are people-pleasers are people that are very empathetic phrase number eight you are
overreacting now this one is a big popular term in the gaslighter club we use that all the time
you're overreacting because what better way to shut a person's opinions and feelings by telling
them that they're overreacting phrase number nine you are oversensitive now this makes sense because
people that are susceptible at gaslighting are people that are very in touch with their feelings
with the way they communicate with others and calling them so they know they're sensitive
but calling them oversensitive invalidates whatever feelings they may have i think we're
on phrase number 10. you're too emotional now this falls under the over you're over
sensitive you're too sensitive you're rational it pretty much falls under the same category
but you're too emotional again people these people your gaslighting are very well in tune with their
feelings which is why they're very susceptible to feeling insane you can't take a joke gaslighters
are masters at negging check out my video above if you know what if you want to know what nagging is
they will find a flaw in insecurity and they will grasp onto that and they know that you feel
insecure about this and they will make fun of you and they will say something that may be hurtful
in general too so when we do that then we just throw in you can't take a joke and again you make
the victim feel like they're being oversensitive the phrases kind of feed into each other that's
the beauty you're so thin skinned this is the same as oversensitive so basically toughen up it's not
my fault that you're feeling like crap now this is part of the deflection this is part of taking
the victim's mind out of what you're about to do and that is can you hear yourself
so the moment the victim starts going on a rant and you don't know what to do you just throw
in can you hear yourself and then the victim will stop and be like wow am i over sensitive
overreacting thin skin see how beautiful that is phrase number stop taking everything so seriously
this is part of being the over sensitive part you understand how us gaslighters are feeding off the
same words but different variations stop taking everything so seriously it's kind of like the stop
um can't you take a joke the other one a very popular one i criticize you because i like you
now i know uh for us gaslighter that makes no effing sense it's the classic you know the one
the the lie we've been talked into kindergarten so the boy that uh pulls on your pigtails actually
likes you you or the girl that bullies you actually likes you that's where it feeds off
on that childhood memory on that childhood idea that the only reason they're being mean to us is
because well excuse me the only reason we're being mean to you is because we like you you're reading
way too much into this so if your victim is going into very much detail about something you said
something that that hurt them uh just throw out your what you're reading way too much into this
and they might stop let it go and you're off the hook one of my personal favorites the best
way to avoid an argument and make the person feel irrational is i'm not arguing i'm discussing
this is where us gaslighters kind of get on top kind of get take take the high ground the fact
that we're not arguing we're discussing we're much more mature so now that we've visited the dark
side i've been gaslighted by quite a few people so i've learned to identify the signs and i do hope
these phrases kind of wake you up and and when you hear them you get into this train of thought of
maybe i'm being gaslighted because gaslighting is a very severe type of emotional abuse
and it if it's done long term it can take years of therapy just to understand what is reality
and be able to trust your own memory your own feelings and your own intuition it's very effed up
so please let me know in the comments below if you've ever been told one of these 20 phrases
i would love to know which one feel free to share your story if you want and like i said sometimes
you have to visit the dark side in order to see what's going on on the other side now don't forget
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