this video will show you three signs that you must decrease importance in
order to attract what you want I think this is the game-changer for a lot of
people it's changed my life and I want to show you how to do that
welcome back to another video my name is Erin and I help people expand their
consciousness now in this video I'm gonna be sharing with you those three
things the three signs that it is time for you to decrease importance and how
that can totally revolutionize the kind of results that you're getting now this
is a reality Tran surfing idea maybe maybe if you've heard me talk about
reality Tran surfing and basically in a nutshell what it is it's the powerful
process manifestation process and more so just a philosophy like a wave for
seeing the world and it came from a book called reality trans earthing by vadim
zealand who is a quantum physicist in russia now it's been translated to
english and it's um a lot of people come and understand and it has to do with
understanding a couple key principles one is that there's an infinite number
of parallel realities that exist and that what you want to experience already
exists so it's not so much about trying to get that to come over here it's more
so about embodying the feeling and embodying that version of you now in
order to experience what you want now there's a couple key principles one
setting intention so when you simply set more intentions you'll experience more
what you want your life tensions are the direction of which parallel realities
you experience there's another part called pendulums pendulums are these
thought structures anytime we think thoughts there are electromagnetic type
reality to those thoughts even if we can't actually see it so when we're
thinking about certain things we're creating thought structures about it now
think about it also any time we're consistently thinking of something with
momentum we begin to create more and more of that momentum therefore bringing
that more so in our perceptual range so that's why well your focus is so
powerful and when you learn how to really focus in a powerful way or you
learn how to focus from a conscious way things can change in a very powerful way
now another part of reality Tran surfing is this idea of decreasing importance
this is the game changer for me this is the game to
that when I share on the channel people say it's really changed their life and
it's understanding that we must balance out the energy or they'll be balancing
factors that come out that balance off the energy for us and this is normally
in a way that we don't prefer so this is when we are giving anything what is
called excess meaning what that means is that anytime you want something really
bad you're also saying I currently don't have this now at the same time when you
make something really really important you put it on a pedestal and you
immediately can't connect to it as much when you put it on a pedestal you create
this resistance you create it to where it's something that you don't actually
perceive up because metaphorically speaking there are these balancing
factors that come into play that make it so that that balance is out so the key
is we must do and have what is called a balance of coordination we must be aware
of how something feels and by being aware of how something feels and the way
that we're viewing it we can then see him we'd be like yo I got switched up my
mindset a little bit about this and if we do that a lot begins to change so
these three signs are things that I've noticed in my own life and even if this
is just a couple days and I think that you can relate to some of these so the
first one has to do with simply seriousness how serious are you making
your manifestation and how serious are you taking yourselves yourself and the
reason I say this is because I realize this the other day now I have been in
this new spot for about a week now and I realized that even in the last you know
since I moved in here I just pretty much get up every day I make videos and I
kind of in a way just grind it out like I have a very strong work ethic I love
what I do so it's not like I have to feel like oh how good it is I have to go
do this however I find that I become a little bit too immersed in what I do
sometimes in the sense that I become very I don't know like I'm just always
trying to get to the next place I'm always trying to progress the website
progress this progress that progress and it makes me feel sometimes like there's
a certain sense of seriousness that comes with it and I had to remind myself
because I was feeling resistance maybe like two three days ago and I realized
that unless I got into check something else would happen
that would make me have to get it in check now this happens to me like for
example I haven't been sick in about four or five years except for a little
bit of congestion and what happens is when I start to become aware of that
congestion that is my body signal telling me hey you need to get back into
being present to the moment you need to relax that's the way I interpret it
because that's the meaning I give it so because of that what I've learned to do
is how to have that body awareness so I'm not sick however I do start to get
congested from time to time maybe you could hear it I sound a tad bit
congested and that's simply because it's my body telling me hey loosen up relax
it doesn't have to be so serious and that's my interpretation at least that's
the way that I use it but by me becoming aware of that guess what I'm grateful
because then I can focus on what really matters which is also enjoying life you
know sometimes we put these things on a pedestal like yeah on a pedestal but we
also say and give so much meaning we say when that happens I will feel a certain
way when really we have to enjoy the journey at the same time so this is
always a reminder for me to enjoy the journey so sometimes I'll go out to eat
at a nice place or I'll go hang out with friends or I'll go do something like
swim in a pool or go to the gym and just relax at the gym like there's a sauna
and there's like things you know light outside by the pool because it's sunny
here in Vegas so those are some things that I can do but also to just have fun
just to laugh you know that's something else too I remember one of the funnest
trips that I had I went with Victor my buddy Victor odo which a lot of you guys
know and we went to Costa Rica we went to a place called arrhythmia and when
one are there it was like we weren't you know we didn't we weren't grinding out
to make videos we weren't like there was no specific schedule of what exactly we
had to do and we just enjoyed ourselves and it was one of the funnest trips I've
ever had because we literally just laughed the whole time it was like we
were able to like kind of just be ourselves in a completely different way
away from like the business side of us which is like let's do this how we're
gonna help people do this you know the business and the adding value side you
know we so many videos why were there a couple here and there but it was like so
much of a different energy and it was so light it was so fun
and what do it sometimes I I intend to like get
intention as powerful I intend to get back to that state to where it's just
loose it's just fun just like you know laugh about it if you find yourself
taking it too serious then what happens is you're creating it and making it more
important than it has to be and that's where resistance is created so part of
even when it says in the book is that anytime we take things too seriously
that that a lot of times means that we're giving an excess importance so the
key is to have a better sense of humor about it to just kind of joke around but
let it be fun you know sometimes I look and I think it's funny the way that I'm
so focused on what I do and it can be a good thing that's for sure you know it's
just that I've been rewarded for like the hard work I put into what I do
because that's what made me go from working a nine-to-five job at in joy to
doing YouTube full-time so I'm kind of like always keep that you always keep
that kind of perspective but the key I'm finding is it's less about the
seriousness and it's more about the feeling so how do you feel you know it's
funny because as I get and I increase my state of being things happen better
anyways I know sometimes if I against a website Victor knows this too anytime
there's a website issue or we can't figure out how to do something how to
move something over technical wise the more you fight it the more the more
resistance you create with it you're not going to figure out the answer but if
you go to the gym or if you go outside and lay out for a little bit or if you
just go relax for a little bit and you come back to it you figure it out really
easily it's the funniest thing it's almost like you allow that resistance to
go away which is manifesting itself with not figuring stuff out and then all the
sudden guess what you can figure stuff out so are you making things more
important than they have to be and are you being very serious about it you know
sometimes that people like how do I attract this how do I track this very
serious type 5 and a lot of times my answer is just to loosen up about it be
cool if it happens but also be cool of you just be present in the moment
because you know it's gonna eventually happen so that's something that's really
made me become more aware of how I can decrease importance and it's changed my
life in a powerful way all right now the second sign that it is time to decrease
importance is the most obvious one and that is that you feel resistance now
resistance is like a negative feeling that we have and there's really two type
of inner and outer importance or is really two type of importance
in general one is inner importance the other is outer importance any time we
give something inner importance within ourselves meaning that we think that we
are maybe better than other people or maybe we think that we're not like we're
underneath other people that's creating polarization of either inner importance
or outer importance of that's creating it whether it's us feeling better or
worse than other people that's creating polarization which creates an imbalance
of the inner intention and the inner importance now our importance is anytime
we make something outside of us more important than it has to be now this is
the most common one when it comes to making it important that you attract
someone into your life make it a very important that you attract money into
your life or any type of object that we give excess median or excess importance
two balancing factors come into play that neutralize that energy so what this
means is that what we must do is become aware of this inner and outer importance
that we're giving things because that creates resistance how do you feel with
this you know this let me give a couple examples one example could be that you
just got a new car and you make it very very important that everything about it
stays very clean and things are always happening to where it's like you can
protect it because you really really value it the thing is is if you really
really value it and you make it more important than it has to be many times
you may manifest something happening it could be a little like a car ding
something dings your car it could be that you go to clean it and something
happens to where I like it something breaks it could be so many different
things because they're giving you an excess meaning with that excess
potential the probability of that energy state is that something can manifest for
it to go the wrong way so it could be also that you create resistance with the
relationship you say here's where I am right now I want to be in a relationship
I want somebody to love me and because you have that intention what happens is
you're also saying in the present moment I don't currently have what I want and
in an energetic state of being you may also be saying that I'm not worthy
because you are feeling that you need someone else that creates something
called dependence outer independence you create dependence on something else
happening and if that thing doesn't happen then
you can't feel happy but that's making a rule to yourself and that's making it so
that you have to things have to fill into a slot in order for things to
happen for you and the thing is is that's outside of you that's not
something you can't control so instead you must understand the
energy from which you're coming from a lot of times when people ask me
questions on YouTube whether it's DMS and Instagram they're asking me
questions about how can they do certain things whether it's a track someone
interrupts their live and I always pay attention to where is that energy coming
from because if the energy is coming from a place of lack or it's coming from
a place of not already having then the thing is is even if you get that thing
you may not actually be happy and if you do get that thing you may become
dependent on it and create resistance around it to where then things don't
happen for you anyways because of that energy state that you're in so this is
why it's about becoming aware of where that energy is coming from now an
important part of this is just to simply start to tap into the feeling more so
than the intellectual ideas that's something this channel is moving in the
direction of it's more so understanding how to let go of all of the intellectual
ideas and how to do all of this like psychology part of it it's more so about
how can you just get to the energy state because in the energy state is where
things happen much more smooth anyways so with that being said don't make it a
rule that the outer reality has to have certain variables in order for you to
feel a certain way start to realize that instead what you can do is focus on your
state of being and if you feel that resistance simply start to let go more
now how do you let go you let go by not identifying with what is happening by
observing it rather than reacting to it by letting it be and by surrendering
this is so counterintuitive you know there's inner intention which
is the ability to take action the will to do certain things but then there's
something called outer intention and outer intention is when you surrender to
the process you must have both you can't just action action action action action
without actually surrendering understanding that the how does not have
to be completely figured out by the ego mind you can allow in a way
quote-unquote the universe to manifest it for you in the same way you may be
intending to manifest someone into your life and a certain level they are
intending to manifest to you so that's part of our intention this goes beyond
just your inner intention and it helps you understand more of it from an
energetic point of view now the third sign that you are must decrease
importance in order to attract what you want has to do with how comfortable do
your goals feel now this is one of the biggest game changers when you're
studying reality transfer phim is understanding the feeling aspect of it
but what are your goals and if your goals make you feel uncomfortable to the
sense that it's something that maybe is more so connected to the mind like the
mind likes the idea of money right money is like Oh money Eagles freedom money
equals the ability to do what I want but you see the heart does not connect to
that in the same way the heart connects to feeling the heart connects to emotion
the heart connects to passion so what you can begin to do is to moreso focus
on how you can get to that energy state and how you can have the right goals
because if you don't have the right goals you will be making things more
important than they have to be by default so the goals must be connected
to a feeling of something you can tap into so for example for me versus money
and me saying oh I want to create X amount of money per month or per year I
focus on what I could be doing in the sense of what makes me feel a certain
way the money doesn't necessarily make me feel a certain way in the same way
that me doing my passion part of the journey is for me so I am I told you
guys this before but mine and the way that I view it is going into and
speaking in front of a lot of people and going to traveling the world and being
able to eat at amazing restaurants that to me is much more exciting than just
that of the idea of the money itself so I could tap into that feeling more and
by tapping into that feeling I can see it as something that is almost
comfortable for me so what you want to do is you want to moreso make your goals
comfortable now this goes against some of the 10x rule and some of the things
that we learn but this is the idea you set the goal that it's maybe
outside your comfort zone for a while but what you do is you start to see that
as comfortable for you and your self-image changes as well the only time
that remains uncomfortable is if you don't change your self-image with that
of your goal so for example if you were currently making twenty thousand dollars
a year and you're like hey I want to make fifty thousand dollars a year
well you must do is see yourself have your self-image as somebody that simply
makes fifty thousand dollars a year unless you change your self-image
subconsciously you'll always go back to default so start to see it as natural
for you to be somebody that makes 50k a year start to see it as that but
remember don't make it just about the money make it about what you could be
doing something that you're passionate about to where you can tap into that
feeling because that feeling is what's more so powerful than just the idea of
some symbolic representation of what money means so tap into the feeling and
understand that as you tap into the feeling see it as comfortable for that
to be a part of who you are and it goes more so instead of just stepping outside
your comfort zone you're expanding your comfort zone when you expand it your
self-image comes with it so for me for example I see it as natural for me to be
traveling to be speaking because I already do it on YouTube
I already speak on YouTube I already speak in front of many people on YouTube
what's the difference between that and do it in a person well because I can see
that's more so natural it's something that's already happened you know I
already gave a talk in LA it's something that will be happening more in the
future so it's something I can more so tap into so it's kind of a cool
perspective but expand your comfort zone see it as comfortable for you and by
doing that you're a decrease in importance because your self-image is
coming along with it as well now everything I'm talking about right now
all of this stuff is about decreasing importance I've created a free
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all you have to do is let go of making things so serious have fun with the
process make it more about the feeling let go of the resistance by
letting go of identification and then make your goal something that's natural
for you because it's part of your self-image and it's changed with you as
well so would that be upset I hope you guys enjoyed this video feel free to
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