Let me play you a scenario you’re all too familiar with:
You wake up in the morning and roll over to grab your phone..
Hoping you’ll see a notification from the girl you just finished dreaming about.
Your phone is drier than the sahara desert…
“That’s strange” you say to yourself… “she should’ve texted me back by now.”
“Let me investigate.”
You crack open the holy trinity of Instagram, TikTok, and Snapchat to monitor her activity
over the past 12 hours.
“Who is she with?
What is she doing?
Why hasn’t she answered me yet?”
“I need answers.”
And just as quickly as you utter the words, “I NEED answers”, you realize…
“Holy shit, I’m being needy right now.
I’m simping, I’m a simp!”
So you quickly open youtube and turn to your most trusted advisor and dating god, Based
Zeus.
Well I have the answers you “NEED”, my needy, I mean, loyal disciple haha.
#1 You keep round the clock surveillance on her.
If you keep your mind occupied with her and her stories, and thirst traps, and what’
she’s doing, it’s just going to reinforce this loop of you thinking about her and liking
her and wanting her,
You’re gonna want reciprocation, the one way phone screen consumption of her isn’t
natural.
Listen bro, it’s not your job to run surveillance on the people in your life like you’re the
chinese government.
It’s a simple concept, if you spend less time watching her movements, you’ll spend
less time thinking about her and thus be less needy.
#2 She doesn’t like you, and you know it
If you KNOW a girl likes you and you got it in the bag, you have no reason to be needy.
The only time you’re needy is when you lack security of where you stand in the relationship.
This is why guys end up becoming the clingy ex boyfriend who blows up her phone.
You’re insecure about how she feels and dying to know whether you still have a chance.
#3 You overestimate, and place too much importance on texting.
If she doesn’t respond to your snap or text once, you’re running to open your computer
and phone to track her movements on snap maps and every other social media - listen to me,
CHILL out bro.
Guys use texting as a wishing well.
They go to it every time they want to feel good, or they need a boost of validation from
the girl.
Because they think if a girl responds to their text, it means she’s still into you and
hasn't lost interest yet.
Avoid this inclination like the plague.
#4 You have an overly romantic, idealized version of her in your head.
Most guys on the younger side spend so much time in their head that they create an unrealistic
idea of the girl in their head before they ever spend time with her.
They end up becoming obsessed with the idea of the girl in their head, without knowing
the girl for who she really is.
This brings me to point #5 -
Your life revolves around her.
Once you have this fake version of her in your head, your whole life becomes about her.
And once your entire life is her, you eliminate the possibility that she’ll find you attractive.
Your life should never revolve around anyone but you, especially not someone who you haven’t
even gone on a date with or even hooked up with!
#6 You don’t have other options.
I’m not saying you need to sleep with every girl you see.
I’m just saying you shouldn’t close yourself off to potential connections and relationships
with other people until you know for sure, for sure, that this girl is worth the time
and energy.
And usually that point doesn’t come until after a few dates.
Talk to other girls, hangout with other girls, connect with lots of women, you don’t have
to sleep with or hookup with all of them, but see what’s out there and show yourself
that you’re capable of getting women - so that you’re not simping and acting scarce
over one singular girl.
And that my friends is it.
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I hope to see you in there, Zeus out.