But the next thing ladies and gentlemen I wanna share with you, that some of you already
know, that it’s hard. It’s not easy. It’s hard changing your life. It was very difficult,
to pick myself up each day believing that I can do it. There were times when I doubted
myself. I said God why? Why is this happening to me? I’m just trying to take care of my
children and my mother, I’m not trying to steal or rob from anybody. Why did this have
to happen to me? It was very hard. And here’s what I want to say to you. For those of you
who have experienced some hardships, don’t give up on your dream. You know it’s going
to be hard but find out what will make it worth it for you. I’m the one, I’m the
one to make this happen, I’m the one to become successful in this business. You guys
have to understand that pain teaches. When you feel pain, it should not be something
that you wallow in, and that you cry about. Maybe you cry about it for a day, okay? That’s
acceptable. The point is that when you have something that doesn’t go the way you want,
that is a trigger for you to go out and create a situation where it is impossible for you
to not get what you want. And that’s the difference between people who succeed and
people who don’t. People who succeed understand that pain teaches them
to level the up. They don’t whine and cry and about how shit is unfair. I want you guys
to realise when people tell you to set realistic and obtainable goals, I truly believe those
people are insulting you. Cause they don’t think that you fragile little ego can take
the heartache of disappointment. The truth is guys, the reason I say I set huge goals
isn’t just because I think I can accomplish them, it’s because I know if I don’t accomplish
them, those unrealised expectations hurt. The disappointment you feel when you set massive
goals and don’t hit them is a great thing. Because I take the pain and I put it into
productive action. I take every negative thing that someone says to me, about me, or whatever
it is they believe or don’t believe about me, and I use it to go out and do shit. You
have to have motivation coming from all aspects because becoming successful is hard. It’s
very important, as you hold on to that dream, there are moments when you’re going to doubt
yourself. The rough times are gonna come but they have not come to stay they have come
to pass. It’s very important for you to know that. Don’t say I’m having a bad
day. Say I’m having a character building day. It’s also necessary that you look for
ways to always find a way to pull it out when everybody else thinks that you’re defeated.
That you’ve got to take personal responsibility to know in order to become successful, you’ve
got to make it your personal business to do it. If you know why you’re doing something,
when the hard times come and they’re gonna come, when the disappointments and the rejections
come and they’re gonna come by the truckloads, your reason will be your rod and staff to
comfort you.